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My Friend
Most of my friends don't like one of my friends, and there is a good reason for this. Last night, I slept over my friends house who is one of the ones who doesnt like the other friend...and she was sayin mean stuff 2 the other friend on IM, and then I got on my screen name and the one who no one likes IMs me and asks "where r u?" so i signed off quick ssayin i hadda go, but I think she might've had an idea i was right there and think i was takin part in it. I just don't wanna get in the middle of the whole thing. There are some good reasons the rest of my friends don't like her, but I don't want to stop being friends with her or any of the other ones. If she confronts me again and asks where I was and finds out I was right there, what do I say?
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Just tell her the whole story.if she has a problem with it then she has a prblem.if she asks y wernt you doing anything about the one girl being mean 2 me...then just say..SHE WAS BEING MEAN 2 YOU? then you should talk 2 the girl that was being mean to the other girl and say someting liek...sorry but i dont thing you should b mean to ________.
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Tell her truthfully where you were. But also let her know that you weren't taking sides or diliking her just because the rest of your friends do. If some kind of fight starts talk to the rest of your friends and maybe tell them that there are some good qualities and some bad..but you do like this girl for how she is and that they should respect that and not get upset about her. And as you mentioned tell them you don't want to be a part of thsi fight. It's just not fair to you because you like all of them. But be honest with your friends about everything. Love you! -Mandee
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Tell her you had no part in it at all and you dont want to get in the middle and you dont want to lose any friends at all you still want to remain her friend and everybody else's friend to so thats why you dont want to be caught in the middle of someone else's battles-trix
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Tell her the truth because friends do tell friends the truth. Just tell her you didn't want to be stuck in the middle of the situation and you didn't want a big fight to happen. Just tell her the truth!
xoxo Kourtney
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Tell her the truth, if she is really your friend she would understand. Just tell her you weren't taking part in it, which sounds like you weren't. I'm sure you were trying to get them to stop, tell her that to, if you were. u cant lie to ur friends. if they dont like u for who are u or who ur hanging out with then there a waist of ur time. thats there problem that they dont like u for who u are. if they get mad at u then u need to talk to them about it n see what u can do to help and fix it. but dont lie to them
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Alrighty. Welll, you could 1) Deny it and tell her a little white lie, but then again. Lieing is not the greatest thing you can do in this situation. But if I were you I would just tell her that some of your friends are a little cautious about her and you just wanted to see why this was and maybe make things better for her. Good Luck!!
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I hope Im getting this, so your best friend doesnt like one of the girls you Hang Around. I think maybe you should tell her the truth. If she Hates them then that doesnt mean just because she Hates them doesnt mean you have to also. She cant make the decsion of who is going to be your friend or not. Best Of Luck..My Screenname is Stteepphhaanniie if you wanna talk!
-Stephanie
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