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i like this boy
i like this boy and i know he likes me, i want to know how to get on the subject of dating without seeming obvious or anything. like ways to bring it up in a conversationn..
also i want to stand out from all the other girls is there anyways to do that
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Please, just ask him to a movie or something. There is nothing more flattering for a guy then to be asked to go out, leave the second time to him.
The one thing that most girls, or women for that matter, don't seem to understand is that it's not like it use to be. Men/boys are not as comfortable asking girls out, thank the feminist movement for that. The control has been given over to the female now, we can't even ask a girl out these days more then once, with out being labeled a "stalker".
It was hard enough to get up the courage to ask out a girl when it was up to the guy to start it, now we need to worry about political correctness, no is no and how many time can we ask you out before we find ourselves in jail. Do him a favor, just ask him out.
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Get to know this guy. Talk to him. Ask him what he made on the science test or how he feels about the new report. Share a cookie or a pencil or a calculator with him. Don't be too pushy, just get to know him.
Once you form a relationship that doesn't center on dating, feel free to drop some subtle hints. You just don't want to exclaim suddenly that you want to go out with him before he's had time to meet you as a person and friend (and vice versa). If he feels the same way you do, he will drop some hints, too. He will want to spend time with you... And hopefully ask you out! :)
To stand out from other girls: Wear something unique everyday - don't try to look like everyone else. Be involved in activities. (Clubs at school are great for that, or play a sport, or whatever you like.) Be positive. Don't throw yourself on guys, but be honest and talkative and friendly.
Most of all, give it time! Hope everything works out!
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