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first time
first time and it hurt quite a bit. but the thing is it dint feel good. why not? will it ever feel good?
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Sex for me hurt the first 3 times... By the 4th time i was waiting for it to hurt and it just didnt... Sex does feel good... REALLY GOOD.. but it takes time to learn what you like and dont like and what feels good and also to find someone who is skilled at the things you like...
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Honestly, the first time for most girls, it's going to hurt, but usually after the 2nd or 3rd time, it won't. and it will start to feel good! try having your guy, stretch you out a little more before he enters, like fingure you more, or make you more wet. seriously. it helps. like more then anything. maybe have him go down if he is okay with it and you are too.
but trust me of course it will feel good! really good. give your self time though
Hope I helped!
-kristen
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Other users answered the hurting part (you do realize that your body needs to stretch to...accommodate, right?), but I'd like to touch on something that nobody has mentioned.
Many, many women have sex and NEVER in their entire lifetime actually enjoy it, orgasm, or have a "feel good" time. Only 25-30% of women orgasm regularly from vaginal penetration (penis in vagina sex) alone. This being said, there are fairly good chances you won't ever have sex that feels "amazing" or anything that you imagine it should be.
A lot of young women keep having sex with various partners because they're looking for that magical, mind-blowing sex they've heard about from their friends. The problem is, everyone really thinks sex should be awesome the first go-around--or the seventh go around--but you need to realize that it simply isn't for most women. This being said, when young women now say they have been with 15 guys in 6 months because it's so "addictive and wonderful" it tells me that they had sex with those guys, trying to figure out WHY it isn't mind-blowing.
Of course, nobody is going to admit that, but I will. And, no, love has nothing to do with it--you can deeply love someone but always have awful, unfulfilling sex.
I've had really, really bad sex before. I've had really, really awful sex with two men. Sex I pretended was fairly good, sex I ended up figuring out as, "This must just be normal...wow...what a freaking waste of time." I never told my female friends that the sex I had was boring, uneventful, and stupid though. Who wants to be the girl that says, "My boyfriend really SUCKS in bed. He's horrible," or, just simply, "I NEVER have a good time in bed..."
After the first time, I figured it would get better but it didn't. After the 5th time, I kept expecting it to get better--but it never did. Eventually I had a second partner and I expected that sex to be better than my previous encounters--but it wasn't! Turns out, I was just finding out that what all my little girl friends at school were saying about their experiences with so-and-so-boy were all very stupid lies.
See what I'm saying? ;)
Don't expect miracles at any point. That's all.
If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask me!
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Ofcourse it will feel good (trust me)...the second time might hurt even worse, the reason so is b/c ur not use to it n b/c ur cherry got popp'ed...but by the third time, it will feel amazing!!!!!<33
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Yes, that is normal. Your first, second, third and fourth and maybe more depending on the women. Mine hurt til about the 6th or so time i did it. The reason it hurts is because it is stretching you, and its breaking your hymen.
When i first did it i was quite disappointed that it didnt feel good at all, but trust me once you do it more it truly feels amazing! It just takes time :]
If you have anymore questions, feel free to drop a msg in my box. :]
GOOD LUCK
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