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no longer bfs


Question Posted Monday August 27 2007, 7:38 pm

ok so i used to have a bffl and over the summer we got into this huge fight that changed everything!we started to become friends again but all summer she started hanging out with this girl and they became bffls! she started hanging out with tons of guys and acting really slutish. now that the school year has started back up she barley ever talks to me and and she is always talking about how much she loves her new friends and she gives them nicknames.i dont want to say anything mean because we just now started to become friends but shes changed sooo much its like shes not even the same person! can someone help me?

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Volleyball2150 answered Tuesday August 28 2007, 11:44 am:
Just like what breezy said, you won't have a bff your whole life. You had a bff once when you were 4, you thought that he/she would stay with you forever? nope... about 37% of bff's are most likely to stay together through their life.

My friend is like her too, last year in school we were bff's now she's changed and It gets on my nerves. But the best you can do is talk to her aobut it and reminde her the good times you've had together. Like invite her over for a sleepover and do the silly things that you did back then. Go shopping together or watch a movie. Just spend more time with her and don't let go of her. I highly reccommened that you DONT' ignore her, If you don't tell her what's wrong, then she won't know whats wrong. Ignoring people doesn't solve anything... it just makes the other person confused because they have no idea what's going on, and eventually they will just think that YOU don't want to be friends with HER. and that' not true.

I wish you the best of luck
-volleyball2150

PS: even if she isn't a keeper, it's not the end of the world. Just be yourself and you'll make new friends

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