How do you cope with your life when 80 percent of your friends have decided to just smoke weed all the time? Half of what they even talk about is weed and drugs in general. I'm not an idiot so I'm not going to try it, but how do you deal when your social life is in shambles because I refuse to hang out with them when there are drugs involved?
17/m
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? loveeer123 answered Sunday November 16 2008, 4:16 pm: Alot of the time is mostly what you're comfortable with. and weed is very common, but if youre not okay with it, your going to need to asscociate your self with people who don't smoke.
because you can't change your friend's minds, their going to do what they want. So you can just kinda go with the flow and not let it effect your friendship, or you can get new friends who have the same view as you. Its utimatly up to you.
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday November 16 2008, 9:10 am: 17/f
I went through that and i was the idiot that tryed it. Most everyone does try it but there are also plenty of people whom smoke it and dont let it run their life. Plenty of people who dont smoke it. you just have to associate your self with those people. Reason I quit smoking was the people i was hanging out with who let it run their life were doing nothing with their lifes and some became abusive. I have a child and weed is a good way to have my child taken away. You can have a lot going for you in your life. drop the old friends (be there if they need you to talk to or something important) but find people you can relate to. good luck. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
darkside89 answered Sunday November 16 2008, 5:22 am: 18/f
I am a coward. I left college because half my friends were into coccaine and heroin and I was afraid that I would get into it too. I dont regret not being with my friends. Because I know that when I'll be 25 and a leading fashion designer, they will be in the hospital battling liver faliures, blood cancers and AIDS. I know I could have helped them, by telling the cops under anonimity but I didnt want to be the cause of their lives being ruined. Over time I made friends. Not as many as had in college but definitely better than them. It is better to have just that one good friend with a good nature than have many who are likely to be your friends because you talk about weeds and needles and Coke.
If you really think they are your friends, you have to decide if you have to help them or stay away from them.
Hope I helped. [ darkside89's advice column | Ask darkside89 A Question ]
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