Question Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 10:04 pm
i went to my brothers college this weekend and im 16 and he is a sophomore. and we all got so drunk and i ended up hooking up with my brothers roommate. he kept putting his hand on my leg and was trying to go in my pants. he wanted to do more but i freaked out just because i wasnt thinking clearly. then i quickly pulled away bc my brother walked in (but he didnt notice anything) and then the next day we didnt speak one word and i just left? i dont get it. like what should i do when i see him for thanksgiving?
Razhie answered Saturday November 15 2008, 12:07 am: If I were you, I'd stay away from him and pretend it didn't happen.
He made you uncomfortable and he totally crossed a line. He was willing to take advantage of a drunk girl years younger then him, with her brother in the other room? He sounds like a bit of a creep, and not a very bright one to boot.
I would *hope* he didn't say anything because he was embaressed or at least nervous, but still, him not saying anything is a pretty clear sign that it was nothing more to him then a dumb, druken hook-up.
Just let it go. Move on with your life. If he tries anything at Thanksgiving that makes you uncomfortable, tell him to cut it out or you tell your brother everything. That should end that problem. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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