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Member Since: February 12, 2007
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Last Update: February 14, 2007
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im fifteen and havent had my first kiss
its really been bothering me.
but some of my other friends havent
had theres yet too .. and we just talk
about it occasionally and it make me
feel weird! because when i get my first
kiss how do i reacccct and stuff ..
haha this is so awkward. (link)
your first kiss will come ! just be patient =] it's better to move slow then to rush into things.


ok well about3 weeks ago me and my boyfriend boke up(btw 14/f) adn since then, he hasnt tlaked to me adn we cant start a decent conversaion. this is exxacctly why i didnt want to start anything to begin with, becasue i knew it would end up bad.. we use to be the bestestr of friends. (link)
it'll probably just be akward for awhile.. but i think you should just try and talk to him & act like you acted when you were friends. he's probably nervous to talk to you because he's afraid it will be akward, so if you make it seem like its not akward for you- hopefully he won't feel akward! hope this helps a little.


i've liked this guy for awhile, and this weekend i was convinced to ask him out and i did (my friend had asked him if he'd say yes and he said maybe, and in his world maybe could mean anything). i asked him out and then instead of answering he invites me, my friend, and his friend into an aim chatroom and starts ignoring me whenever i asked him to answer the question cause he was taking it as a joke. and today, i look at my phone 5 minutes before school ends and he was calling.i couldnt answer till the bell rang and by then it had gone to voicemail. i called him back after the bell and he answer but no one was talking, i heard a bunch of wind. i asked him why he called online today, and he didnt answer. what does this mean? hes a really confusing person. and dont tell me to get over him, bc that wasnt the question. (link)
Guys are soo confusing. Its too hard to say what he could mean. I would play it cool for awhile, and see if he talks to you or anything. He could just be insecure and too nervous to answer the questions your asking. Maybe he thought you guys were just friends and he thought you were kidding when you asked him out, and didn't wanna say yes and sound like an idiot. So, i would just play it cool & let nature takes its course. hope this helped some [ although, the confusion of guys can never really be fully understood ] but good luck girll. =]


I really like this guy named Chris, and I think he might like me too but I'm not sure. He's kind of shy but whenever I talk to him in person he laughs a lot at all of my jokes. But, I don't have any classes with him so I can hardly ever talk to him unless we're both at school early or something. Our school has laptops and we have emails for our school so we email each other all night basically. I tried to ask him who he likes but all he said was "I don't Know who I like". Earlier I had asked Ben, one of his friends to find out who he likes, but they told him I wanted to know. Tonight Chris said "I really don't know who I like but you can keep asking Ben ;-)". A long time ago he liked me a lot but I told him I just wanted to be friends. I really want to be with him, it would be so fun to have a boyfriend for Valentine's Day, but I don't know if I should just tell him I like him, or if that would be too bold. I think he probably knows I like him anyway, but how do I find out if he likes me? Help! (link)
Well, the other day when I was with my guy.. he said that guy's looove boldness. He said guy's hate always ' having to do everything '. So, maybe you could just try telling him. If he doesn't feel the same, you'll still have him as a friend. good luck =]


please help.
i will try to make this short for you guys haha. My best friend who i've been friends with since kindergarten got her first boyfriend about a month ago.(we're freshman) Yeah, it's cute and everything, but holy mother of god it can get annoying. It's Sean this, Sean that (her bf). It's non stop details about them and how awesome everything is. All days it's "has he been looking at me...do you think he likes my shirt? what about my hair?" goodness... And then i have to hear about all the stuff he says to her about him loving her and stuff. and she sends me long emails and crap with buttloads of info about their conversations and i cannot take it. I've addressed her politely about it and we're open about things with one another, but she won't stop. IMAGINE NON-STOP QUESTIONS LIKE "ok if sean and my relationship were weighed on a scale on how much he likes me...would our relationship be a sumo wrestler or an annorexic girl?" Yeah. I ignored that one. And it sucks because i just broke up with someone recently and i hate that everything is shoved in my face like that. I am not in anyway jealous, and i know that because i am secure with myself and i do not wish to be in any sort or "relationship" right now. Help please. There are no signs that this mindless chatter between she and an annoyed, attempting-to-ignore-her-me , is going to die down anytime soon.

p.s. i am sorry it is so long. i know i said it wasnt going to be so long! =/ (link)
So, I know it'll be hard, because you don't want to hurt her feelings or anything, but i would tell her how you feel. she's your friend, she'll understand. i have a friend that does the same thing, and you're right it gets soo old, but after i talked to her about it, and told her exactly what i felt, she cut down a lot. so just try that. let me know how things go =]


What do i do about my bf???!!! (link)
i've gone through this also. break up with him- boys that cheat aren't worth it. you need to find someone who treats you with respect. once a cheater always a cheater.

good luck =]




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