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i want him to know that i like him but then again i dont


Question Posted Sunday June 27 2004, 8:58 pm

i like this one guy a lot but he doesnt know about it and im friends with most of his friends and hes friends with most of my friends and of course were pretty good friends and i dont know how to tell him that i like him because im afraid he will take it the wrong way and wont want to be friends with me anymore and ive kept this a secret for about a year and i havent really gone out with a lot of people and hes only gone out with 1 person which was my friend.. i mean i want him to know that i like him but then again i dont what should i do?


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Katlyn answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 3:54 am:
I think you should just tell him because if you don't he will start to go out with other girls and you will feel very jelouse and thats not good either so i really suggest telling him and even if he doesnt like you back i dont think he would break your friendship i mean sure it would be awkward for a bit but eventually things would smooth over so dont think about the bad things that could happen concentrate on the good ask him out or tell him you like him and ask him to just hang out that way he can see how much you like him and it will give him more of a chance to see you for who you really are.

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xo_dream answered Monday June 28 2004, 5:10 am:
If you want him to know, now is probably the best time to tell him. You don't want someone else to snatch him up first, do you? Just tell him that you have feelings for him, but make it clear that if he doesn't feel the same way, you don't want it to ruin your friendship! Good luck :o)

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taryn answered Monday June 28 2004, 12:52 am:
hun, if you dont go up to bat, somebody else will.you shoudn't really tell it to his face but an easy way is to go to a friends house and three way him or just call him two way. tell your friend to ask him if he likes you and act as if your not there, if he says 'yes' or 'why?' then she should say 'oh, cuz she reeeaaally likes you a lot.' and if he says 'no' he doesnt like you your friend should say she was just askin. but thats only if its a definate no. if he says he likes you as a friend, that usually means a guy likes you he just doesnt wanna say anything if you don't like him unless he says it as if hes annoyed by the question.

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sweetiepie answered Sunday June 27 2004, 9:27 pm:
Hi! I was in the same situation with my crush. What I did was leave a letter in his locker or call him. Tell him you have a crush on him and ask about how he feels about you. For me, as it tuned out, he was also crushing on me!

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Mandee answered Sunday June 27 2004, 9:27 pm:
Hunnie, just tell him!! Seriously, it will get stress off you! Some guys are jerks, other ones are very sweet! But there are some things about him that make you like him, right? If you like him, and want to get to know him better that's never going to happen until you let him know or give hints. But first you need to make up your mind. Do you want to let him know that you like him or not? If you want him to know but you're too shy to say anything right now, start flirting with him and giving him hints like that. I wouldn't wait too long because what if someone else takes him before you do? Then you'll never get that chance to be with him. But whatever you decide to do good luck!! He might want to be with you as much as you want to be with him if you let him know!! Good luck in whatever you do!! Love you -Mandee

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Brandonsbabe1111 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 9:23 pm:
you should deff. go for it gurl!!!! tell him whats up withh youuu and how you feel!! a year is a real long time sweety!! you should just let him know everything, and ya never knowww gurl!! maybe he could feel the same wayy!! you gottta let it all out!! you'll feel better and maybe get a new bf ;) goood luckk babe!!! have funnn and do what you gotta doo!!! <3 liza :)

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