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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years and I love him alot. Things are pretty good in our relationship, we don't really fight or anything.
Anyways, he recently got a job and he got a cellphone. I was putting my parents phone number into his phone and noticed there were two girls numbers in there that I've never seen or heard about. As I was doing that, he got a text message from one of the girls. And it simply said "Hey". Then the next day I went to use his phone to text message my sister and noticed that his inbox had been cleaned out. So of course, I get the feeling that he's hiding something..
Basically, it this harmless text messaging that's going on between them or should I be concerned? It's really none of my business who she is, but I'm curious as to where he got the number. I don't know if it's my place to ask him, let alone even know how to approach him about it.
Any advice/help would be great! (link)
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You will worry about it until you find out who it is. Ask him about it. It may be a relative for all you know! So ask and hopefully it will make you feel better about it.
Not talking and hiding your feelings from each other
is never good in a relationship. Talk. :)
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i was thinking about getting my tongue pierced but i was wondering if there was any riskes involved?? like infections or something that can make you lose your tongue..... adn when your kissing would it get in the way?!? (link)
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From website http://www.drhendry.ca/InfoAndLinks/TonguePiercing/Piercing.html
Contains pictures this text may refer to.
Top 4 Reasons to Have
Your Tongue Pierced:
1. It's Cool.
2. Parents hate it.
3. Everybody's doing it.
4. Having a Teenage Brain
Top 7 Reasons Not To:
1. Chipped or Broken Front Teeth
The majority of patients we see with tongue barbells wind up with chips, cracks or fractures in their front teeth. These have to be repaired with fillings or crowns. And re-done repeatedly when those wear out - over and over for the rest of your life.
2. Gum Surgery
We've had to refer patients to periodontists for surgical correction of damage caused by rubbing tongue barbells.
3. It can go down the wrong way.
The barbell can come un-screwed and wind up in a lung. (If you're lucky it can be removed by passing a bronchoscope down your throat, avoiding chest surgery.) Here's a case.
Going down the other way isn't necessarily great, either. The ball end should pass through harmlessly if swallowed. However the long part would carry the risk of lodging or causing internal tears in the intestine.
4. Infection and, just possibly, death
The mouth is moist and full of bacteria, and the tongue has major blood vessels ideal for spreading infection to the brain and elsewhere. This can disfigure or kill you.
Brain Abscess
The case at left was a local girl who almost died from a brain abscess following a tongue piercing. She had part of her skull removed to relieve pressure caused by the infection. She can still feel the soft spot where the skull is missing.
This is rare, but it is real.
5. Losing blood - possibly lots of it.
The tongue contains large blood vessels, and you're in trouble if one of them is perforated. You could end up having to have the vessel closed surgically in hospital.
There is also the possibility of hitting a nerve, and damaging that. Imagine life with a tongue that doesn't work properly.
6. Lingering Pain.
Tongue piercing has been associated with cases of neuralgia - severe, long-lasting nerve pain. News Article Here
7. Hepatitis or HIV
Unsterilized instruments are a great way to spread these and other infections. If you must do this, be sure to go to a reputable clinic, and be very sure that they do things properly: autoclave sterilization and gloves.
For more sites with info use this search...
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Im on the pill, and i'm supposed to get my period this sunday. I don't feel like i am goingt o get my period which worries me. I don't feel any of the usual "period symptoms" but I also don't feel nauseous, or any of the "pregnancy symtoms". Is it possible to skip your period even if your on the pill, due to stress or anything? I am just getting worried I may be pregnant. (link)
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If you have taken you pills correctly, I don't think you need worry you are pregnant.
It is possible to miss your period while on the pill, it is also possible you get a month now and then with no pre menstrual symptoms. :)
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what does it mean to be a virgin, does it mean you are sealed if so how do yo go for menstruation because intercourse and menstruation use the same path, or there is a small hole that every girl is born with if so how small is it (link)
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The hymen is not solid. It has openings in it so the body can release fluids and menstrual blood.
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Ok well in Religion we have to make a very realistic looking birth Certificate for JESUS!
And I never saw one before or even mine by any chance. i just know that they have the baby's foot prints.
Can someone help me with that?
And can you only get a certificate if you were born in the hospital?
Because Jesus wasn't born in the hospital if you know what I'm saying..
What else could i include? (link)
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I have to add here that birth certificates do not have footprints on them. That is a certificate given by some hospitals with the hospitals name on it.
A cute ad really.
A true birth certificate contains what ygsgirl said.
though I don't know how much of that info would have been on one in those times.
My Grannys moms birth certificate was from Czechoslovakia and was black paper with white writing. So in those days you would probably want to research what the used to write with and what they would have written on. :)
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We recently adopted a cat from someone who needed to find a good home for him. He is approximately 4 months old. We do not have much money to take our new pet to the vet for problems he is having: diarrhea, defecating on carpet and has sneezing and running nose. His appetite is good and he drinks well. He will use the litter some of the time but also goes on the carpet in hide away places. He is alert and does not act like he is really ill. My question is "How and what can I do to handle these issues myself like is there any medication I can get ? Going to the vet is so costly and sometimes there are things that we can do to help. If anyone has any suggestions please tell me. (link)
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Here is an article titled "Diarrhea in Cats
When to call the vet and things you can do at home"
I do know from experience that giving a cat milk
will cause diarrhea. The kind that will prevent it from making it to the litter box! I thought milk was good for cats but it isn't. :)
http://cats.suite101.com/article.cfm/diarrhea_in_cats
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If your hymen isnt broken can you still become pregnant? (link)
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Yes you can. The hymen isn't a solid piece of skin.
It has openings to allow menstrual blood and other fluids to get out. :)
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I am 16 years old and I really want to see a therapist. I just need someone to talk to. I cannot ask my mom because she is simply a bitch and does not believe I have any issues. All she thinks of me is that I am a drama queen. Please, I all I need is someone to trust and talk to.
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Look for an adult in your life who you can talk to.
A teacher, an aunt and older cousin. Preferably someone who can help you talk to your mom and get some results. :)
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I had sex ONCE with my boyfriend in late October. He used a condom and it was only for a few minutes, but i'm so ridiculously paranoid. I know he didn't ejaculate because he told me. I've had my period sense then, but my stomach has been hurting for a while. There's been a bad cold going around so i'm pretty sure that's it.
is there any way i'm pregnant? (link)
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If you have had a period since October then you are not pregnant. There are hundreds of cause for a stomach pain. Pregnancy is not one of them. :)
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I spilled lemonade on my keyboard. Only on a few keys.. so I tried pouring it all out & using the blow dyer so the keys don't get completely stuck. So it's sticky and I don't know what to do.. I don't have money for a new keyboard.
How would you clean it? (link)
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This is from the tucows website.
Emergency Cleaning
At some point, no matter how careful you are, you or someone else will spill something on your keyboard. Things with lots of sugar like soda, iced tea with sugar, lemonade and so on are harder to clean than something like water. If you just spill water or black coffee it's not too bad. Unplug the keyboard, lay it keys down on some paper towel and let it dry. And I mean really dry. A blow dryer can speed up the process, but I'd let it dry at least overnight. Say, 18 to 24 hours.
The problem with liquids containing sugar is that the sugar coats the contacts on the keys. It's sticky. Besides gumming up the contacts it can also cause the keys to stick. So, if what you spilled had sugar in it, you'll have to get into some more intensive cleaning.
Unplug the keyboard. You might need to remove some of the key caps so you can get at the surfaces more easily. I'd use a screwdriver for the job. Key caps come off fairly easily. Just use steady, gentle pressure as you lift up. Then get your Q-tips and start cleaning up the liquid. I'd also wet the cotton swabs with a bit of water so it dilutes any sugar. If you remove key caps, put them in a sieve and run them under hot water to remove sugar. Dry them off and put them back on. Now, keep your fingers crossed and wait at least a day.
If all this sounds like too much work and your keyboard cost $19.95 you may just want to get a new one. Another question I received multiple times dealt with laptop computers. IF you simply spilled or splashed any substance that didn't contain sugar, like water or black coffee, then you can try to dry it out. I'd turn the laptop upside-down on a bath towel and let it sit for at least 18 hours. I've been told that you can use a blow dryer or an air compressor to help remove the water. Makes sense although I personally have never had to try it. You can also check the Web site of your laptops maker and see if they can tell you how to remove the keyboard.
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Does it hurt when one donates blood? (link)
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Have you ever gotten a blood draw? Where the nurse takes your blood for testing? Doesn't usually hurt.
For me thinking about it is worse than the event.
Donating blood is no worse. Doesn't hurt, just
a little needle stick. :)
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my period seems to be abnormal at times. i'm not sure if this happened to me more than once, but i just noticed it. my period sometimes just pours out sometimes. i hate heavy flow, but it pours out.. for example thick chocolate syrup and you take a fork and play with it and lift it up in the air and you see the chocolate coming down. if you know what i mean, i'm not sure what's the word for that. but is that natural? (link)
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Thick works for me! It is normal. Sometimes it will heavy and other times you think it is over its so light. Just the joys of being a woman. :)
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what are the symtoms of clamidia, gonorea n herpes. im really scared (link)
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This site will give you all those symptoms.
http://www.coolnurse.com/std.htm
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hi i think i pulled a muscle in my thigh and its been hurting for a few days now. i have a track meet this saturday and basically i need it to stop hurting ASAP. does anyone kno what i could do to make it better? please dont suggest buying prodcuts i have no money (link)
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Here is a site that will give you home treatment for muscle pulls. It isn't long but you will get more from it if I just link you to it. :)
http://www.wisegeek.com/what-are-some-home-remedies-for-a-pulled-muscle.htm
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ok my boyfriend gets really jelous of any guys, and he knows this hes told me like "im sorry im the jelous type" but its getting to me now. how can i reassure him that i love him and only him and i want to be with him forever? what can i say to him?
also like he gets really upset sometimes ove nothing really and says things like i dont love him and that im going to leave him. were both completely in love with each other. the problem is i tell him so much, all the time about everything and how i would die without him! its like how can he not know!!! but he gets like depressed and it brings me down and makes me really sad. i ask him whats wrong and he says just dont leave me and stuff. hes worried i guess because he loves me so much and hes thinking what it would be like if we ever were apart, and it worries him. i dont know what else to tell him. ive told him that i need him and id die without him but i dont think he really knows still how much i love him. all i want is for him to know how i feel, or theres really no point in life. i love him so much. please help me with the jelousy thing and him being sad what should i do?
thankyou in advance xxx (link)
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He is insecure. That is HIS problem not yours.
You need to sit him down and have a talk with him.
Explain to him once again how much he means to you
and that you have male friends that you do not see
as boyfriend material.
What you need to do this time though, is make it very clear to him that his jealousy will no longer be tolerated by you. If he can't control himself
then it is going to ruin your relationship with him.
And it will. :)
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have you ever had an eating disorder? i'm bulimic and nobody really knows. if you've had this experience and have recovered or are trying please give me advice? i feel like theres always a cloud around my thoughts like i'm not thinking as clear as i used too. i hate my body, i freak when i gain weight, sometimes i'm even afraid to step on the scale. i binge and purge and fast and this has been going on for over a year. part of me wants help and sometimes i feel like i can't let go because it's become apart of me. if you've had this experience: how did you get help? what were the treatments? why and when did you realize you wanted/needed help? did/do you feel better after recovering/trying to recover?
even if you haven't had an eating disorder and you can answer some of the questions please do. i don't know what to do.
14/female/freshman (link)
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You need to talk to a trusted adult and get some
help. Really you do. You have been doing this for
a year and sooner or later it is going to take a toll on your body. You are to young to die and that is where you are heading. Wish there was a nicer way to put it. But that is the truth of it.
Here are the side effects of bulimia. Some you may already be experiencing.
* Esophageal problems {this is in your airway)
* Vocal chord damage
* Stomach ulcers (it can also rupture)
* Osteoporosis
* Hair loss
* Digestive problems
* Decreased body temperature
* Irregular heart beat
* Elimination problems
* Dental Damage
* Organ damage
* Vitamin and mineral deficiencies
* Enlarged salivary glands
* Dry skin
* Decreased bone density
* Menstrual dysfunction
* Hormone irregularities
* Insomnia
* Low red blood cell levels
* Weak muscles
* Immune system damage
You need to get help and get at a healthy weight.
People would rather see you a normal weight with teeth and no major medical problems. Trust me on this and seek help. Today. :)
For more info, here is a search that has plenty of sites to check out.
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What is the safest time for a woman to have sex? (link)
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There is no really safe time to have sex.
There are methods people use but they have a
very high rate of failure. Very high rate.
A woman has to keep track of her period very
religiously for several months before it can be
used and then she has to be a very rare woman who
really regular with her periods to begin with.
If avoiding a pregnancy is what you are after,
Birth control pills are the best way to go.
Condoms and the rest 2nd but not 100%. Though condoms should be used for prevention of STDs.
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Alright. Im 15. And I do know that right now is really early to start having sex. or whatever. But i feel really pressured. Everyone had girlfriends or boyfriends. And Im like the odd one out. And I feel like, whenever I do have a boyfriend, and I do refuse to have sex, they might breakup with me. Because right now is so sex realated. Everything is about sex. And more sex. Or "head".. I dont know. So Im thinking what is the worse thing that can happen if I do decide to have sex right now. I will just be up to date. And If i use a condom. Everything will be ok..??
And just so you know. Im not the one just to go find some dude and have sex with him. I will go through the regular process or whatever. and like wait like 3 months to start..but im still really iffy about the situation.??
I dont know. I just feel out. (link)
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Don't feel left out. I know there is a lot of pressure from others to have sex. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and just don't jump right in to anything. Good for you!
I won't get to preachy because I know you will
do what you feel is right for you. I will give you a good site at the end loaded with useful information.
Read some of it if not all. If you do decide to become sexually active BE PREPARED. Don't jump right into it and then ask questions afterward, when it
may be to late.
Accidents happen. I know there are a lot of trustworthy fellows out there, but first and
foremost, no matter how much you like and trust
a guy, a girl needs to take care of herself.
Don't take anyones word that they will "pull
out in time", will "just put it in for a minute",
any of those lines. Not even one time! Thats all
it takes to alter your life forever. No condom,
No entry. :)
Oral sex and anal sex can also spread STDs.
Read up and know all about all this before
you take that step into having sex.
This site will tell you about your body,
his body, birth control methods,pregnancy, disease...all in a way you can understand it.
It is written for teens.
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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me and my bf tired anal sex for the first time, and we had regualar and he said the condom didnt break but the day after, and the next day and the next day now on the four day today ive been having stomache pains, and like diaherrra (gross ik) is that normal? (link)
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I will back it up. Stomach pains and diarrhea ARE NOT pregnancy symptoms. Your symptoms are more likely caused by the anal sex.
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what diseases can yoju get from blowjobs? and whats a discription of them. please helP! whats the safest way to do them (link)
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You can get almost any STD from oral sex. The risk is smaller but there have been documented cases.
There are a lot of sites dealing with this. What to watch for and symptoms etc. Here is the search that will take you to the information. :)
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