Member Since: November 14, 2008
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16/f
Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been dating a month now and we talked like a month before we even started going out. I really like him and i am so glad that we are dating. We don't get to hang out during the week because of school work and such, never have time, all that stuff. Well anyways, i only see him in school a second and i don't feel like i am that nice to him. I mean, i am definitly not mean but i don't really act like i like him at all and i recognize that. I REALLY do like him a lot but i just don't know how to show it in person. When we talk on the phone, i am fine and i flirt and stuff but in person i get nervous before i see him and i want to show that i like him since i am going out with him but i kinda can't. I don't really know how to do that anyways in like 3 minutes that we do get to see eachother? What should i do? i mean, breaking up with him is definitly NOT an option because i like him way to much. I also have a moustache and i'm always worried that he will see it so i don't like to look at him when i don't have to. It brings my confidence down a lot!! I can't do anything about it either because my mom won't let me. I just feel like i am ugly and i don't know why he would ever date me. I guess i have two problems in one question. Please help!!
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When you see him, hug him. Ask him how his day has been. Even if you can only catch him for a minute, you can do those two things.
triquetra is right, don't worry about your looks. If he truly loves you, your looks won't matter to him.
To keep up your relationship, make sure you hang out and talk enough. Do you go out on the weekends? Maybe you could meet up after school/before you go home to chat. Can he drive you home? Go to a coffee house to get a drink before you head home.
Remember: If he truly loves you, he doesn't care about your looks. :)
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i like this boy and i know he likes me, i want to know how to get on the subject of dating without seeming obvious or anything. like ways to bring it up in a conversationn..
also i want to stand out from all the other girls is there anyways to do that (link)
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Get to know this guy. Talk to him. Ask him what he made on the science test or how he feels about the new report. Share a cookie or a pencil or a calculator with him. Don't be too pushy, just get to know him.
Once you form a relationship that doesn't center on dating, feel free to drop some subtle hints. You just don't want to exclaim suddenly that you want to go out with him before he's had time to meet you as a person and friend (and vice versa). If he feels the same way you do, he will drop some hints, too. He will want to spend time with you... And hopefully ask you out! :)
To stand out from other girls: Wear something unique everyday - don't try to look like everyone else. Be involved in activities. (Clubs at school are great for that, or play a sport, or whatever you like.) Be positive. Don't throw yourself on guys, but be honest and talkative and friendly.
Most of all, give it time! Hope everything works out!
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