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Im always here to help You! Thanks to all you guys who have helped me already!
My boyfriend and I have been togeter since Feburary 2nd,2004! We are still great, and going strong!! :)
That car to the side is a 1999 Honda Prelude in pearl white! My favorite car!! :)
I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.
I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!
I love fashion questions and Questions about clothing and what looks good with what and where to find cheep stuff.
I love make-up questions and most hair questions!
Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.
I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!
My Absoulte Favorite Columnists are:
Mackenzie She is amazing! :) She is REALLY amazing!!!
YG Yeah, She is definately awesome!
The Old One He is good! :)
Karen Can we say genius?
Selectopaque Excellent!
Emily *Clap Clap Clap*
NaImEE amazing advice!!
Bryndon Pretty good advice right there!!
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and I'll be adding more soon! Could it be you? :)
I would love to and gladly accept any questions on anything, it does not have to be anything above.
Favorite Books:
*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is
Favorite Movies:
*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Honey
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*Drumline
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Hitch
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Greese
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life
Music:
*ALL COUNTRY!!!!
*Usher
*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*Switchfood
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Trapt
*Ashlee Simpsion
*COHEED AND CAMBRIA
*Lonestar
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*311
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Embodyment
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm
Songs:
*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*
And Much More!!
If you want to know about any of the books, movies, bands, artists, or songs, please feel free to leave one in my inbox!! Always There For Ya!!
I Love To Help!!
Feel free to ask me anything! :)I try to help as best I can! :)
*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*
One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"
I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.
♥ -Kelsey- ♥
advice
oookay.. homecoming is on october 22nd at my school, and i was wondering does anyone know of a cute dress i could get, thats not uber exspensive? i'd like to look at them online. i'm sorta wanting a short, like cocktail party dress? i dont have a whole lot of boobage, lol, so anything super revealing isnt going to look too good on me. i'm open to any ideas, though, so anything you think is good let me know!
thanks.
i rate 5's
http://www.debshops.com
thats were I plan on going for my homecoming dress!!!
There really cute!!
Also try, cammile(thats pricy tho!) macys, dillards, jc pennies, and other stores like that!
-Kelsey-
anything else, Just ASK!
what is a hymen and how is it broken??
your hymen is very thin and it is inside of your vagina. it has a hole in it is that your period can come out. It can be broken during sexual intercourse, fingering, using a tampon, riding a bike, playing soccer, ect.
(This is accurate, I am in Child Development I)
-Kelsey-
anything else, Just ASK!
Thank you Kelsey for your advice about getting my boyfriend to do nice stuff for me again. It feels good (even though I dont know you) to have someone to tell my problems to knowing that they wont judge me and that they can give real honest to goodness advice and support. My boyfriend is turning 20 in November, and I am 18. We both go to a community college, and have jobs. Yeah, now that you mention it, we do tend to fight more around this time because we are both stressed out and can sometimes take it out on the closest thing to us (each other) I'm glad to here that you and yours are doing great, and I hope that you guys will make it through anything. Thank you for your kind support, and I sure will try to keep you updated on us. You are doing a wonderfull job and have helped me feel 10 times better. Thnk you Kelsey and I will try to let you know how things go, and if I need anything else, Im glad that I can come to you.
luv ya,
God bless
Sara
awe thanks so much!!
yah, Im definately always here if you need anything!
Best of Luck to you two!!
:)
-Kelsey-
Hey Kelsey,
I've got this shirt that I really want to wear, the only problem is, its one of those where the fabric drapes pretty low in the front and the skinny slit goes in between your boobs. I have ablolutly no idea what kind of a bra to wear with it because they are all visible through the front because the shirts so low. I wanted to try those sticky cup bras that they have, but I'm scared...do they really provide you with good support, I dont want to bounce around everywhere, and do they really stay on?? I dont want one to pop off and roll away while I'm having dinner with my boyfriend out in public. Has any body ever tried these things before?? I gotta have an answer quik because were going out tomorrow night! Thanks!
one girl from my school used those sticky ones in a play @ school, and she said that they worked really well. I would sugest a strapless bra, or a bra with clear straps, if you have already tried these, then try a nude colored bra or one that matches the color of the shirt. or maybe you could wear a cute cami with lace or something under the shirt. You could try the sticky bra. I would sugest wearing it around the house and like running, not like super fast, but like jerky movements and moving around and stuff to make sure that they will hold for the date. If they dont then I would definately return them and say that they didnt stay on.
-Kelsey-
If you ever need anything else, Just ask!
(if you wouldnt mind, please leave some feedback so I know how my advice is! thanks:)
i want a new sn thats REALLY REALLY CUTE! but no like "lil, babii, chick, etc" or like heritage stuff for ex. "greekbabii, italianchick". i just want something sexii like "bee you tea ful" lol. so easy 5's unless you say stupid/mean things-then 1
thanks
Sexxii BEE U T
Sexxii Beautiful
anything else, please just ask!
While picking out clothes to wear to school tomorrow, I noticed my sweaters in the back of my closet, and began to wonder if it was okay to wear them yet. The temperature has been averaging about 75 degrees here, but it's VERY cold in school...So, since it's after Labor Day, is it okay to wear sweaters yet?
thank yah much!
i wore a sweater to school today, and it was in the upper seventies and in the eighties. my school is cold too!
:)
-Kelsey-
anything else? Just ask!
I am in desprate need of a new AIM screen name. Any ideas? If this helps..
- my name is ali
- i like x's, xO's, x3's and things like that
- i like to dance
- i like words like crazy/i/ii, baby/i/ii, dance, and other words like that.
- my fav. songs are lose control, be my escape, like u,
please help!
xoLOSECONTOLox(xo)
(lose control)
xoBabiiAliiox(xo)
(babii alii)
CraziiDancinbabii
(crazii dancin babii)
DanceAliDance
xoDanceox (xo)
babialilosecontrol
(babi ali lose control)
if you want more please feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Kelsey-
anything else? Just ask!
k guys, i'm more like a romantic kinda gal, and i really wannna boyfriend, my ex was super mean and doesnt talk to me anymore, so now im kinda afraid if i get another boyfriend it will end up like it did with my ex.....do any of you guys out there know what i should do????
~Stef
i completely understand how you feel. I had a tun of horrible relationships that ended badly. But thats okay, because now when i look back on it, im glad that i am not with them. I love my boyfriend that I have now, and we dont have to do any "stuff" and we still love eachother, we have been together for over a year and seven months, which is longer than all of my other horrible relationships combined. I always just jump in and give it my all. and I think that that was a bad thing. Maybe you could take things slow. even though you are just like i was and really wanted a boyfriend and someone who was proud to be with you and wanted to be with you every second of the day. I got that guy now, but you just have to take things slow. I know its really hard, but it does help. Just tell yourself that you are helping. Also, dont give yourself up, make sure that he has to work for you. DOnt go and sleep with him because he says he loves you. (im not saying you would, its just an example, please dont take it personally) my boyfriend and i love eachother, but we dont find a need to sleep with eachother, or to do anything else. we both have promiced to save ourselves for marriage.
I know that this may all be confusing. Please PLEASE leave me one in my inbox if you want me to tell you more or if you want this to be cleared up! I would be more than happy to help you!
:) Best 0' Luck!
-Kelsey-
ANYTHING AT ALL, JUST ASK! :)
Is it possible to get your tips done red and the rest of the nail black.
Ive ever gotten my nails done.
Also,i will be wearing a dress and standing up with a guy.In my cuzins 15th birthday.
The dress is red,should i just get white tips.
Or like red tips with jews on them.
If you could give me some ideas,i would be more than happy.
I
okay i need to get my boyfriend a birthday present in like.. 2 days. CAN ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME?
He loves music. But dont say cds please because im afraid he'll already have the one i get him.
and i was thinking like.. a slipknot dvd or something but idk where they have those or anything.. also is that really dorky?
and i cant take him to concerts thats too complicated around school and things like that.. hes going to be sixteen. ANY IDEAS.. I NEED IT BY SATURDAY..
and i always get people gift certificates to like cd stores and stuff but idk if thats what i should get him..
AHHh sorry im done. HELP?
thanks in advance
hes gonna be 16 and he loves cds. get him a cd holder for his car. :)
I got that for my boyfriend and he uses it all the time.
get him a cd holder with a gift card in there or something like that.
:)
-Kelsey-
if you want some other ideas or if you need anything else, just ask!
(Please leave feedback!)
Hey, this is the first time that I have ever posted a question on line so bare with me. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a little over one month. In the begining of our relationship, he used to do so many nice things like suprize me with flowers and visit me at my job or leave little note cards on my car for me to find. Well, he's stopped doing all of that. Dont get me wrong were still deeply in love its just sometimes I miss those little things. But when I try to confront him about it, we usually get into an argument because he takes it personally, as if Im saying that he's not good enough for me. That is so far from the truth. I'v even tried to shower him with little things like that hoping that he will get the idea and return the favor. I just dont want to have to beg him to do nice stuff for me anymore. Even remembering to call me is turning into a hastle. I have yet to forget about him. He says that he loves me but I just dont know how much. I feel like I should be put first. When we dont see each other for several days It really gets to me, but it just doesnt seem to bother him. Are all guys like this?? How do you and your boyfriend get along? Oh there is just so much more to say but I dont want to take up all of your time.Please help!!
well, we do fight. it is healthy for all relationships to fight. its normal and totally natural. not physical fights,tho. i have been with my boyfriend for over a year and seven months. My boyfriend does sometimes do little sweet things like that, but he didnt ever do it then like stop, so I cant totally relate. but you did the right thing by trying to talk to him about it. try to tell him that it is totally not a personal thing, and that you just wanted to let him know how much you liked the little supprises, and that you were just wondering if he would do that every now and then, again. Not all guys are like that. He may be busy. I don;t know how old you two are or if your school has started yet. but when my boyfriend gets busy and frustrated then sometimes that causes us to fight.
if you ever need anything else, or if you want more details on this, please feel completely and totally free to leave a question in my inbox. I'll get back to you as soon as I can. I'll try to help the best that I can. Thanks for asking me this question, and I hope that I helped!
Please leave feedback!
-Kelsey-
ok so my family has 1 computer that has internet..and me and my sister fight constantly about it. so my mom decided that we get the computer every other day. so like i get it today all day and she gets it tomorrow all day..then i get it the next day...and so on..but i think thats totally unfair..cuz i like to talk to my friends everynight/day. so can someone help me with coming up with a plan or somethin to make it so we both get time on the computer everyday? thanks
MY brother and me switch off ever 30mintues or hour or hour and 30 mintues!
it works pretty good!
-Kelsey-
anything else? Just ask.
i need a new screen name for AIM and i cant think of any..so would you plz help? My Name is Ashley. My middle name is nicole, i like to play softball, my favorite color is pink, im sorta a girlie girl! thanks ill rate high for good answers
AshNicoleSftBll
PinkSoftballgirl
Softballgirl
AshleySoftBall
-Kelsey-
anything else? just ask.
ok well my friend said that i should wear a bra when i go to bed to prevent me from getting saggy boobs when im older is that the right thing to do?
no, wearing a bra gives you saggy brests.
Im in child development, we learn that stuff!
-Kelsey-
anything else? just asK! :)
im getting my eyebrows done for the first time and im really scared that its going to hurt. what should i do to prevent pain.. beside putting milk on afterward?? please hurry
i once read in a magazine that you should take tylonal(sp) an hour before.
make sure that you eat something with it!
-Kelsey-
anything else? just ask!
i really wanna get a perm but i duno much about them except for that they keep your hair curly.. can anyone answer my questions like, how much does it usually cost? does it look like scrunched hair? how long does it stay? thank yuu
( im a girl, obviously, 5'2 light brown hair w/ natural blonde & gold highlights )
i got one in feb. of '03. it lasted until now, my hair still gets curly, at the bottom. it costed around 50 or 60$
it looked sorta wierd on me but i liked it as it the curls were less tight. and they were spread out more and looser!
-Kelsey-
anything else? just ask.
hey i want to whiten my teeeth but i want to know what the best way is like crest white strips, simply white, oral b whitening strips, etc?? I RATE
♥
actually at this moment i am using crest white strips! :) ive used simply white. and my mom uses that premium plus strips :)
they've all worked but the strips are soo much easier than the simply white! :)
-Kelsey-
anything else? just ask.
My Eye Is Swollen. And The Bone Is Hurtin Under My Eye. I Don't No WHat Could Be Wrong I Havnt Got Hit In The Face Or Anything But IT Hurts I Can't Hardly See And It Hurts For Me To Touch My Eye Or Eyebrow..What Could Be Wrong?..
actually that has happened to me and it was a zit, and that has happened about 5 or 6 times to me. its because thats a sensative area. a zit may be forming!
-Kelsey-
anything else? just ask!
about 2 weeks ago i was fooling around with my bf and some sexual things happend. we didnt have sex but he came, and it might be possible that it got "down there " sort of. My period has been 2 weeks last but it was late when i was fooling arounf with my bf. do you think its possible thtat i am pregnent without even having sex because some way some how like if it was on his fingers or something that i could be pregent? or is my period just really late. I havent had any signs of hurting boobs or anything like that.. so im just wondering. because ive been worried. thank you. =]
im in child development. sperm can live in the Vagina for around 5days. yes you can be pregnate. but also, you could just be late. your brests hurting is a sign of both your period and pregnancy.
-Kelsey-
anything else, please ask.
hi. this is another "guy" question (i'm 14/f). Okay, there's this guy who's not hot at ALL but I seriosly think I love him. I think about him all the time. Ive been feeling like this for a few months now. we arent that close at all (we never talk or anything) but we say hi to each other and stuff. if someone asks mewho i like I say "noone" but his name pops into my head. sometimes I find myself thinking in my head "i love *hisname*". I REALLY don't want to like him bcuz my friends all hate him and stuff (but he's actualy really nice but they are just predjudiced (sp) cu he's not "hot". I know hes ugly and stuff but I still think i love him!!!! Do I or do I not?? ANd what should I do? PLZZZ help me!!!!!!! I rate 5s for good answers.
thats good .you are one of the very few people who goes for what is on the inside not what is on the outside. thats good, good for you. it doesnt matter what your friends say. follow your heart.
-kels-