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heyyy, I'm kristen i Live in Dallas, Texas. I'm really open minded and I won't give you a lecture, ill just give you the best answer i can! i have alot of experience/giving advice dealing with everything, from friends and family and boys, to sex and drugs and everything else. Ive been there for my friends to give them advice and i will help you too! you can always ask me questions on here. Or you can just email me, or talk to me on aim. I get on everyday usually, so ill answer your questions fast. so hit me up!
Also, pleaseee, when you ask your question keep grammar in mind. thankss!
advice
are you still a virgin if you just finger a girl or eat out or sumthing like that?
what things do you have to do to have sex
and does fingering and eating out and being given a blowjob count as sex?
1.no
2.um, have sex? not that hard.
3.a blowjob is considered oral sex.
How do you cope with your life when 80 percent of your friends have decided to just smoke weed all the time? Half of what they even talk about is weed and drugs in general. I'm not an idiot so I'm not going to try it, but how do you deal when your social life is in shambles because I refuse to hang out with them when there are drugs involved?
17/m
Alot of the time is mostly what you're comfortable with. and weed is very common, but if youre not okay with it, your going to need to asscociate your self with people who don't smoke.
because you can't change your friend's minds, their going to do what they want. So you can just kinda go with the flow and not let it effect your friendship, or you can get new friends who have the same view as you. Its utimatly up to you.
hope i helped!
-Kristen
okay so a commercial came up about gynocologists and my boyfriend asked me if i had one and i said i didn't think i did. i'm not sexually active so is it really necessary to have one?
16/f
Necessarily, no you don't since you're not sexually active and 16, however I know that when you turn 18 it is recommended bccause of health issues, such as cancers and cyst may occur.
Hope I helped!
-Kristen
hi i was just wondering..are laws that make hate speech illegal, legitimate in a democracy? like...doesnt that go against freedon of speech? thoughts?
The amendment states that an individual has the right of freedom of speech, but there are also more laws too this. But Once becomes a "hate speech" there can be legal action taken.
I believe everyone has the freedom to speak publicly about what they feel or believe, however i dont believe in bashing people because of race, gender, looks etc. Techincally it does go against the amendment. but this subject depends on what you think is right and wrong. and what you're beliefs are.
Hope I helped!
-Kristen
first time and it hurt quite a bit. but the thing is it dint feel good. why not? will it ever feel good?
Honestly, the first time for most girls, it's going to hurt, but usually after the 2nd or 3rd time, it won't. and it will start to feel good! try having your guy, stretch you out a little more before he enters, like fingure you more, or make you more wet. seriously. it helps. like more then anything. maybe have him go down if he is okay with it and you are too.
but trust me of course it will feel good! really good. give your self time though
Hope I helped!
-kristen
i went to my brothers college this weekend and im 16 and he is a sophomore. and we all got so drunk and i ended up hooking up with my brothers roommate. he kept putting his hand on my leg and was trying to go in my pants. he wanted to do more but i freaked out just because i wasnt thinking clearly. then i quickly pulled away bc my brother walked in (but he didnt notice anything) and then the next day we didnt speak one word and i just left? i dont get it. like what should i do when i see him for thanksgiving?
When your brother comes to visit, just act like nothing happened, just act like you normally do. and you'll be fine! Just don't make it awkward because if he doesn't know and you act all weirded out, He'll want to know whatsup, so just talk to him like you normally do.
Hope i helped!
-Kristen
long story short.. i met this guy about two weeks ago. he was really sweet and all and we had sex the first time we met. well i thought he was using me so he said no, cause he wouldnt pick me up from school, give me rides to work, hang out with me and visit me at work.. so i believed him and he acutally did like me. he was always cute to me and just last friday we had sex again and he was a jerk afterwards so i was being a bitch. so hes like want me to bring you home and im like idont care your the one driving and hes like well if your acting like that.. so he drove me home and we usually give each other a kiss before i step out and he looked at me and i just left without giving him a kiss.. so after that he hasnt really talked to me. and now im starting to really like him and i dont know what to do because ive already tried talking him three times and he hasnt made an effort at all. so what do i do? forget about him? i already tried asking him if he was mad or anything and he said no. help/advice please
Maybe he was in a mad mood or something that day you two had sex. but he was still asking you to take you home and stuff like that which is good, talk to him about him being jerk to you, say like "Hey what was the deal the other day blahblahblah.." because guys hate it when girls are bitches to them.. it turns them away from the girl. so just talk to him, and if you like him. show him. Because he won't go out of his way if youre being a bitch to him because he wont want too, just so up to him or call or text, and say "hey listen im sorry for being all weird and mean to you lately, but it seemed like you were mad at me or soemthing afterwards, so i got offended. I really want be good again."
just tell him why you were being a bitch to him, he may of not realized that he was being mean, trust me guys probably wont notice it. just talk to him and tell him why you were acting that way and fix things
Hope I Helped!
-Kristen
14/f
I've liked this guy for awhile. I think he found out I liked him, I don't know for sure but I'm pretty sure he did. Ok well the thing is he still does talk to me. He use to talk to me a lot and he still does but its different now. He acts nicer than he did before but he still teases me. I don't think he likes me though. Its just...I don't know what to do. Whenever I see him, he is talking to other girls and it bugs me. I don't think I'm jealous or anything just mad that he doesn't ever talk to me only every once in awhile. I know he doesn't hate me, which is good but idk. I'm more of a quiet girl so don't expect me to go out of my way to talk to him. I am pretty loud when I'm with my friends and in class talking to them and he knows that. I just don't talk to him as much. So he usually says, "why don't you talk to me anymore?" or stuff like that. Yeah I'm sorry this is long but please help. I'm like really confused on how I should react and know what to do with this guy. I wanna stop liking him but then again...I guess I don't. Thanks so much!
Honestly, even if he knows you like him, its not a big deal! play it up, be flirty, get to know him, talk to him. if he is being flirty with you. i would just have fun! start talking to him more. just see where it goes, i mean if he knows you like him, he hasn't pulled away or stopped talking to you, so thats a good thing. means he is interested. so just have fun! talk to him get to know him. and if your too nervous to talk to him alot in person alot, talk to him on myspace, aim, facebook. etc. but your going to have to talk to him in person too. then you can hangout with friends, and then move towards just hangingout alone.
Hope I helped!
-kristen
25f. for the last two months or so I have had absolutely no sex drive. It is driving my boyfriend crazy. I don't know what the deal is...I never think about it and almost never want it and when I do have sex I just want it to be over. I do not take birth control, I eat healthy, my boyfriend is attractive, and I have not changed my diet. Does anyone know maybe why I am lacking in this department or how to jump start it again? Thanks
Women and men, go through cycles where they don't just don't seem as sexually active, or have the want to. It's normal, it could be just a phase, or it could be due to stress. Most likely stress. That can cause you to loose your "sex drive". Or maybe since you haven't had sex, or done anything sexual in a while, you could try having sex with your boyfriend, and that might bring it back. alot of the time if you go without something for a while you get used to not doing it so you stop thinking about it. But it is probably due to a stressor.
Hope I helped!
-Kristen
i really like my boyfriend of 3 months but i get uncomfortably wet when i make out with him and grind with him...i know its a good thing but i dont like getting that wet...it feels almost as if i peed my pants...
does anyone know how to stop it or anything? thanks.
Honestly, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! its a very good thing, I'm positive you're boyfriend is thinking the same thing! But there is nothing you can do to stop this, it may feel uncomfortable at first or for a little bit, but its normally healthy, and good. So you shouldn't be embarrased or anything, your boyfriend loves it. its the truth lol.
Hope i Helped!
-Kristen
My room is Tan with darker tan trim i have lions and other african animals around my room but i want to change it up a bit without having to paint it againsince i only have a year and a half in here until i move out. im 17 && female
I want it to still be pretty much africa theme but i want like photography somehow mixed into it if you could find like pictures or a site to help me out with decorating...im also trying to decide if i should like paint a lion or something on my wall above my bed. Not the body but just a big lion head. what do you think?
help
any ideas would be helpful
Acually this could be such a cute room! try alot of african pieces, like alot of wood stuff. and animal prints. paintings, mirrors, wall decor. etc
try this website,
http://www.africanart.com/index.aspx
be sure if you want to shop buy price go down to the bottom left-ish and click which price range you want
And if you dont want to shop online, you could go to local target, crate and barrell, Hobby Lobby, Pottery Barn. Just look around every where, keeping in mind looking at more rustic pieces, woodsy. anything would work, and if you want to add color, you could add pops of red, orange, etc in maybe a blanket or anything.
Hope i helped!
-kristen
ok, i broke up in july and my new bf broke up with his ex 3 weeks back. we just started out. everything's great. we hang out together alot. i have started to know his friends. we haven't made out yet. the problem : whenever we are on the phone, i just dont know what to talk about. i juat stay quiet!! like today we were talking and it was him who was blabbering and then he, like, stops and tells me..."why are you so quiet" ughhh...maybe i haven't opoened up to him. or maybe its becaus i dont want this one to turn out like my previous one...idk...i feel like a complete idiot. any ideas? also he is 2 years younger than me. and he is a sweetheart.
We'll since you guys haven't been dating for a while, you guys aren't going to know everything about each other which is actually a great way to start conversation! just get to know him more. and that will definitely give you something to talk about. and if your nervous about getting to let know you and vice versa, you could do it over aim, or yahoo, Gmail chat, etc. That way it wont be awkward or nerve racking. and then you can move more towards the phone more often. I think that will help a ton! talk about childhood, even favorite foods, movies,music, there is endless things you can talk about. share stories etc. you'll have a million things to talk about once you get to know him and he get to know like the real you. Guys love it when you open up, it makes them feel wanted, and He will do the same in return. Just keep it flirty and fun, He'll love that, and you guys will become closer.
hope i helped.