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BOOTY CALL?


Question Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 10:40 pm

Alright so there is this guy, Ryan. I use to talk to ryan like last christmas break. At the same time my ex was trying to get back with me and this new guy was trying to talk to me. Needless to say I wasn't about to be tied down. ( Not a whore, just testing waters, I wasn't use to having so many options ) anyways, I stopped talking to him. Then like august my best friend got a boyfriend and I was starting to feel a little lonley so I kinda like..obnoxiously went over board trying to get him to like me again. Now looking back at it I realize I acted pathetic and desperate, it was really gross. Needless to say it didn't work out. So school started and I didnt see him all that much and I mean when I did we said heyy whats up like friends ya know? Then the other night I was really intoxicated and we made out and fell asleep on the floor. I had to go home really early for a doctors appointment and I didnt wanna wake him up so I just left. I didnt text him or anything either because I really didnt care, It was just one of those times you know, I didnt look into it or anything. Then I saw him at another party and we said hi but he was deffinitely preoccupied with the party. So I went to my friends boyfriends house because his parents were out of town and thats where I was going to stay. Then Ryan came and we talkedd and flirtedd and ended up making out and passing out on the floor again. This time though when we woke up I wasn't really talking to him much because his ex-girlfriend was there and me and her are cool and I didnt want to like make shit akward. I didnt text him that day or the next and he didnt text me either that was tuesday-wednesday. Thursday I went to austin and he texted me at 12:35 to ask me to go over to matts house. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!? THAT IS LIKE THE ULTIMATE BOOTYCALL. and its not like he was inviting me over to drink or anything because I was like jeez late invitation, and he was like haha sorry man im shit faced. Then he was like well when you get back saturday lets hangout and I was like okay that sounds like a good idea. Well he didnt call, and I saw him at a party and we said hi but since I was with his little sister is was kinda akward. Point is im not sure if hes genuinly trying to get to know me, or if im just a bootycall.

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babybottlepop567 answered Tuesday March 24 2009, 8:39 am:
i think that the whole situation is akward for both of you because he probalbley wants you to talk to him and also you want to talk to him so i think one of you has to go up to one another and say something

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Trauma answered Monday March 23 2009, 4:53 am:
It's hard to tell with some guys, especially in this situation since the things that happened between you two were at parties & there was probably a little bit of alcohol involved. If you really want to know if he's interested in you, not just as a booty call, ask him out on a date. Go out to dinner or something, & just talk to him.

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