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tell them their your first
how do you tell someone that theyre your first kiss and first boyfriend ? it juss seems awkward. should you tell them before you kiss them that you havnt kissed anyone or afterwards?
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yeah you should tell him. first kisses are very special i made sure my first kiss was not wasted and i told my boyfrind it was my first it makes the guy feel special that you would save you first kiss for someone special and that he is that someone.... i am my bf second girlfriend in the begining of our realtionship he lied and told me that he had already had his first kiss he did that because he was 16 and had not had his first kiss and he thought i would like make fun of him or somethnig when he finally did tell me that i was his first iss i was not mad i was really happy! it made me feel great.... wow i just realized how long this is sorry!!! lol... well to sum it up, just tell him its nice to know that you saved yourself for that special someone
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Well, the first time I made out with someone, I told him. Right after the kiss I just grinned up at him and said something like "Well, that was my first time making out with someone, how was I?"
If you want to let him know, then just tell him. It makes the guy feel special. Guys don't like girls that are too experienced anyways. You can casually bring up past relationships with him, and when he asks you your side of the story, tell him you've never had a boyfriend and he is the special first. If you don't make it awkward, it won't be awkward. A boyfriend is someone who you can discuss these things with. If you don't feel comfortable telling him, then maybe you should reconsider this relationship, because we want someone to accept us.
~Maria, 17
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Funny, I got to disagree. I would WANT to tell the person, if not before, then definitely afterwards, because if it was a person I wanted to share a relationship and a kiss with, I'd also want to share those simple sweet truths about myself. Why would I hide that from a person I consider a partner?
It absolutely will be awkward, but then so are first kisses and relationships a lot of the time. Awkward isn't bad. It's honest. It's human.
Besides, admitting it might make them feel a bit more pressure, but it will make you feel less. You should never pretend more experience then you have. That only leads to stress, lies and disaster.
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I agree with the person below. I wouldnt tell him, and i didnt tell my first person either. Besides, if you tell them you will feel more pressure :]
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Don't tell them, if you marry them, you can tell them then. Your first kiss is for you.
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