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jelous boyfriend
15/f
ok my boyfriend gets really jelous of any guys, and he knows this hes told me like "im sorry im the jelous type" but its getting to me now. how can i reassure him that i love him and only him and i want to be with him forever? what can i say to him?
also like he gets really upset sometimes ove nothing really and says things like i dont love him and that im going to leave him. were both completely in love with each other. the problem is i tell him so much, all the time about everything and how i would die without him! its like how can he not know!!! but he gets like depressed and it brings me down and makes me really sad. i ask him whats wrong and he says just dont leave me and stuff. hes worried i guess because he loves me so much and hes thinking what it would be like if we ever were apart, and it worries him. i dont know what else to tell him. ive told him that i need him and id die without him but i dont think he really knows still how much i love him. all i want is for him to know how i feel, or theres really no point in life. i love him so much. please help me with the jelousy thing and him being sad what should i do?
thankyou in advance xxx
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He is insecure. That is HIS problem not yours.
You need to sit him down and have a talk with him.
Explain to him once again how much he means to you
and that you have male friends that you do not see
as boyfriend material.
What you need to do this time though, is make it very clear to him that his jealousy will no longer be tolerated by you. If he can't control himself
then it is going to ruin your relationship with him.
And it will. :)
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Look, he knows. He just wants you to tell him. Over and over agian.
Stop it.
Next time he says "You are going to cheat" tell him you've already told him you wont and he needs to stop saying it.
When he says "You are going to leave me." say you haven't changed your mind since you last talked about it and you are sick of him saying things he knows aren't true.
What he doing is mean. He is being an attention whore with this behavoir. Nothing you can say will make him feel better except "Stop."
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