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Member Since: November 15, 2008
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Last Update: November 16, 2008
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how do you tell someone that theyre your first kiss and first boyfriend ? it juss seems awkward. should you tell them before you kiss them that you havnt kissed anyone or afterwards? (link)
yeah you should tell him. first kisses are very special i made sure my first kiss was not wasted and i told my boyfrind it was my first it makes the guy feel special that you would save you first kiss for someone special and that he is that someone.... i am my bf second girlfriend in the begining of our realtionship he lied and told me that he had already had his first kiss he did that because he was 16 and had not had his first kiss and he thought i would like make fun of him or somethnig when he finally did tell me that i was his first iss i was not mad i was really happy! it made me feel great.... wow i just realized how long this is sorry!!! lol... well to sum it up, just tell him its nice to know that you saved yourself for that special someone


17/f in a relationship of 1 year...
yes... not too long but i love this kid to death...
and i want to support him in anything he pursues as a career... but he wants to be, a cop. something i'm kind of against... i really dont know why. it's a great job, but *sigh* that whole risking your life thing isnt really working for me... me and my boyfriend have ARGUMENTS over this... i just dont know what to do? Back off? keep telling him to not do it? ='/ ... it's his life, but GAHHH i'm just so confused...
he feels the same on me joining the marine corps, which is why i decided not too... also b/c of my parents... someone please shed some light on this for me? (link)
i totaly understand where you are coming from me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months and he had thought about being a cop he asked me what i thought and i told him that i dont want him to because if anything happened to him i would completly lose it!!!( he has decided to be a lawyer) i mean we love each other alot more than people think teenagers should we are baisicly joined at the hip... i thnk that maybe if you told your boyfriend how afraid you are for him he would be a little more understanding.. i dont mean to be rude but you wanting to marine corps is a little hypocritical of you since that i think is a little more dangerous than being a cop but it is your own life and you should do what you think is best


ok, i broke up in july and my new bf broke up with his ex 3 weeks back. we just started out. everything's great. we hang out together alot. i have started to know his friends. we haven't made out yet. the problem : whenever we are on the phone, i just dont know what to talk about. i juat stay quiet!! like today we were talking and it was him who was blabbering and then he, like, stops and tells me..."why are you so quiet" ughhh...maybe i haven't opoened up to him. or maybe its becaus i dont want this one to turn out like my previous one...idk...i feel like a complete idiot. any ideas? also he is 2 years younger than me. and he is a sweetheart. (link)
me and my bf have been dateing for 10 months and we can be like that too at first i though it was akward but for us just having the other person there to talk to is enough... for your situation i think that in time it will get better if your shy then it might take a while and he is prolly blabbering because he does not want an awkward silence and maybe subconciously you just want to hear his voice.. sorry that was so long




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