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hopeless romantic
do you ever really get that buttergly in the stomach, tingly feeling that you read about in books and see on movies? i have kissed many guys, and all my kisses are well... dissapointing? i am a hopeless romantic, but am i ever going to get that "perfect" kiss? or is it all a myth and should i just settle for what i got now?
experiances and advice is much appreciated. thanks in advanced!
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I have a lot of experience, and to tell you the truth, your "perfect" kiss will come from the person that you love. To have a "perfect" kiss, you have to want it and love them.
For example, I'm fourteen, and I've had many boyfriends, and I've kissed many guys, and I didn't get my first perfect kiss, until I started dating the guy I'm with right now, and we've only been together for a month and a few days. I love him with everything in me, and whenever he kisses me, I get the most amazing feeling ever.
- You pretty much just have to be in love with them.
Hope I helped! :]
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Oh my God, thank you for asking this question!!
Okay, sorry if this is long, but it's totally worth it, I promise!
Alright, my first kiss was a mistake. I was in sixth grade and it was with this really hot guy that I was only acutely attracted to, and it was clear he just wanted to make out because he was horny. I went through with it anyway, and it felt gross and slimey and just not like what it seems like it should be.
Next was with my boyfriend Chris, just this past year. I really liked him, but when I kissed him, I was indeed disappointed. We made out for about an hour, but it was dull, and slimey, and not so pleasurable. I had lost all hope.
Then I went on spring break, and met this guy (I had a boyfriend at the time, but just forget that for a minute). I hung out with this mysterious spring break guy, and on the second night together we kissed. It was perfect. I know it's not because he's had more experience than my other two kisses, because he told me his whole history, but I really think it has to do with you you're with. Sometimes you just have perfect chemistry with a guy, and kissing is actually fun! As fun as it looks like it will be in those movies!
So to answer your question, DO NOT LOSE HOPE!! The perfect kiss is out there, and I can guarantee it after having been in the same position you are in right now. You will be very pleasantly surprised by how great it is!
Hope I helped,
Jennifer.
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Don't expect it first of all. If you are eager to experience it, it will let you down. It really does happen when your seriously crushing on someone and you are playing that does he/ she like me. the innocent flirtation, the glances from across the way. the build up is the best part. Make that game last. When you finally can't take it anymore and when you feel like you don't kiss this person you are going to explode... that's when it will happen. But those tingly butterflies have to be there way before you kiss in order for them to be there for the kiss.
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U asked me how I knew your age: I am able to see ages and it states 15, maybe it's wrong, and if it is I apologize for the error.
I have felt it and guess what? it turned out to be fake as hell because it meant everything to me and nothing to him. just being real with you.
These feelings you speak of do exist only with someone special who is willing to open up and go there too. It takes compatibility - if the person isn't a hopeless romantic, then you would be the only one feeling it which means jack crap. You are still 15 years old which means that you have plenty of time in your life to find that and feel that- but please make me a promise: don't go kissing everybody hoping that they are the one you feel this magical feeling with - because they could be frogs and stay frogs- understand what I am saying?? So, for now, I am encouraging you to settle, and wait - it takes time and you still have plenty of it. Be happy and use your time constructively, wisely, cautiously, carefully, responsively and patiently. Patience is a virture!
Life is precious, value every moment of it!
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I know what your talking about.
To get that "perfect kiss," you have to ONLY concentrate on the kiss, and not anything else that is going on. ANNDDD you gotta find someone youve got great chemistry with, someone that turns you on, and touches you in that sensitive place (like behind your neck, lowerback or whateverr). I have gotten that butterfly/tingly feeling haha, because you have to get REALLY into it. Like the world has stopped and your the only living thing. I've only had a few perfect kisses like in the moviesss haha, but that is what they feel like. Dont give up and just settle for what you have right now! Go out there and find a guy you really click with, and you actually WILL get fire works.
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