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Mom's orders..
I really like this guy who is a year older than me and can drive (I cant for a few more months) Well, my mom knows about him and said its fine if we hang out. He invited me to a party with a bunch of people but she said no!! I was so pissed off because she said we could hang out but she wont let me go to parties... any ideas to convince her to let me go?! Thanks!!
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Well I've noticed that the whole "But mom everyone is going to be there and I will be so stupid if I don't go!!" or something along those lines...
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you should just talk to your mom more!! like me and my mom are best frineds!! i tell her everything!! tell her she needs to trust you more!! and talk to her and tell her more about whats goin on!! cause ya know.. Frankiie (my love heheh!!) he's 18!! but my mom trusts me, s0o im allowed to like.. sleep over his house and things and my mom knows it!! but just tell your mom how muchh you care about him!! gooood luckk gurl!! hope you get to go to that partayy!!! :)!!! <3 liza!
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); Hey babe! My mother and I are like best friends, we are very very close...so she let's me do anything, and she really has a lot of trust in me. Building trust is important in a family relationship. You'll have to start by compromising. You could say" Well, what if I go to this guy's party, but come home at a certain time?" That way you get what you want and she can keep a track of how long you're there. If she still does not let you go, don't start yelling. Yelling at her or ignoring her makes it seem like you are immature. Which I know you aren't, but soemtimes it makes it seem that way. Just calmly continue talking to her, listen to her and her ideas. Maybe you could explain that parties are a great way to meet people, and you want to spend more time with him and his friends to get to know his social life more. If you start building trust and maturity your mom should have no problem letting you do things. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you! Love you -Mandee </span>
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let her meet him. if she likes him and sees that hes a kool guy then she'll proly be more willing to let you go with him. and let her make all the ground rules like be home when she says and call her to check up that way she'll trust you more and let you go.
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tell your mother thats its the samething as in hanging out but with more people. hope that helps.
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Ask her nicely or say friends will go with you and never leave you alone! Good luck!
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