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25f. for the last two months or so I have had absolutely no sex drive. It is driving my boyfriend crazy. I don't know what the deal is...I never think about it and almost never want it and when I do have sex I just want it to be over. I do not take birth control, I eat healthy, my boyfriend is attractive, and I have not changed my diet. Does anyone know maybe why I am lacking in this department or how to jump start it again? Thanks (link)
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Well from what i know about women it's usually something going on within yourself that's preventing you to enjoy sex.Maybe it's a stressful event,or a moment of unforgiveness toward him for something he did,or it could be a medical issue also.At your age you should enjoy sex it shouldn't be a chore for you at all.Either way try to search your heart and get to the bottom of it.For example,men relieve stress,anger,frustration etc through sex.Where a woman usually dont want to even hear the talk of it.So if there are any issues you need to deal with,deal with them because he will start to have wondering eyes before too long.
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I'm in a serious relationship but there's a problem. I love my boyfriend (I'm female...sorry :P) but I'm not physically attracted to him anymore. Like I think he's hot (because really, he is!:P) but when he tries to kiss me or hug me I just roll my eyes - I just don't want to do it back to him.
I used to love hugging and kissing him but now there's just something in me thats died. I only have two (pretty lame) theories: 1. I've been finding studying and work stressful (I just started a new job) and I thought that may have something to do with it and 2. I started taking the pill about 4 or 5 months ago and I've heard that can effect that sexual drive - or what ever it's called.
Anywho, my question is does anyone know what could be causing this? And any ideas on how to overcome it?
Thanks heaps (link)
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It could be a number of things stress could be a factor but in any long term relationship if you dont find new ways to keep the flame going it will die.That is what's happening to you as we speak but be very careful.If you still care about him he needs that affection from you.As a man even though we act like we dont we do need to be comforted in a genuine way by a woman.Now if you wont do this another woman who has been eyeing your man will take advantage of the situation.So it's very important that you go the extra mile spend time together.Think about what you liked about him before you got together with him.Because if you keep what your doing up your relationship will be over very soon.
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How do I talk to my parents about sex and purity? Whenever I bring somthing up with my dad he gets mad at me and with my mom it just gets akward. What can I do? I want to stay pure till marrige, Im thinking about getting a purity ring just as a reminder whenever it starts to go to far with a boy. How can I bring up a conversation with my parents. I have a little sister(11) if that helps at all. Thanks in advance! (link)
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I dont know how close you and your parents are but you should always have an open line of communication with them.If you cant be open with them then who can you be open to.Now i really applaud you for respecting yourself enough to want to wait for love and experience sex in a loving marriage.As for your parents,try to sit down with them and reassure them that you love them and you just want their advice on the matter.Sometimes as parents we jump to conclusions thinking the worst but if your mom is the easiest to speak with i would try her first without your father around.Some conversations is not for a dad to hear anyway.Your mom can relate to you as a woman and give you advice in that area.
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