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This girl from class
Hi 14/m i am a freshman in high school and my first day was today.I met this girl in my math class she just moved here from Australia and she is kinda shy so hasn't made many friends. And i like her and was wondering what i should do to impress her. I sit right next to her soo yeah we talk a lot. Girls, what do u like to talk about with guys and what gets u goin, (if you know what i mean ;)lol) Please help me, even f it's a simple answer. Thanks!!!
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i am from australia alright
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now us girls from australia is she likes bands talk about silver chair and that *they are australian* and just like DUH ask her about her self and ask her what its is like over here (in australia) oki dokis hope it helps
teehee i am from australia im
btw u americans have funny acents
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Talk to her.
Ask her questions and listen to her. Dont interrupt her with "that story from your life that what she said reminded you of"
Show interest. Ask about her home, if shes just moved then she will love the chance to talk about home. General "whats it like" questions are enough usually to get the ball rolling.
Also. While it can be tempting to spend as much time around her as possible, its far better to just "see" each other. When I was in high school I had a number of friends who would always make the mistake of walking a girl to every class, meeting them for lunch, finding them before and after school. Its a better idea to just pass in the hallways a few times a day and talk to her in class and either before or after school.
Once youve had a few conversations if you wanna ask her to a movie or something, go for it.
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ayy boii!
im arielle.
ummm well smile a lot. and laugh at her gay jokes..ahaha. and if yo want to "get her goin" then get her reaally drunk and start touching her. its a good time
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Well i like guys that have a sense of humor, and make me smile. and when i talk they seem to take interest and look at me in the eyes sometimes. Also some girls like guys that could be silly but sensitive.
and on what to talk about, ask her questions about Australia, make little fun comments here and there, and just be yourself. Because some girls can sense when a guy is not being himself, and also if you act like someone you are not, she might not be interested in the person you are trying to be other then just being yourself.
hope everything works out :]
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This is going to sound so cliche, but just be yourself. If you go out of your way to try to make her think you're cool, she's really going to think you're trying too hard.
As to what you should talk about, the subject doesn't matter. What does matter is how you act during it the conversation. Be interested. Don't look around the room and don't give one word answers. Make eye contact and smile.
Also, make the initiative to ask her out. Girls aren't too fond of being the ones to ask.
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I'm 14/f and I like it when guys are funny. So when you are around her, make some funny jokes (not stupid like blonde jokes) and get her to laugh. Also, I ilke it when guys compliment me or help me with things. So maybe walk her to her locker in between classes, or hold her things while she's walking, open the door for her etc. Oh and girls love it when a guy surprises her, so you can surprise her by "accedentally" bumping into her in the hallway. But be careful, don't do too much too soon because she will think you are a stalker. ha ha that's what happened to my friend. but anyways, just flirt with her. Stare at her a lot (but smile at the same time, so she doesn't think there's sometihng in her teeth or whatever, ha ha ha) and just be plain nice to her.
Then when you start to get to know her, ask her if she want's to hang out sometime at your house etc. if she's too scared or sometihng, quickly say its with a group so she won't feel too pressured or something.
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Ask her to sit with you and your friends at lunch, or to come out with you and all your friends one day. Not as a date or anything. But if she doesn't know a lot of people, her social life is probably not so full right now. I've been new at schools four times, and until you meet a group of friends, all you ever want is for someone to invite you somewhere. She'll think it was incredibly considerate and sweet of you to ask her. You can just be like, "Who do you sit with at lunch?" "-Her answer-" "Okay. And, um, if you ever want to sit with me and my friends, you should feel free." Orrrr you could walk her to lunch, and when you get there, just be like, "Wanna sit with me and my friends?"
You could do the same thing to invite her out with you. Just be like, "Hey, me and some of my friends are going to the movies on Thursday after school. Want to come?"
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