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i really dont know.? this is sorta long.
btw before you read this im 13/f
ok i added this boy on my cousin's myspace.
so then he messaged me "your hott would you fuck me. ?
and i go" why.?" and he goes cuz "your hot and i will definatly fuck you."
than i go " are you virgnin?"then he goes "yeah i am.. if you r i would make you not a virgin.=]"
and i go "yeah" then jokingly i go "okk. good. "
he goes" how big do you like them" and i go i d ont know and he goes "well mine is 7inces. thats big enough for you baby =]" and i dont know him. my cousin knows him .
is he joking.? would he know i was joking.?
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Hello,
There is no way to tell if he is joking or not. (Does not sound like joking to me) There is no way for him to tell if you are joking. Realize that if you are joking or not. he may not take it the way you mean it.
Your age has absolutely nothing to do with how mature you are.
He sounds very rude and disrespectful towards you. I bet he has said that to every girl he has chatted up on myspace. You sound much more mature than he does. Ultimately how you deal with him is your choice. Please be careful and use protection EVERY time you have intercourse.
Just the way he talks to you, should be a warning that he will love you and leave you de-virginized. He sounds like one of those guys that look to take virginity and move on to the next virgin.
Do not be fooled by anything he says. Trust your gut feeling about him, ok.
Good Luck
- - Stay Honest
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I wouldn't get worked up about this. For the most part, he is either joking or typing down comments without really thinking straight. It sounds offensive, but it's actually harmless. The guy has just hit puberty, the idea of having sex is new and exciting to him. He's trying to hit on you not because he actually wants to hit on you or have sex with you, but because the whole thing is new and exciting to him and so he's trying out the whole player persona-thing mostly to dare himself - he probably likes the whole ridiculousness of it.
Either that or he has a twisted sense of humour.
To respond you can either:
1) message him back in a joking put down-y way. Get in on his sense of humour.
eg. "7 inches?? thats tiny man ive seen way bigger"
The downside is that you may feel uncomfortable doing this.
2) Stop replying to his messages, stop reading his messages, and block him. You don't actually know this guy, so you have lost nothing by doing this except a really annoying, slightly offensive myspace contact.
I would personally do option 2. Remember that just because your cousin has him on myspace does not mean that he actually knows him (or knows him well); a lot of people add random classmates to these kinds of websites, or even people that they don't know at all.
He's likely harmless, but if he's bothering you in any way, don't feel bad at all about dropping him as a contact.
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I really don't think he was joking and that was so not appropriate especially if he was older than you. You should not be talking to him anymore cause your still a bit to young for all that crap. Hope I helped.
xoxoxoxo
princessita
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btw he is 13 too.
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You already know the answer to your question coming from me because I have already told you my opinion of these type of questions coming from someone your age.
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