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manwhore
I like this guy and i know hes kind of a manwhore. He openly admits to loving sex and people say that is pretty much what he wants from a girl. Do you think there is any hope to him not being so manwhorish if he maybe finds the right one? He said he wants a girlfriend but the right girl. I just dont know whether I would want to be another one of his casual hook-ups because ive never dated/hooked up with a guy so should i give him a chance? Are there some good/bad signs i should look for?
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If you don't want to casually hook up with a guy, it's really that simple: Don't.
If that is all he wants, once he realizes he isn't going to get it, he'll move on.
People can change and grow. People can be misunderstood. People can be honest.
He might change. He might be misunderstood.
OR he me might be being honest when he says he just loves sex and although he'd *like* to have a girlfriend, his liking sex gets in the way of that.
You wont know unless you give him a chance. Just do so with your eyes open, and know that anything you choose to do, is your choice. A choice you made willingly and with total understanding of the possible outcomes, and not with a delusional idea that this guy was some sort of devoted purtian.
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I went through the exact same situation last year.
I found the guy so intriguing, because he was gorgeous, and interesting, and mysterious... and yeah he had the "man whore" reputation as well. We liked each other, but he kept telling me that for him, sex was a big part of the relationship.. along with the other parts. We tried to make it work for a while, but I just wasn't ready to have sex with him so it eventually ended. This was my experience, and I cannot say for sure whether or not it will be the same for you. He said he wants a girlfriend, and maybe if you are willing to have sex with him in addition to the other "couplish" things that people do, it would work. Who knows, maybe he wouldn't even need the sex if he was with a girl like you! If things are looking like they might get serious between the two of you, though, you need to lay down the ground rules right away, so you both know what you are getting into. Only do what you are truly comfortable with, because even if this guy won't like that about you, there is absolutely another guy out there who will love you for it.
Hope I helped! Ask me more questions if you need to,
Love,
Jennifer
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I'm not going to give you signs, I'm only going to say that never give a guy like this his terms. If you really think this guy is worth going for, do it on your terms.
Tell him you would be interested in going out with him and getting to know him, but you guaranty there will be no sex and you stick to it, see what he tries, if he does not heed your warning and tries to get you to have sex, drop him then and there, no exceptions.
Stay in touch.
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