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My new boyfriend
ok, i broke up in july and my new bf broke up with his ex 3 weeks back. we just started out. everything's great. we hang out together alot. i have started to know his friends. we haven't made out yet. the problem : whenever we are on the phone, i just dont know what to talk about. i juat stay quiet!! like today we were talking and it was him who was blabbering and then he, like, stops and tells me..."why are you so quiet" ughhh...maybe i haven't opoened up to him. or maybe its becaus i dont want this one to turn out like my previous one...idk...i feel like a complete idiot. any ideas? also he is 2 years younger than me. and he is a sweetheart.
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me and my bf have been dateing for 10 months and we can be like that too at first i though it was akward but for us just having the other person there to talk to is enough... for your situation i think that in time it will get better if your shy then it might take a while and he is prolly blabbering because he does not want an awkward silence and maybe subconciously you just want to hear his voice.. sorry that was so long
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We'll since you guys haven't been dating for a while, you guys aren't going to know everything about each other which is actually a great way to start conversation! just get to know him more. and that will definitely give you something to talk about. and if your nervous about getting to let know you and vice versa, you could do it over aim, or yahoo, Gmail chat, etc. That way it wont be awkward or nerve racking. and then you can move more towards the phone more often. I think that will help a ton! talk about childhood, even favorite foods, movies,music, there is endless things you can talk about. share stories etc. you'll have a million things to talk about once you get to know him and he get to know like the real you. Guys love it when you open up, it makes them feel wanted, and He will do the same in return. Just keep it flirty and fun, He'll love that, and you guys will become closer.
hope i helped.
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i used to be the same way tell him little things about you at a time. ask him questions about him self, favorite food, song, music, movie, candy, soda, all ton of stuff. get to know him more and once you know and trust him youll be able to open up to him and dont be shy about saying or asking something . my boyfriend asked me to " pull his finger" at wal mart today lol. were very open now.
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