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I just got 2 gerbils. Both males. Ones the dad of the other one. What are some cute names form books or movies or whatever between father and son? Or at least 2 guy friends like starky and hutch or something (link)
Atticus and Jem (from To Kill a Mockingbird)
Kim Jung Il and Kim Il Sung (that's kind of a joke)

I think Atticus and Jem would be cute. Sorry I can't think of any more.


I like this guy and i know hes kind of a manwhore. He openly admits to loving sex and people say that is pretty much what he wants from a girl. Do you think there is any hope to him not being so manwhorish if he maybe finds the right one? He said he wants a girlfriend but the right girl. I just dont know whether I would want to be another one of his casual hook-ups because ive never dated/hooked up with a guy so should i give him a chance? Are there some good/bad signs i should look for? (link)
I went through the exact same situation last year.
I found the guy so intriguing, because he was gorgeous, and interesting, and mysterious... and yeah he had the "man whore" reputation as well. We liked each other, but he kept telling me that for him, sex was a big part of the relationship.. along with the other parts. We tried to make it work for a while, but I just wasn't ready to have sex with him so it eventually ended. This was my experience, and I cannot say for sure whether or not it will be the same for you. He said he wants a girlfriend, and maybe if you are willing to have sex with him in addition to the other "couplish" things that people do, it would work. Who knows, maybe he wouldn't even need the sex if he was with a girl like you! If things are looking like they might get serious between the two of you, though, you need to lay down the ground rules right away, so you both know what you are getting into. Only do what you are truly comfortable with, because even if this guy won't like that about you, there is absolutely another guy out there who will love you for it.
Hope I helped! Ask me more questions if you need to,
Love,
Jennifer


So, I wanted to send Robert Pattinson some fan mail and a couple pictures so he can autograph them. Well, I have the address and everything all I do need is the pictures of him. I want them to be like REAL pictures not just a peice of paper with him on it that I printed out from my computer. I want a real picture like ones you would get if you developed your pictures from your camera. So how exactly do I get these pictures?

Thanks in advance! I hope I didn't confuse you to much. (link)
I don't know about those kinds of photos, but I would go to ebay and get a small (12 x 12) poster of him. If you really want it to look like a photo more than a poster, you can always go to kinko's and get it printed on photo paper. You can even have them laminate it there if you want!
Hope I helped!
Love,
Jennifer


I keep having severe dry coughs, that sometimes it makes me stop talking and cough. I feel like it's choking me sometimes if I don't have something to drink. What can I do to make it better or make it go away? (link)
I used to have that too! For me, there was no real solution other than water. But if you keep a hard candy (like a cough drop or something) in your mouth for most of the day, it's unlikely that the dry coughing will even start. Otherwise, just try to take a water bottle in your backpack/purse with you.
Hope I helped!
Love,
Jennifer


i am redoing my room and i want to put posters all over my walls. But i listen to screamo and metal and some oldies. So were could i get some posters that fits those genres of music? (link)
If you go to art.com they have posters for almost everything. Just search some of the bands you like, and I'm sure they'll be there.
If not, ebay ALWAYS has what you're looking for in terms of posters. I hope I helped!
Love,
Jennifer


do you ever really get that buttergly in the stomach, tingly feeling that you read about in books and see on movies? i have kissed many guys, and all my kisses are well... dissapointing? i am a hopeless romantic, but am i ever going to get that "perfect" kiss? or is it all a myth and should i just settle for what i got now?

experiances and advice is much appreciated. thanks in advanced! (link)
Oh my God, thank you for asking this question!!
Okay, sorry if this is long, but it's totally worth it, I promise!
Alright, my first kiss was a mistake. I was in sixth grade and it was with this really hot guy that I was only acutely attracted to, and it was clear he just wanted to make out because he was horny. I went through with it anyway, and it felt gross and slimey and just not like what it seems like it should be.
Next was with my boyfriend Chris, just this past year. I really liked him, but when I kissed him, I was indeed disappointed. We made out for about an hour, but it was dull, and slimey, and not so pleasurable. I had lost all hope.
Then I went on spring break, and met this guy (I had a boyfriend at the time, but just forget that for a minute). I hung out with this mysterious spring break guy, and on the second night together we kissed. It was perfect. I know it's not because he's had more experience than my other two kisses, because he told me his whole history, but I really think it has to do with you you're with. Sometimes you just have perfect chemistry with a guy, and kissing is actually fun! As fun as it looks like it will be in those movies!
So to answer your question, DO NOT LOSE HOPE!! The perfect kiss is out there, and I can guarantee it after having been in the same position you are in right now. You will be very pleasantly surprised by how great it is!
Hope I helped,
Jennifer.


I just wanted to know on the ipod touch if you can go on any websites or are there just a select few you are able to get access too? (link)
You can go to almost any website, including Facebook, Advicenators, Blogger, and Amazon. I haven't yet come across a website that I haven't been able to access.


what are other ways to please a guy than just giving blow jobs or hand jobs.

its getting repetitive with me and my boyfriend lol. (link)
It may sound weird at first, but hear me out.
If you're not ready to take it to the next level and have sex, something that is very common is "dry humping". I know it sounds gross, but basically you can either leave all of your clothes on or just your underwear and stuff, and just rub up against each other... there will be no actual penetration but he will definitely cum and you might too. Message me if you want to know more. Sorry if you're not interested lol!
Hope I helped,
Jennifer.


I am 16 and a guy.. My best friend just told me that she liked me. We have been friends for a while but I don't know what to do. It gets akward when we are around the group and I don't know if we should take it farther. I need some advice. (link)
It depends first and foremost if you like her. If you aren't sure, you should spend some one-on-one time with her and see how it goes, because if you two do start dating, this is how it will be. If it's completely awkward and just doesn't feel right, you probably should not take it farther. If it feels totally comfortable and you're sure you like her, there's a good chance it would work out.
If you're concerned about the being good friends beforehand thing, and not wanting to make it awkward, just think of it this way. People who are dating are almost always really really good friends. Since you already have that relationship, when you're dating it will more than likely feel natural and great. If, however, when you start dating, you feel like you're dating your sister, you should probably break it off. There's about a 50/50 chance it will work out, and if for whatever reason it doesn't, try to make it easy for her to go back to friend mode. There's nothing worse than throwing a friendship away after a failed dating relationship.
Hope I helped!!
Jennifer.


You said if i have any questions, i can ask you. Well, i never made out or french kissed and i don't know how to move my tongue?! I don't want to be all professional and i don't want to not know how to do it! I think it would be his first time to makeout or french kiss 2. I understand the difference of it now. :) (link)
I'm sorry this is a bit late!...but how to kiss.
To start it, there will probably be an awkward pause in conversation. Depending on how experienced/confident he is, he may or may not grab your hand or make some kind of obvious move like that. When you're about to kiss, you'll know it. There will be nothing to say, and you will both be sort of awkwardly looking at each other, and eventually one of you will lean forward.
If at first, it feels kind of weird, awkward, and unnatural, don't be worried! This is how almost all first kisses are! In fact, even still when I kiss a new guy, I feel like it just doesn't fit at first. But stay with it (meaning move your lips against his), and soon enough it will feel perfectly natural, and i guarantee you'll love it!
Next, if you want to move into the French/making out mode, just feel free to open your mouth a little bit. Don't necessarilly put your tongue in his mouth first, let him do that. When he does, just kind of move your tongue with his, don't make any sudden or harsh movements. Eventually it will sort of feel like your mouths are melting together, and you'll absolutely love it! Good luck, and if you have any more questions, feel free to ask!!
Jennifer


Okay, this is so broad so any answer is really going to be a shot in the dark...haha but i had this song stuck in my head earlier, and i can't remember for the LIFE of me how it goes!!!

it's a newer song. made within the last year or so. it's like hip hop and a duet. and i know one of the lyrics is "i love you so much"

wow. if anyone could help me, that'd be amazing. (link)
I'm pretty sure you're thinking of Last Night by diddy and Keyshia Cole
here are the lyrics if you want to see if i'm right:
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/diddy/lastnight.html


My boyfriend told me he wanted to french kiss me 5 times. But i want to know the difference between french kissing and making out??? (link)
Yeah, like the other two people said before me, there is really no difference between the two. It is basically like when you watch those movies with really passionate kisses and it looks like their mouths are opened into each other, if you know what I mean.
If you have any questions regarding how to do this, feel free to ask! :)
Jennifer


whats the best brand of makeup? (link)
Mac and Benefit. No question.


ok well im 5'3 and im 13/f and i weigh 122 pounds. I want to weigh 103 and i have about 1 1/2 months to do it. is that possible? also what are some excerises you can do at home that will decreses your fat in your buns, abs, thighs, ect. if you dont have any excerise equipment. picutures would be awesome if you could find some. thanks in advance. (link)
for your height, the average weight is between 92-136 pounds, so you're completely healthy. also, it would be close to impossible to lose that much weight unless you tried to lose weight in unhealthy ways. since you are young, your matabalism is at it's peak, so it would be hard to lose more than 5 pounds. if u cut back on sugar, and high-fat snacks, and run or play arobic sports daily, you can probably lose some weight but not 19 pounds


I'm a very avid jogger because I've deduced in my head that it's the only proper way to burn all the calories I eat.
But I'm having trouble accepting my calves, which are quite muscular now.
I don't like it. And I want them to shrink.

Is there anyway to minimize calf-muscle? (link)
penis.


can using tampons a lot pop your cherry? (link)
yes, they can, but it's not likely to happen. sex isn't the only way your cherry can be popped, if girls are really active, their cherries can get popped from just running a lot or if u stretch too far it can happen. sometimes girls think they're just getting their period, but actually their cherry popped. it's not really a big deal, and if you do pop it from a tampon, which is unlikely, you probably wont even notice. hope i helped,
jennifer


so me and my friends started his thing that when we get our periods we throw them a red party
does any one have any ideas of games to play or decorations that would be funny but not inapproiate?????
thnks (link)
haha! i think you should definitely get red cray paper and hang it on the ceilings and wrap it around the railings of things. also i think it would be funny if you took red poster board and cut different size polka dots out of it. then put them on the walls and hang from ceilings and stuff..since they're dots, they're like periods...yeah. if you're going to have snacks you should get red bowls/cups/plates/napkins and stuff. it would also be cute if a lot of the snacks were red (ie strawberries, hot tamales, flamin' hot cheetos, etc). If you want to go all out you could go to target or wallmart or something and get some cheap round red throw pillows just to have them around. hope i helped!


polo shirts with aligators on them..what does it mean? where are they from? is the store expensive? (link)
lacoste. they're between 70-90 dollars.


What do people think of this:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=190116864286 (link)
it's a good idea, but try to buy it from someone else. this person doesn't have a very good rating. i know 95.5% sounds pretty good, but they've only sold 20 items, they should have 100% satisfaction or at least 99%. check their feedback, because i'm sure there are some complaints. but yeah, search for this product from another seller.


unfortunatly, ive fallen in love again. im 13/f and can thelp the way i feel. the guys name is matt. hes a grade above me, and school is going to end soon, so how do i get him to notice me? the second i saw him i felt some kind of connection. hes really nice and sweet, but im not suure what to do? all help is appreciated, and if you have any questions ill clear them up

thanks (link)
you're 13, girl. you're not in love. sorry to be so blunt but...just wait for someone to come to u. it wont be long.




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