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flirtatious
are flirtatious girls... undateable? i have an extremely flirty personality.. i cant really help it. its just who i am.. but often guys are like "i see you as a girl i can hook up with... but never anything serious" i am SO sick of being everyones random hook up.. even if i dont hook up with them, i still feel so dirty? i mean i dont do random hook ups but guys still think that they can get away with stuff like that with me. how can i get guys to take me seriously in a relationship without changing who i am?
thanks in advanced
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No we are not un-dateable. Flirtatious people, are often very open and people friendly. In a relationship flirting is obviously necessary. But, at the same time you need to control yourself. Show guys that you can be flirty, yet calm and collective (unless you are incapable of that..haha) Show them that you can devote your time to them, and your attention to their needs, rather than talking up every guy around you. And I agree, "hook-ups" it sounds dirty, because it is dirty. Any person who hooks up, isn't really.. "flirtatious" I would go more with promiscuous. You know?
Overall, you don't have to change you. Just remember to listen to the guy and once you're in a relationship; focus on that person. Show him that you are a deeper person, more than just "sex".
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AH HA! CAUGHT YOU..
YOU JUST SENT THE OTHER question too that I answered. I am not going to call you out on which question, but you know exactly what I am talking aobut! My answer and information pertaining to you is in the original question you asked and it still pertains to this question too.Email me sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
I am not going to call you out on which question you asked but we need to talk- real talk.. email me girl and before you do, read what I have asked you about change in the original answer, it still applies too...
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