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do I love him?
hi. this is another "guy" question (i'm 14/f). Okay, there's this guy who's not hot at ALL but I seriosly think I love him. I think about him all the time. Ive been feeling like this for a few months now. we arent that close at all (we never talk or anything) but we say hi to each other and stuff. if someone asks mewho i like I say "noone" but his name pops into my head. sometimes I find myself thinking in my head "i love *hisname*". I REALLY don't want to like him bcuz my friends all hate him and stuff (but he's actualy really nice but they are just predjudiced (sp) cu he's not "hot". I know hes ugly and stuff but I still think i love him!!!! Do I or do I not?? ANd what should I do? PLZZZ help me!!!!!!! I rate 5s for good answers.
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Judging people by their looks is very superficial and shallow. You never know, he might become attractive later on in life. You should never not date someone because of their appearance or what your friends think.
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Looks & friends' opinions aren't good things to go by. If you're not close, I think you ought to start talking to him some more when you get the chance. Maybe write him a note or something. Don't confess you're feelings for him until you've confirmed that you really do have feelings for him. Good luck!
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hey, well this is a though one, but listen if you really like him and you think about him all the time, than i guess you do like him! just try and talk to him more and all, see if you really like him like u feel, and than if you do talk to him and see what he says. hope i helped.
LB
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thats good .you are one of the very few people who goes for what is on the inside not what is on the outside. thats good, good for you. it doesnt matter what your friends say. follow your heart.
-kels-
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Well like they always say "looks dont matter" And its really true! I know i can be shallow and i do care what people think as sad as it sounds! But im really starting to not care and i think you shouldnt either. But as far as the love thing... Do u get butterflys when you talk to him? Get all happy for just one thing that he said to you? Cant stop smiling because he makes you so happy? If you answered yes to some of those then you may be inlove but from what i hear i think you may just like him.. being inlove is like this awesome feeling and you'll know when your inlove and sometimes it can grow to love...My advice is to make a move and dont care what your friends think because your the one who likes him not them.
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OMG that's just scary!!! I'm in the same situation! Except for I'm the ugly not-hot nerdy guy and there's a girl who knows I like her and when I asked her if she liked me, she said she didn't know... and we only have a class or two together and we're across the room from each other... and she said when she was in Maine she kept thinking about me... Sorry, I'll get back to your life now.
Your friends are acting like losers, seriously. Hotness doesn't matter. I actually get pissed at my friends when they talk about people being hot... but I don't tell them that. If he's ever asked you out, say yes!!! If not, try to hint at it or maybe even ask him out yourslef! Tell him that you love him, and if he doesn't like you, he'll start to realize that he does like you, like DJ did on Full House after she found out that a boy liked her (her first boyfriend). Besides, if he's not hot, he probably won't give a damn about if other people are hot or not. And please... if it's not just a coincidence and you're the one who I love, please tell me... if you slammed the book he writes his homework in on his desk on September 6th, then it's you, and please tell me it's you!!!
Ok sorry, back to you, just ignore your friends, they'll learn someday that cuteness and hotness don't matter. And tell him that you like him.
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your gonna give me a one for this.. but what if some guy came on here and was talking about you and was like SHES REALLYYYYYY UGLY BUT I THINK ABOUT HER ALL THE TIME. your not a very nice girl if you ask me.
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don't go by what your friends say. i mean maybe they juss don't know him as well, er look at him differently. if you guys would hang out more, maybe then he'll get the hint that you like him. you guys should go places like the movies, dinner, bowling, miniature golfing, etc. those are usually good places to hang out. juss step in the friend direction first, & then maybe you guys can become bf/gf. your friends will eventually ease up to the fact that he's not as bad as they think. invite them too, & ask him to bring friends. bigger groups are a lot less awkard, unless you two juss wanna do stuff.
good luck!♥
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