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im planning on going to a tanning salon for prom. this is my first time going and i was wondering if my proms on may 9th, when should i start going? and how often should i go? and for how long? and what kind of sunscreen or oil should i use? im new to all this..thank youu. (link)
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if you go then you should go only once every week because if you do it more than that then you are just going to fry your skin and it would be better if you do it less than that like do it once every 2 weeks to start and then once prom comes around the corner then start tanning once or twice a week to get your skin nice and golden because in the beginning you want to expose your skin but you do not want to over expose
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Alright so there is this guy, Ryan. I use to talk to ryan like last christmas break. At the same time my ex was trying to get back with me and this new guy was trying to talk to me. Needless to say I wasn't about to be tied down. ( Not a whore, just testing waters, I wasn't use to having so many options ) anyways, I stopped talking to him. Then like august my best friend got a boyfriend and I was starting to feel a little lonley so I kinda like..obnoxiously went over board trying to get him to like me again. Now looking back at it I realize I acted pathetic and desperate, it was really gross. Needless to say it didn't work out. So school started and I didnt see him all that much and I mean when I did we said heyy whats up like friends ya know? Then the other night I was really intoxicated and we made out and fell asleep on the floor. I had to go home really early for a doctors appointment and I didnt wanna wake him up so I just left. I didnt text him or anything either because I really didnt care, It was just one of those times you know, I didnt look into it or anything. Then I saw him at another party and we said hi but he was deffinitely preoccupied with the party. So I went to my friends boyfriends house because his parents were out of town and thats where I was going to stay. Then Ryan came and we talkedd and flirtedd and ended up making out and passing out on the floor again. This time though when we woke up I wasn't really talking to him much because his ex-girlfriend was there and me and her are cool and I didnt want to like make shit akward. I didnt text him that day or the next and he didnt text me either that was tuesday-wednesday. Thursday I went to austin and he texted me at 12:35 to ask me to go over to matts house. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!? THAT IS LIKE THE ULTIMATE BOOTYCALL. and its not like he was inviting me over to drink or anything because I was like jeez late invitation, and he was like haha sorry man im shit faced. Then he was like well when you get back saturday lets hangout and I was like okay that sounds like a good idea. Well he didnt call, and I saw him at a party and we said hi but since I was with his little sister is was kinda akward. Point is im not sure if hes genuinly trying to get to know me, or if im just a bootycall. (link)
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i think that the whole situation is akward for both of you because he probalbley wants you to talk to him and also you want to talk to him so i think one of you has to go up to one another and say something
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I'm in my 20s, in a long-term relationship. That said, I am well aware that I could become pregnant if I am having sex. I am old enough and in a situation where I can deal with the consequences, so I really don't need any sex ed lectures. Thanks in advance :)
Last year, I was on Depo Provera (up until the end of August). For those who are not familiar, it does stop the user from menstruating entirely. I got my last injection in May of 2008.
Since then, my fiance and I have been using only condoms, putting them on halfway through. We are both aware that semen can escape before climax.
I have not had a proper period since December. I spot occasionally, but nothing substantial. I've been feeling nauseous on occasion, and have gained weight (although that might be due to other circumstances).
I have taken several home pregnancy tests and gone to the doctor to get blood tests. All negative.
The reason I am concerned is that when my mother was pregnant with me, all of her tests came back negative too. She didn't find out until 7 months. Doctors have reassured me that this is rare. Not all that reassuring, though, if you ask me.
My question is, should I believe my test results? How do I find out if it's legitimate? Anyone else had a similar problem? (link)
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i think that should be a little bit scared in this situation and i also think that you should not belive your pregnancy tests expecially if that happened to your mother take my advice go to a person that specalizes in this and then it will all be taken care of
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my hair is curly and i want to get it chemically straightened. but i also would like to lighten it a bit. my hair is dyed dark brown right now, but my natural color is more of a golden brown. i want to get that color back. my question is which one should i do first? Chemically straighten it, or lighten it up? and can i do them both without completely killing my hair...? all answers are appriciated. thanks in advance. please help! (link)
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okay this is what i do i put the color on my hair ether to weeks before or more or two weeks after try to do you relaxer in the middle of that process because if you do it all in the same day then you are going to kill your hair
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Ok, I haven't told anybody this...
It's hard to even write on the net, even though I
don't know any of you.
Here gos.
When I was 7, my uncle molested me.
I didn't tell anybody because I was ashamed, scared,
embarrassed, the list gos on!
I want something to be done about it.
Now that I'm older, and I could take it if he beat
me up, I've had my share of fights...
Actually, many people's share of fights.
But that's beside that point...
I want him to go to jail or something.
How do I know he isn't out there fuckin' molesting
some other poor soul. I don't want anybody else
to go through what I did.
So, if I told somebody, would they do something
about it, even though it's been years since it
happened??
I need to know, because if it's too late, I don't
want to go to the cops and tell them if they can't
do anything about it.
Advice? (link)
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well i think that there is still something that u can do about this but you are going to have to act quick because every day you wait is just another day that you are letting him get to you so act quick
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I have liked girls since like I was 8. I told my mom and now it jus tore us apart. I'm scared to tell my dad because he hates homosexuals! And like I don't know. I'm scared about me and my moms realationship. And I dont know what to do (link)
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i think that you should bring a hint to it and then tell him
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So, I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now and he's been the one to give me my first sexual experiences. But, the problem is that I have yet to reciprocate. And I love him and I want to, but I don't know how to begin or anything! Please, help!
And, another thing. I had broken up with my last ex about 6 months ago and I think I have some "lingering feeling" for him and I love my current boyfriend. What do I do about this? (link)
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then i think that u are going to have to go and talk to your ex and tell him that you still have some feelings for him oreles your relationship is not going to to go anywere
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ok. so i'm a skinny girl, but i do have meat on me.
but Anyways guys are always talking bout if girls vaginas are fat and stuff?
is that bad if it is?
and how can you getrid of some of the extra fat in that area?
plz help (link)
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i think that that extra fat is so that you can have a orgasm the this is coming from a guy
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Someone told me that Energy drinks speed up your matablisim sorry couldn't spell that. But is that true? Like if you don't eat anything, but drink enegry drinks will you get thinner? I know its unhealthy and I'm not gonna do it. Just curious. Thanks. (link)
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well i think that it would speed up your metabolism but you are right that is a very unhealthy way to loose weight but you do not want to do it to often becasue if you do then it would speed up your heart rate and it could cause you to have a heat attack
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okay so me and my boyfriend of 6 months live about 20-30 mins away from each other and he doesn't really seem to care as much when we're apart..like he says he'll call and he never does and im usually always the one that has to text him.. but like when we're together he'll just like look into my eyes for the longest time with that look on his face that makes me just wanna melt...i just dont know what to do =/ ive talked to him about it and he said to just text him whenever i wanna talk, but he doesn't understand the point...any advice?
16/f & 16/m (link)
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i think that you should just call him and take a risk and then you guys would actually be talking and sturring up the conversation
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hayi am 16years old and myboyfrien is 18we are very muchin love...but we always fight and i really want to stop but i cant figure out how we fight about the littlest things can you help me? (link)
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Well Haley you just need to show him who the boss is
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I started cutting about a week ago. I have recently been diagnosed with depressession because of my step mom leaving and taking my 3 yr old baby sister with her. I take a pill called Celexa for depression, it's helped by making me happy,but I still want to cut. I cut because it helps and I do it because I can't stop, but then again I don't want to stop because it helps me feel alot better. I don't scratch because I feel the need to cut myself untill I bleed, if I don't bleed, I am unsatisfied and feel like it didn't help.My boyfriend wants me to stop, and I love him, but even for him I won't do it. I don't want to be told to stop, I want a way of stopping so that I still get that feeling of satisfaction, but without having to cut. (link)
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so what i think you should do is check yourself into a program to start building up your confidence because this is not good for yourself i think that you have to surround people that love you and you need to relize that youa re better than this
i hope that you feel better get back to me if you have anymore problems
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f/16
alright guys, i could use your help.
i cannot flirt at alll.
i don't know how to start it or what to say?
how can i flirt with a guy?
i'm told by a lot of people i have a good personality
and i'll admit that i'm not even really bad looking.
i just have problems talking to guys sometimes and flirting.
any ideas of what i can do or say to flirt?
thanks a bunch :) (link)
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well what i think that you should do is that you should go up to a guy that you like and then just start talking about thinks that you have in common because when you know what when you do that then you are going to have a very good conversation but whenever you want to go up to a guy yo are going to have to do some reaserch on him first because of the fact that you are going to have to find out wat the both of you have in common
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how do i get my moms trust back fast? !!
im 15 female.
i jus got in a lot of trouble for skipping school.
how do i get my moms trust back!?! (link)
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the only way that you are going to be getting your mothers trust back is that you are going to have to be very honest with her and know more lies like when you skip school that is when you loose your parents trust alot because they put there trust in you every day to go to school and to also get an education so that you can better your self in the future so like i said be very truthfull with her and that is going to be the way that you can get her trust back
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15f.
i know you guys are probably sick of all the damn questions about friends and friendship issues, but i have a simple question: do i have a right to be upset considering the following:
i used to be really good friends with this girl, but then she got a boyfriend and EVERYTHING changed.
the first time she hurt me was when she told me she went to third base with her boyfriend FOURTH months after. and i know you're like, "um well that's her personal business with her boyfriend. no reason to be jealous, girl." BUT she told two other friends who aren't as close with her as i am BEFORE ME. she has never done that to me before. she used to tell me everything. i thought i would have been the first to know...
the second time she hurt me was today. when her boyfriend told me that one of our really good friends got practically raped. SIX MONTHS AGO. she does not know that i know, but those same two girls even knew before i did. this really got me upset.
do i or do i not have a right to be upset with her? (link)
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i think that u do have the right to be very upset with her and the reason why i think that is because expecally if she is telling people this that she does not even know as good as you know her them something is wrong there i think that you are going to have to confront her about this situation face to face because if you do it anyother way then she is not going to understand were you are coming from and then she is not going to want to be your friend anymore so you are going to have to handle this situation very delecetley because if you do not then you are going to be loosing her as a friend forever im not saying this to hurt you well okay tell me how it goes and good luck to you
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So there's this guy, that's really friendly and popular and all. He's kind of different / normal. It's hard to explain. Anyway, he basically talks to everybody. I'm homeschooled now so of course I don't talk to him anymore. But when I was in school, when I had classes with him, we'd always talk. He's kind of got a silly personality and he's definitely well liked. But the thing is, now he's like a major jock. And I'm well, haha not much. So I haven't seen him in like two years. I mean, I might have SAW him at a football game recently, but he didn't see me or anything. Anyway, it's not like we have any relationship at all. I've never even considered liking him. So, last night, I had a dream about him. I've been thinking about it ALL day. It was like we knew each other forever. And I don't remember my feelings for him in the dream, but when I woke up it was like wow. My heart had that crushed feeling. In my dream we held hands and were all over each other and stuff, not in a sexual way. And part of my dream was we were riding around in the car, holding hands, and just little things like that. It felt amazing. Then I woke up and missed it.. and have been thinking about it basically all day. SO now, I just sat down at the computer, went to myspace. And in the new 'people you might know' section, IT SHOWED HIM. I haven't seen him in years, and didn't even know he had a page! Coincedence or what?!It only shows three people. What are the odds. I don't think I want to add him, cause I mean he's like way popular and he probably barely even remembers me or even cares. So I don't know. Could it be a sign or something? This is really freaky =/ (link)
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i think that you should add this person because it could be more than just a crush and if you let this crush go you are going to have to go through life wondering if u made the right decesion on not talking to him then when you add him then talk to him for a little while and if he rememebers you then i think that you should tell him how you are feeling so u can express what you are feeling on the top of your head so that he could get a sense what he is feeling i know that this does not make sense right now but when you do it is going to make every thing so much better i promise good luck and tell me how everything goes
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15.f
so one of my best friends has a boyfriend and they've been going out for about a while. however, she's getting a little upset with him because he is not managing his time well in terms of academics and extracurriculars (he's always stressed out, which stresses her out). she even does homework for him.
unfortunately, i don't think she's handling the situation well at ALL. i mean, she's all like, "i'll help you!" and helps him, and then holds it against him, and it's obvious he hates that. for instance, we had to write an essay recently and he asked her if she can EDIT it. he had already written it. she did so, but then in school in front of myself and another guyfriend, she was like, "i practically wrote it since i had to edit EVERY SENTENCE." and that's pretty mortifying for him if you ask me.
so why doesn't he just do his homework himself? well first of all, he's in all honors and AP courses and he also does a ton of extracurriculars, and he refuses to drop them. if he doesn't ask her for help, he ends up getting really stressed out, and if he DOES ask her for help, he feels mad guilty. and she's not being very supportive of him; she mainly ridicules him for not managing his time well. she has a crapload of her OWN stuff to do, and it's very difficult for her. if she helps him, she gets stressed out because she has SO MUCH WORK to do. if he doesn't, she hears him complain, she gets stressed out because he's stressed out. lose-lose situation.
SO, i wanted to know what i should do. both of them are very stressed out right now and frustrated with the other, and it is NOT my intention to create even more problems amongst them by getting involved. for a project we all have to do, she refused to let him take his part (although he INSISTED he would do it, she knows he will only be overwhelmed later) and took it on herself. obviously, i offered to do it for her. she refused. then we decided i would do half of his part and she would do the other half. she feels so badly asking me for help because it's like a domino effect -- he doesn't do his work, she does it for him, she gets stressed out, i do it for them, i get stressed out. and she doesn't want that.
but i hate hearing her complain. and i hate hearing her completely verbally abuse him. she embarrasses him a lot and i feel so badly for him.
i want to know what i can do to help. i do not want to interfere with their relationship by talking to him behind her back because i don't want her to get upset with me, but i really don't want this to get out of hand. i feel worse for her boyfriend because he has so much to do, is so stressed out, and has a crazy girlfriend who guilt-trips him. i've asked my friend to just TALK to him calmly (not ridicule him) and explain that he should manage his time better or drop something, but right after i said that she just ridiculed him more.
do you think i should call her boyfriend and ask him directly if he needs help? he needs a friend, and his girlfriend is stressing him out now. he needs someone to talk to cause none of his guyfriends would understand. would it seem justifiable if i merely CALLED him and asked how he's doing, and if there's ANYTHING i can do to help him? he needs someone to HELP him, not ridicule him for making a few mistakes in his life. jeez.
thanks. (link)
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wat i think that u should say to your friend is to tell her boyfriend that you are not super man you cannot do everything at once and he should not be asking her for help on his work unless they are both doing a study group because the same situation happened to one of my cousins because she is in the honor roll but she always used to ask her friends for help on her homework and then one of the days her friends got tired of her asking them for help and then they told her that she is going to have to drop some of the courses or she is going to have to stop asking them for help on her homework i know that you said that he does not want to drop any of his activity's but that is wat he is going to have to do if he wants to stop being so stressed out all of the time
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My little sister is 17 years old and I think she's hooking up with my friend who is 23. I know that they care about each other because they both come to me and talk about it. The only thing I'm worried about as an older sister and best friend is that he could get into a lot of trouble if the wrong person finds out, right? Is the sex age of New York 17 even if the other person is over 21? (link)
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i think that the relationship is going to be okay because if your parents consent to the relationship then no one will get arrested because what i thought was that the age limit was the least you would have to be is 16 and that is when you could be able to date anyone that u want to so wat i think that u should do is go to a local police department and figure out were you guys can go with your relationship before it is called statuatory rape
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16-female
turning 17 soon and wanting to throw a party for myself with only like 5 people and 2 of them being guys one my boyfriend and one my best friend the others are girls my age we are all about 16 years old & there isnt much to do we have gaming systems at my house lik 2xbox360s an xbox and a ps2 but one of the girls doesnt like video games cuz they are nerdy and what not so i dont know exactly what we can do besides go hottubbing in my hottub....its going to be sometime in december hopefully when its snowy.
Please helpout with ideas i dont really want to go out and do things i need indoor ideas!
thanks =D (link)
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if there is not much to do then what you can do is that you can decorate and you can have a movie night and you guys can also go in your hot tub and then that would be a good birthday so try it
Just keepin it real
Joey
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Fourteen\Female.
I have been through every stage a curly haired person goes through. The little toddler, never taking care of her hair, so my Mother went to a hair salon and got it cut to my EARS. So everytime it hit an 'awkward stage' I'd have it cut short. Well I'm done with the poof. From like 11-13 years old I wanted straight hair, the grass was most deffiently greener on the other side. Well now I love my curly hair. I've been told it captures my personality perfectly and Im tired of spending hours straightening it, and killing it. Im done with all the time.
I want a quick way to style my uber curly hair. Length is like just barely touching my shoulders, and it will be getting longer. The longer it is the more it weighs down which is exactly what I want. My skin tone is really red, so I can't go like blonde with coloring but I want a change. From my years of straightening my hair is damanged, and ergh bothering me. But I want my curls.
At the moment Im on Naturally Curly.com but if anyone has some life products they use for there own curly hair and can't live without it I wanna know them.
MONEY IS AN ISSUE.
I can't spend a lot of money and I wanna be able to go to like Wal-Mart lol. but if there is something at the salons Im willing to go there.. I guess =]]
Any Help!! (link)
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i think since you are on a budget i think that you should go to like a sallys beauty supply and pick up some human hair clip in extensions so that is would way down your hair and you can take them out also so then you would have the legth that you want and you will also have the curls the extensions cost any were for 20.00 all the way up to 100 so choose wisley
Just keepin it real
joey
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