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It's a relationship problem with one of my closest friend-bo


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 10:41 pm

Well, I've become close to this guy, I can tell him anything and everything and I trust him with all I have. The only time I saw him was school and outside of school too. But now that its summer, I haven't seem him in a while, and it's driving me nuts because I like him more then a friend, and he knows that, he likes me too but we're not dating. So that means, he can do whatever he wants. I know he cares for me and wants me to be happy and see me, but, lately, him and his friends have been hanging out with these girls they've known since summer has started, which was only about two or three weeks ago. And I'm afraid the guy I like is going to fall for one of the girls and forget all about me. I don't know what to do. We've known each other ...

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how to break up?!?! heeeelp!!


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 8:18 pm

14/f

my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost six months. and i still love him. but he never calls. he never texts. he never emails. and he never offers to hang out. its always me who calls first. and its hard for me. like the other day, i was talking to him, and he's like, "sorry i havent called you in a while, ive been really busy." and i was like, "oh ok, well what have you been up to?" and he goes, "oh nothing." so i was kind of upset that he didnt even come up with an excuse. he always says, "i really love you!" or, "i love you so much" but he doesnt PROVE it. i love him, but i cant keep doing this. i am his first girlfriend, and, even though i cant wait to get o...

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present


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 8:05 pm

(16/m)
What do girls like to get as a gift?
(only girls answer!!!!!)

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i really dont know.? this is sorta long.


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 4:01 pm

btw before you read this im 13/f
ok i added this boy on my cousin's myspace.
so then he messaged me "your hott would you fuck me. ?
and i go" why.?" and he goes cuz "your hot and i will definatly fuck you."
than i go " are you virgnin?"then he goes "yeah i am.. if you r i would make you not a virgin.=]"
and i go "yeah" then jokingly i go "okk. good. "
he goes" how big do you like them" and i go i d ont know and he goes "well mine is 7inces. thats big enough for you baby =]" and i dont know him. my cousin knows him .
is he joking.? would he know i was joking.?

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2 boys


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 1:45 pm

I have a boyfriend but my other friend likes me 2 and my boyfriend found out;i told him! But he doesn't seem to care. I wonder if he does care and if i shouldn't talk about other boys around him?? Would he get jelous? Would he think i like them and not him? What should i not do??

i need to know!!!

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13/f how do i know what he is feeling?


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 12:25 pm

13/f

so i like this guy names sam.
we talk on myspace on the time
10 comments a day... or something like that

we talk about music, summer,,, ect.
i dont know if he likes me or not.
because if you message somone you cant really tell if they are flirting because you cant hear their voice,
what should i do?
we rode the same bus and everything.

i want to hang out with him. but i noticed that i am not on his top friends list. does that mean that he isn't interested?

it seemed like he liked me when we were in school because he would always look at me.. kinda like he wants to know if i am looking back sorta thing

how can i tell him ...

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How can I stop persistent thoughts about an ex


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 7:19 am

I am 30 years old, female, and I have been married for 10 years. We have two children, ages 7 and 8. I love my husband and I would describe our relationship as a good one.
My problem is I think about my ex boyfriend. A lot. As in every day a lot. Where this starts to become strangely pathetic is the fact that I haven't seen him or had contact with him in 13 years. He was my boyfriend my junior year of high school. We were only together a few months. Our relationship ended when he dumped me, and I (being 17 and completely emotional) was heartbroken. I got married when I was 20, and I dated a few guys between this ex and my husband. I never give any of the others a second thought.
It really bothers me that ...

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Parents.


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 4:30 am

Hey
i'm 14/f

Well i recently got a new bf and we've been going out for about a week and well i want to start spending more time with him like after school and on weekends but i haven't told my parents about him yet because they always make fun of me when i get a boyfriend so i don't really like telling them but i don't want to lie. How could i tell them without just coming out and say "I have a boyfriend?" like just slip it into the convo or something..

thanks in advance
p.s sorry its so long!

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misunderstood


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 3:24 am

i have always been known as the school slut. but the truth is... ive only kissed two guys, and i had real feelings for both of them. its because i have a very flirty personality... but i am NOT slutty.

how can i get people to stop thinking of me this way...? please dont tell me to tone down my fliring because it is who i am. and i cant

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flirtatious


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 3:22 am

are flirtatious girls... undateable? i have an extremely flirty personality.. i cant really help it. its just who i am.. but often guys are like "i see you as a girl i can hook up with... but never anything serious" i am SO sick of being everyones random hook up.. even if i dont hook up with them, i still feel so dirty? i mean i dont do random hook ups but guys still think that they can get away with stuff like that with me. how can i get guys to take me seriously in a relationship without changing who i am?

thanks in advanced

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hopeless romantic


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 3:18 am

do you ever really get that buttergly in the stomach, tingly feeling that you read about in books and see on movies? i have kissed many guys, and all my kisses are well... dissapointing? i am a hopeless romantic, but am i ever going to get that "perfect" kiss? or is it all a myth and should i just settle for what i got now?

experiances and advice is much appreciated. thanks in advanced!

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He broke up w/ me .


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 11:34 pm

Me and my boyfriend dated a year & 3 months & he broke up w/ me [ 2 ] weeks ago . & he has been so damn mean to me , all i try to do is keep him in my life & everything . He tells me he doesnt want anything to do w/ me & just acting horrible. He told me i was his first love when we first broke up because were both eac others first real boy/girl friend . I found out he likes a girl who is 17 & has a year old baby & my ex is 16 . He has already kissed her and everything . It kills me , i try to ignore it & act like i dont care but i dont see how you can love someone & act the way you do i asked him if he did & he said " i dont know why i should ". & that literally broke up heart , i try &a...

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Love Life...


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 10:50 pm

You gave me such great advice on this question: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=539679
That was a month ago but i still have the same problem!

I really have been thinking about what you said. About not ending things. The problem with this whole thing is that i want to be with him, i just know its not whats best for me right now. I cant enjoy my friends and my life when im thinking about him. So i dont know what to do because i like him so much, and i miss him but i know i shouldnt. And im happier without him. But im so happy with him. And im torn between the two. And i can get over him when hes gone but then ill run into him or hell call me in the middle of the night and it all goes down the drain. We wer ta...

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Cole.


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 10:48 pm

Cole is amazing. Just looking at him gives me the jitters and I'm smiling right now just thinking about him. We hae so many inside jokes, and some of the things I say only he gets because it's so I dont know it's so hard to explain. We have much in common it's creepy, like music. I love screamo, emo. Actually even Hannah Montana lol but just anything. Im always barrowing his shirts =]]. Well it's the end of the year, and he went around to have us sign something and I wrote down the lyrics to an ACDC song and it had "Call Me Anytime" because he really likes them and he was like I would call you if you gave me your number. So I did... and i dont know our relationship went from Best Friends to.. I dont know. Thinking of us as friends...

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He likes me soemtimes?


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 5:56 pm

13/f
Ok so there is this boy i like, "jason". I first met him last yr when he came to our skool. We got off to a rough start in our friendship but then this yr. my two of my teachers sat us next to each other. We got along great and now we are pretty much bff's. We always ALWAYS talk in skool. And we text ALL THE TIME! We text every single day for about an hour each day. Im txting him now lol.

Anyway I think he likes me. What do you think?

And do guys think it's weird if i would say something like "we shuld hang out sometime!"? Do they think its stalker-ish?

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best guy friend vs. my love life


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 5:46 pm

16/f
i have two best friends. one is a girl, she's my sister, my life, my everything and i love her dearly. the other is a guy and for all the time we've been best friends we've told people we're married because thats just the way we've always acted. i can't describe the relationship, we bitch and fight and nag but in the end it always results in a hug and an "i love you". he told me he liked me in 7th grade but little did we know we had both liked each other on and off since then and we have now just finished junior year.

so after spending the entire last weekend at his house i decided that i would finally tell him i liked him. we spent the weekend in his hot tub until 1am, driving around in his truck, he p...

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am i a slut now?


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 4:44 pm

okay don't say anything like, your under age or anything, I KNOW!!!! so anyway, i was going out with this guy, Andy, i'm 15, then we had been going out for like 3 months, and i was staying at his house for a dance, we live on different islands, but there right next to each other.and we were talking then he told me he loved me, anyway, we ended up having sex... but then later, like a couple months later i found out he had cheated on me twice! then he asked this guy, iain, to start flirting with me and stuff so i would stop liking him and start liking iain. anyway i broke up with Andy, and started going out with iain, but two weeks after we started going out, i slept with him! it just sort of happened! so, i slept with him on the friday ans h...

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trust


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 4:16 pm

im a female and im 15
ok well i kinda cheated on my boyfriend. what can i do to get his trust back that i will never do it again?

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Why Am I So Scared?


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 4:01 pm

Ok so I have a best friend for 10 yrs. We met when we were 12. Opposite sex of course. Ever since the first day, he has wanted to be just more than friends. But I didnt want a relationship at the time and I was the sweet innocent girl who loved bad ass jerks all through school. So anyways, we have been best friends for 10 yrs. We have both dated other people and done the whole serious relationships, but none of them worked out. I moved a state away when my parents moved to be closer to them. Its been 4 yrs since my friend and I have seen each other but we talk all the time. Through all this time, he has been in love with me and has always hoped that I would feel the same way. He is almost done with college and wants to start a career and lo...

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wrong to flirt?


Posted Tuesday June 17 2008, 3:05 pm

okay, my friend A went out with this guy T, but then they broke up. it was a mutual desision; anyway now my friend is really happy with this other guy, her on - off boyfriend, anyway, now i REALLY like T but my question is, is it wrong to flirt and maybe if im lucky more than that woth T seeing as he's A's ex? i know the whole ' never date your friends ex's,' but if she's happy with this other guy; i was wonderingif it's okay?

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