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Location: new york
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Age: 13
AIM: renileye4LiFe
Member Since: July 10, 2004
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Last Update: July 11, 2004
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can a girl die form having sex? (link)
well not from just having it...if u get an std or hiv or something...then yeah.


ok i think my friends mad at me but shes saying somthing thats not true and she like wont talk to me...i really dont know what to do could you help me? (link)
well maybe it is true.maybe she is telling the truth to someone that is lieing.that might b a possibility.maybe u even lost a good friend. just look back 2 something that u did. that might help u understand what is happening.


im trying to have a new look for 8 grade. I need tips on what kind of hair is in? A purm or what?
What cloths or shops are in? HELP!!!!!!!! (link)
ok...if u want a NEW look.DONT b liek anyone else. do something new.seriously,being like everyone else isnt that great. in my school i got a purm 2 months b4 school was let out 4 summer break.liek no one else in my school had a purm. the 'straght look' was still in.well then this summer so many gurls from my school got their hair purmed.i was SO MAD!and its just because this one girl(shes kinda popular) what i did 2 my hair 2 make it look liek it does(she asked me). and im so mad. seriously u dont wanna b someone that follows anyone else.just try something totally new.


I'm going to a new school in fall. How can I make people like me there? (link)
just b your self.thats all u can realy do. and maybe u can find one person that u think u could b good friends with and try ad b friends with them and just ask them 2 tell u aobut some of the stuff in ur school and tell u about some of the kids in ur new school.ur new friend's friends will probably b ur friends too soon.


ok.. like 3 years ago i decided to decorate my room with posters and pictures from all the musicians i liked. well this was in 7th grade and i liked britney spears and all that, but i hate that kind of music now.
i want to take all those posters down and put up new ones with good bands (thursday, dashboard, NOFX, ataris, new found glory.. etc.) does anyone kow of any magizines that have these kinds of bands in them, instead of the teen mags that have justin timberlake and chingy..
i really appreciate your help!!

hugs and kisses,

~simplysweetstar~ (link)
ok i love all those bands 2...the best magazine 2 get is alternative press.i would get one issue in the store then order it by mail...its so much cheeper if u get it in the mail rather than going 2 the store 2 get it.also another good idea is maybe u can shurch 4 bands u liek onlnie and u can print out some pictures or u will probably find a store that sells posters in it.


well I think I am a stylish person but I want to be me not everyone eles. I mean everyone shops at aripostle or whatever but they never used to tell I started wearing it. I mean it was cool for a while but now its like get your oun style
Signed,
wants to be herself
15/f (link)
well what ever you wear,someone else is gonna b wearing something like it.it realy depends on what u wanna look like.if u wanan look liek a prep then shop at aero or american eagle.if u wanna b skater...u need 2 shop at pac sun.if u wanna b gothic then shop at hot topic. if u wanna b punk...shop at hot topic but buy band shirts and shop at pac sun too.also u can shop on line which is probably the best choice.sometimes stores in the mall doesnt have the same things that some of the stores onlnie has.


I'm having trouble falling asleep. Does anyone now anything that could help me fall asleep easier and faster? (link)
you can ask your parents or docter for sleeping pills.also maybe u can listen 2 music that u liek at night when u try and sleep.that usually helps me.


i know this sounds stupid, but what is a bj? i've heard people say that but i dont know what they're talking about..can someone tell me? (link)
thats a blow job...or u can call it giving head 2 a guy.


How do i tell my parents i have an eating disorder? i promised my best friend i would do something about it after her reading my journal and finding out. im miserable and depressed and cant stop. how do i tell them?

Signed
help (link)
just tell them. it's an eating disorder...if you dont want it to get worce then just b like...mom, dad....i have an eating disorder. it's better to just tell them than 2 make it get worse.


I like this guy alot, and he's my friends neighbor there no problem. we both flirtall the time (anthony and me). its just that at sometimes he'll go i don like you what are you doen here but he'll say it sarcasticly. and then at other times he'llplay footsie with me. i like him alot. but idk wheter should i confront him, or just keep things the way they are. i see him alot during the summer so that wouldnt b a problem.and hes a grade aahead of me idk if that might be the problemt too. please help (link)
dont worry aobut the grade thing...its no big deal.if u wanna take a chance and ask him out,then go and try it!if ur scared of him saying no...then just wait a while...and maybe he will ask you out first.


so ive been going out with tyler for a while and i realli wanna take things to the next step what should i do?? (link)
talk it over with him.if he wants 2 do t and u wanna do it...then do it.but dont get urself into too musch trouble and if your like a younger age...DONT HAVE KIDS!!!


ok i really really like this one guy matt but my friend staci really likes him too i think he might be into her and if they ever go out i will die like what should i do?

-amy (link)
ok well if she is realy your friend...you shoudl b happy for her.i mean its a guy.thast all. girls dont realy need guys...plus they might just break up soon anyways.or maybe u and that guy srnt right 4 eachother. i mean there are thousands of other guys in the world...and u cant b that mad over one guy! i mean if it was your ex i could see whast wrong but i mean...dont kill yourself over something stupid.


Most of my friends don't like one of my friends, and there is a good reason for this. Last night, I slept over my friends house who is one of the ones who doesnt like the other friend...and she was sayin mean stuff 2 the other friend on IM, and then I got on my screen name and the one who no one likes IMs me and asks "where r u?" so i signed off quick ssayin i hadda go, but I think she might've had an idea i was right there and think i was takin part in it. I just don't wanna get in the middle of the whole thing. There are some good reasons the rest of my friends don't like her, but I don't want to stop being friends with her or any of the other ones. If she confronts me again and asks where I was and finds out I was right there, what do I say? (link)
Just tell her the whole story.if she has a problem with it then she has a prblem.if she asks y wernt you doing anything about the one girl being mean 2 me...then just say..SHE WAS BEING MEAN 2 YOU? then you should talk 2 the girl that was being mean to the other girl and say someting liek...sorry but i dont thing you should b mean to ________.


Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much! (link)
ok you should talk it over with him.or maybe you can find other stuff to do.


theres this guy and we r rele good friends but i want to take it a step up with out getting hurt HELP ME!!! (link)
talk about it with him....like what if we went out?or u can just give him some hints that u wanna go out with him.lie start flirting with him and stuff.if he doesnt flirt back then he probably doesnt wanna go oout with you.


Hi everyone, I'm a 14/f, and i'm unsure of what to do. For the past year or so I've been really passionate about wanting to become an actress when I grow up. I've loved acting and pretending all my life, and last year i decided i wanted to make it my career. I told all my friends and my parents, and now they're all rooting me on to become and actress. Here's the trouble. Lately, I've been losing passion in it. Not that I wouldn't like to act, but i think I've decided that I don't want to spend years and years hoping for a break in Hollywood. I've decided that I want go into modeling for two reasons 1.) i don't think i'm gorgeous, but i think i'm pretty enough where I could do it and become (hopefully) famous. 2.) Modeling sometimes leads into acting jobs. what do you think? Should I keep up my 'dream' of becoming an actress, or should I embrace the new dream of becoming a model?
thankz! ~unsure (link)
the same thing happened to me.i alwyas wanted to b famous in a band.but lately ive been noticing i wanted to b a clothes designer.thats ok. continue to have both dreams.if something goes wrong with one thing then you will still have the other thing to think about.continue to work towards both goals.plus if you lose intrest in modeling and you wanna be come a actress then your practice wont be such a waste.also if you like ancting maybe you can b in a play or something.i mean for practice.you might even meet new people and maybe start to liek acting even more.


ok lately it seems like my best friend has been trying soo hard to be accepted my one of my other best friends like what should i do should i confront her or what? (link)
ok well the one friend isnt being herself.if it keeps happening tell her.someone shouldnt try and b someone else so someone could liek them. thats just stupid.if the person realy wants someone to like them then they should b themself.not someone else.thats liek me moving 2 mexico,gettin a sex change,and changing my name to Bob Eyeliner.


I like this guy at camp. My friend is his good friend and she likes him too. In a matter of fact so does my step sister...alot of people do. Hes nice though. Not like a jock er anything. I want to ask him out, but knowing myself, I wont. I might invite him to voluunteer with me and my sister at the pet shelter. Hey ill get to be his closer friend. What else could I do to get closer to him? Or how should I ask him out? (link)
oik dont ask him out yet.get him 2 b realy good friends with u first 4 a while.you can like invite him to things with your friedns.or maybe you cann just have a small party with liek 6 people and initve him.


when u clear history on ur computer, doz that mean that like no1 can fid the sites u were on, like if i cleared my history, my dad wouldn't see that i was on advicenators or sumthin

i kno it's a dumb Q, but i was JW (link)
yes...after you clear the history you cant see where you went.but if you have cookies then you have to delete them or you can still see where you went online.




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