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i want to stop liking him!
last lear i was like obessed with this one guy.he liked me for a while but we never went out. like everytime i see him flirting or hsnging out with other girls i get super jealous!i want to stop but for some reason i still do. can someone help me out on how to get over him???
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Ok..i see, from your opinion, does he still like you or not? First, find that out. Second, you cannot always revolve your whole day looking at him or thinking if him, what good is it if your constantly looking at him with other girls. Right? Go out! with your friends, to the mall, movies, or the park. Take your mind of him! I know its very easy to say, but hard to do, but try it. You may not think it may work, but you'll be suprised...
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Just remind yourself that it was LAST YEAR that you liked him... that was the past, now it's the future. Think of all of the reasons why you like him, and why you don't like him. then write it down on a piece of paper and decide... is he really that worth it?? then when you've made your decision, rip it, shred it into a million pieces. ha ha ha, that's what I do. It's so no one can read it and also it makes you more confident. thats what I've been told.
to forget about him, just think about the thing that he does that makes you soo mad. Like flirting with other girls, and hanging out with them. It will make you want to stop thinking about him. Or you can just find a new guy. Go to the mall with your friends and check out guys... maybe you'll even get to be friends with one and next thing you know, you'll forget all about "what's his name" and be happy with this new guy.
If you do still like him- then call him up or find someway to communicate with him and tell him how you really feel. I know it can be hard because of rejection, but if he does say no.. don't go crying the the corner... just be like, Oh, alright well that's ok. Can we still be friends?
If he does reject you, be calm and relaxed, that shows that you are confident and not intimidated by him. and trust me, guys love that in a girl!!
Hope everything goes ok
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