about

Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.



I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.



I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.



I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.



For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)



Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.


advice

I have this one friend that i just met and he's thinking about commiting suicide how do I change his mind? We all care about him and he just won't listen to us! We have told hm that we care about him and would hate to see this happen to him but he just wont listen to us! What do I do? Keep in mind that no matter what were not going to send him to see a shrink!

He is in an awkward stage right now. It's kind of like he is shutting everyone and what they are saying out of his life...it's a mental thing. And sadly he is the only one who can stop himself. It is important to keep reminding him how much he means to you and how he shouldn't take his life for granted like that. But sometimes words are not enough in a situation like this. Why don't you and the rest of his friends take him out and try to get him to have fun. Maybe then he will realize there is something to live for. Because right now he is probably so unhappy with himself, everyone, and life in general. Spend a lot of time with him and keep an eye out for him. Good luck with everything! Love you! -Mandee

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Most of my friends don't like one of my friends, and there is a good reason for this. Last night, I slept over my friends house who is one of the ones who doesnt like the other friend...and she was sayin mean stuff 2 the other friend on IM, and then I got on my screen name and the one who no one likes IMs me and asks "where r u?" so i signed off quick ssayin i hadda go, but I think she might've had an idea i was right there and think i was takin part in it. I just don't wanna get in the middle of the whole thing. There are some good reasons the rest of my friends don't like her, but I don't want to stop being friends with her or any of the other ones. If she confronts me again and asks where I was and finds out I was right there, what do I say?

Tell her truthfully where you were. But also let her know that you weren't taking sides or diliking her just because the rest of your friends do. If some kind of fight starts talk to the rest of your friends and maybe tell them that there are some good qualities and some bad..but you do like this girl for how she is and that they should respect that and not get upset about her. And as you mentioned tell them you don't want to be a part of thsi fight. It's just not fair to you because you like all of them. But be honest with your friends about everything. Love you! -Mandee

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My bf has this friend brit and i am almost positive she likes him and like he asked me would you be mad if i saw a girl in a swimsuit and she was biking and i was to and i went up to talk to her? and i said umm no..? and he said o cuz i saw brit. and another time he went to her house and he is like brit wants us to go over to her house 8 or 9 in the morning but he didnt go so thats good. idk she is just prettier then me and skinnier then me .. thats when we sorta got in a bad situation i told him i thought i didnt meet up to his standards and he said in otherwards you think you arent good enough for me? and i said yeah and he said well if anything your to good for me but that was awhile ago .. so what should i do or even tell him?!

Okay Sweetie, in his eyes you should be the most beeautiful girl he has ever seem and you mean everything to him. He seems like a sweetheart. But if you think/know that there is something going on between him and Brit or that he might like her you should tell him and get it out of your system. Be really open and listen to what he says. It's never good to start out with something like: " Okay...I know you like this other girl, what the hell is going on?" lol. Instead you could say "I really like you and care about you so much, but lately it just seems like you kind of like Britt. I could be wrong, but if you do like her, tell me." Let him talk about things and maybe then you'll get your answer. Because if he really does like that other girl, then it most likely won't make your relationship worthwhile. If he says he doesn't I would trust what he says and keep your relationship strong. Good luck in whatever happens! Love you! -Mandee

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I have this new girl in my neighborhood. My friend really likes her but I don't. Because when my friend is with her they ignore me. Now that it's summer they're always having a water fight, and they're arn't inviteing me to have a water fight. Should I ask if I can play or just watch them have the best time of their lives while I do nothing but watch tv. I need someone to answer me quick.

This is another common problem with friends. But instead of watching them have the best time of their lives you really should ask to join. Because seriously, you are friends with one of the girls, right? And I know that you don't like the other new girl...but maybe if you get to know her you might find out she's kind of nice. If you still feel the same way and they're still leaving you out all the time, maybe it's time for you to hang out with other friends of yours. Just because they can have fun doesn't mean that you can't. It's summer, so have as much fun as you can!!! Love you! -Mandee

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Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!!

Aw babe, if there is a time when as you said " I don't know how to act around him" you are probably insecure. So, it's been 12 years and you feel uncomfortable around him? That's not so good. If I were you I would talk to both your mother and him. You don't want to feel insecure at home, that's unhealthy. And it's good to have a bond with your parents and family. You could start out by telling your step dad that you think that you don't please him but you would like to. And ask if you did anything wrong and maybe you two can talk some things out. Tell him you would rather have more of the good times when you can get along with him. He could also be stressed. If he is a hard working guy, he probably has a lot going on at a short period of time. But maybe if you told him these things and that since he already knows his kids well, he should get to spend some free time with you. Then you can talk to him and try to sort things out. I hope all turns out well! Love you! -Mandee

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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe.

Aw, sweetie, it will be okay! It's typical for sudden changes in friendships. As you start getting older, people change and sometimes they take it too far. You both have different opinions on things and may not agree on a lot of things like you used to. But again that's not unusual. I'm not going to tell you to break the frienship or try and keep it, because that's your call. And you do whatever you think is best for you. You want to be happy and you don't want too much stress building up on you like that. If you give it a lot of thought, you might come up with the better choice. It's not the easiest thing to decide, I know. There was a time when I had to end a friendship, it's been 5 years and the first 3 was difficult, but now I couldn't be happier because I made the right choice. And then I had a best friend for like 2 years and she started getting bossier and I had to call that one off too. But the main idea is that I know that I did the right choice. And I'm sure you will too. You know this girl, I don't..and this is something that you will have to think about. Maybe if you wanted you could give her one more chance. Be honest let her know what you're thinking about and how she is starting to get meaner and things are not the same. If she respects that, I think she deserves another chance. But if she doesn't take that to consideration, maybe it's time to decide what to do. Good luck to whatever you do! Love you! -Mandee

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I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think?

If the love and relationship is strong enough, then it will work. Sometimes long distance relationships either lead to problems or make it realize how much more you need him. I've been through it, I know the feelings that go through your mind. It's confusing, because you have no idea what the other person is doing. For me it was being really alone that scared me. I really can't tell you truthfully if the relationship would work out or not. Who knows what's in the future for you both. I sincerely hope it works out for you. If not, you have your whole life ahead of you. You'll experince more, go through guys and some relationships may work and some not. If you and him work it out hard enough and really want this to work, try your hardest and if it fails at least you gave it your best shot. Good luck!! Love you! -Mandee

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Emotions

I feel as if i'm outside myself watching life. It feels so stange, like a cat in new land.
YOu think I have no emotion, then you don't know me. If you could understand me, just listen you can hear my thoughts. The volume is always hight never quiet.
my smile is automatic, like a machine programed.
I want to tell you more, I want you to understand.
I don't know who I am. Too many voices. too many emotions.
I feel so lost! No one understands. I'm so insecure just waiting for your secure.
I reach out, I yell but my arms don't move not a sound escapes my mouth.
I'm so alone, So many voices, so many emotions....
Copyright ©2004 Kathleen Janette Bare

Is this a good poem? Let me know. I just wrote it.

I really like it!! You're very very talented! Keep writing poems...it's one of those talents I wish I had! You did a really good job!! =) Love ya! -Mandee

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hey..i got a problem with friends.they used to be my good friends..but now they hate me..i dun really know why, i just heard they hate me because they are jealous about me getting good results in examination last month and they say i'm proud. i want all of us to be friends as me used to.help me can my atitude

Hunnie, you should be proud!! Getting good results on an exam is wonderful, and that should be no reason for your friends to start hating you. It doesn't seem like you have an attitude..I think it's more of your friends causing this than you. You'll have to talk to them about this. They could be jealous easily, who knows. Or if you do actually have a problem with your attitude you could tell them you'll try and control it. Since hating you because you got good results on the exam is what you heard you truly don't know that's the reason why they are mad. Ask them why. It could be something different. Just try and talk to them about things. It could be a little phase that they'll come out of!! I hope everything turns out okay! Love ya! -Mandee

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wat candy is your fave:
A)Hersheys (with or without almonds)
B)Twix
C)M&Ms (any kind of M&Ms)
D)Other (if you pick this kind wat is your fave)


thanx!! luv ya!!

Ooooooh!!! Candy!!!! My favorite would be B) Twix!! I love Twix, I could eat it like everyday and never get bored of it!! Haha. Love ya too Oh and Happy 4th of July!!! -Mandee

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my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~

Aww, yeah that's a tough thing to go through. I remember. lol Well, have you tried telling him about it? Tell him how he hurts you and that he means so much to you, but right now you question the relationship. If he is understanding and doesn't laugh about it or go on about how you're wrong then he oviously doesn't care about your feelings. And part of a great relationship is caring about the other one and how they feel. You want a guy that will understand you or at least make an effort to change his ways if needed it just shows that he loves you that much. If he doesn't try to understand you then all he cares about is himself. That's at least to my knowledge of relationships from what i've went through. I hope that helps! Take care hunnie! Love ya -Mandee

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I HAVE A REALLY BAD HABIT ;; I SUCK MY THUMB I HAVE ALL MY LIFE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP ME STOP IVE TRIED EVERYTHING NUTHYN SEEMS TO WORK ;; MUCH LOVE KATIE

Try keeping your hands busy. Like typing, writing, playing the piano. Haha, I don't know something like that. Try putting a bitter sauce on your fingers to prevent you from sucking your thumb. Maybe it's something that you will just grow out of. Sometimes habits are something that you naturally grow out of as you're older. Sometimes not. But don't feel ashamed...everyone has their own habits. I used to bit my finger nails when I was little but I grew out of it. And now I have long pretty nails. Hehe. If you want to break this habit so much, you'll have to work at it and give it everything you have. Good luck! Love you -Mandee

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This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/

Don't feel weird to ask this!! Sweetie, you do what you want with your lawn! lol Some guys like it, and some guys don't. But it's yours so you do what you want with it! As for me yes I shave all of it...but that's just what I do. You can do whatever you want with yours! lol Love ya -Mandee

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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks*

No way hunnie! I agree with you, if you want to be open about your sexuality that's perfectly fine! A lot of people will say things because that's just how they are. And there will always be people in your life like that. And to some people the word "slut" will mean something else. But truthfully I don't think you're a slut at all! Maybe others will see things differently, but to me you are no slut. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex, most people do! Haha. Love ya -Mandee

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hey, i'm kristen! i'm 13 years old and we live in a good town where nothing bad like eva happens. when my mom isn't home she doesn't let me go ride my bike around the good part of my town, or let any of my friends come over when she's not home. my mom never used to work in the summer but this summer she does. so far this summer all i did was go online and play my softball. my brother gets to go to all of his friends houses on our side of the block, but i'm not. he's 11!!! how can i get my parents to be less strict?

Hey Kristen!! Doesn't that suck when younger siblings get more privileges?! But you still live with your parents and unfortunally...they're in charge. But to make the best out of a bad situation try to understand why they are so strict. Maybe they had strict parents as well or from bad experinces when they were younger they don't want you doing the same. Whatever the case may be try to convince them that you deserve some time to ride your bike and have friends over. They probably think of you as a child still, but you're not so you need to let them know. If you throw a fit or start getting offensive towards them that will make you seem like you're not old enough to have those same rights as your brother. I don't think that your parents favor your brother over you, they have their reasons for parenting this way. You might want to let them know that you are older, and if you do recieve privileges they will give you responsiblity and get your ready for problems that may come in the future. Good luck, Love you -Mandee

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wat do u do if ure friends b/f is flirting with u??!??!?!??!?!??!?? help me wat do i do!!!!??? quick!!!!!

If he is flirting with you constantly then it's hard but it's time to either A.) Talk to him about it or B.) Tell your friend. Sweetie, you need to calm down a little bit and figure what you're going to do. If you want to take my advice and choose either A or B it might be helpful. I know how it is because my friend's boyfriend flirted with me all of the time, finally I told him about it and told my friend. And my friend was very thankful at the end.
For A. You should maybe remind him he has a girlfriend. Like laugh and say "So what's going on with you and _____? Or if you want to be upfront ou could say " It seems like you're flirting with me all of the time and it makes me uncomfortable because it feels like I am interfering with your relationship. If he doesn't take those hints it's time to tell your friend. Would you want your friend to let you know if your boyfriend was flirting with other girls? Probably, so just think of it that way. Be very relaxed and just tell her what happened. She may take it the wrong way and says you're just jealous..he would never do that!! But give her a couple days maybe even a week to get over it. When she finds out for herself, she will thank you. This is like one of the hardest things to deal with. You're not alone lol it's happened to me more than once. Good luck babe! Love you -Mandee

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can anyone tell me what they did for their room to make it look nice, some ideas they wish they did or are going to do.. maybe an idea about how to decorate a picture frame or make one ,, things like that!! please help!!!

Of course!! Well, I can describe my room in my house. Maybe it will help! Hehe! My room was a romantic type, and I kept it that way when I moved. Okay, I'm a girly girl..I love to be loved, I love romance..so I brought that all to my room.

My room ~ The wall color I kept like a soft wine-red color...it gives you that romance feeling! Haha! The bed is my main focus however...I have silky sheets, satin sheets, tons and tons of pillion, soft blankets...hearts teddy bears even roses. The colors I use on my bed is that same soft red wine color, a carmel color, and a pearly white color. They all blend in well nice. And I have this material hanging above the ceiling draping over my bed..It's a soft rose colors and it's just makes it look so cute and so sexy!! I love candles and incense, so I have TONS of those. And normally I take rose petals and throw them everywhere * more romance*! Haha. There is so much to my room, but if I went on that would take up a page! Haha.

About the picture frame thing...great idea, and inexpensive!! To decorate a picture frame I would paint it any color you want and use glitter and maybe wrote out Friends ( or whatever would be in the picture) or you could get sparkles..I don't know. Get crazy!!

I really would need to know more about you. Because you could be a whole different person than I am. And maybe not so into all that romance stuff. That's just me though. Umm...you could theme your room to whatever you like. Maybe if you had a favorite basket ball team you could use their colors for your walls all that basketball stuff. You know. It's whatever fits your personality. Good luck, Love you -Mandee

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i like this one guy a lot but he doesnt know about it and im friends with most of his friends and hes friends with most of my friends and of course were pretty good friends and i dont know how to tell him that i like him because im afraid he will take it the wrong way and wont want to be friends with me anymore and ive kept this a secret for about a year and i havent really gone out with a lot of people and hes only gone out with 1 person which was my friend.. i mean i want him to know that i like him but then again i dont what should i do?

Hunnie, just tell him!! Seriously, it will get stress off you! Some guys are jerks, other ones are very sweet! But there are some things about him that make you like him, right? If you like him, and want to get to know him better that's never going to happen until you let him know or give hints. But first you need to make up your mind. Do you want to let him know that you like him or not? If you want him to know but you're too shy to say anything right now, start flirting with him and giving him hints like that. I wouldn't wait too long because what if someone else takes him before you do? Then you'll never get that chance to be with him. But whatever you decide to do good luck!! He might want to be with you as much as you want to be with him if you let him know!! Good luck in whatever you do!! Love you -Mandee

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I really like this guy who is a year older than me and can drive (I cant for a few more months) Well, my mom knows about him and said its fine if we hang out. He invited me to a party with a bunch of people but she said no!! I was so pissed off because she said we could hang out but she wont let me go to parties... any ideas to convince her to let me go?! Thanks!!

Hey babe! My mother and I are like best friends, we are very very close...so she let's me do anything, and she really has a lot of trust in me. Building trust is important in a family relationship. You'll have to start by compromising. You could say" Well, what if I go to this guy's party, but come home at a certain time?" That way you get what you want and she can keep a track of how long you're there. If she still does not let you go, don't start yelling. Yelling at her or ignoring her makes it seem like you are immature. Which I know you aren't, but soemtimes it makes it seem that way. Just calmly continue talking to her, listen to her and her ideas. Maybe you could explain that parties are a great way to meet people, and you want to spend more time with him and his friends to get to know his social life more. If you start building trust and maturity your mom should have no problem letting you do things. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you! Love you -Mandee

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Hey...
This is an awkward question...but when do you start to shave"down there..?" Everyone says its not necessary but ..I am joining swim team this year as a freshman..and idk.....thanks.....(oh and im 14 gonna be 15 in october)

Not an awkward question at all!! =) There is no certain time to start shaving down there. But maybe you should try this summer, just to sort of get used to it and everything. Seriously though, choose a time whenever you want. It's up to you!! Okay, well good luck on the swim team! By the way, I LOVE SWIMMING TOO!!! Love you -Mandee

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