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Desperate
k guys, i'm more like a romantic kinda gal, and i really wannna boyfriend, my ex was super mean and doesnt talk to me anymore, so now im kinda afraid if i get another boyfriend it will end up like it did with my ex.....do any of you guys out there know what i should do????
~Stef
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Just see how guys act around you. If they act nice to you, ask him out. It takes a little time to get over an ex so don't boy scout right away. Wait untill your ready. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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i completely understand how you feel. I had a tun of horrible relationships that ended badly. But thats okay, because now when i look back on it, im glad that i am not with them. I love my boyfriend that I have now, and we dont have to do any "stuff" and we still love eachother, we have been together for over a year and seven months, which is longer than all of my other horrible relationships combined. I always just jump in and give it my all. and I think that that was a bad thing. Maybe you could take things slow. even though you are just like i was and really wanted a boyfriend and someone who was proud to be with you and wanted to be with you every second of the day. I got that guy now, but you just have to take things slow. I know its really hard, but it does help. Just tell yourself that you are helping. Also, dont give yourself up, make sure that he has to work for you. DOnt go and sleep with him because he says he loves you. (im not saying you would, its just an example, please dont take it personally) my boyfriend and i love eachother, but we dont find a need to sleep with eachother, or to do anything else. we both have promiced to save ourselves for marriage.
I know that this may all be confusing. Please PLEASE leave me one in my inbox if you want me to tell you more or if you want this to be cleared up! I would be more than happy to help you!
:) Best 0' Luck!
-Kelsey-
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Frist of all if your ex is being mean to you. Be mean back, you may not think that is the why to go but trust me if you push him hard anough using you the words you say he will think not to push eney girl around eneymore. And you are just like me I love being romantic. but It is hard to do if you do not have a boyfreaind,this might sound slutty but I am not a slut. I go around to boys how are nice to me and I show them that I want to tlk to them by putting my hand on there sholder or on there back.And if you are alone with someone that you think they like you play truth or dare. Plus you should not let your fear get in the why of eneything.Just go for it and if something gose worng then loss them.
Mercedes Woods
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oh i no what your saying.. i had an ex like that.. and it took me a while to put myself out there again.. but just try it.. maybe be wicked good friends with the guy b4 u start dating so you know wut hes like, hope i helped.. xox jiLl
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