Member Since: November 14, 2008
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Last Update: November 14, 2008
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14/f
I didn't know exactly what category to put this in but here we go. I am a very quiet girl. Well not really but I can be. I talk a lot with my friends and stuff. I do talk to other people once I get comfortable with them because they talk to me first. I do talk to other people but it kinda depends. I don't talk to like...I don't exactly know how to say this. Like people I think who are prettier than me or better than me or like popular I guess. I'm not like a nerd or anything. I'm more average type of girl and have lots of friends. I know its not good to think this that like so many people are better than me. I can't even talk to guys unless they talk to me first. I do talk to guys a lot once they start talking to me. But I want more friends or people to talk to. I want to know how I can get the courage to talk to people and not be afraid of what they think of me and be able to be louder. Sorry it was long but please help. Thanks! (link)
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I'm sorry that I really can't answer this question. I am like the same way too! I know how you feel about talking to other people. The only thing thats different though is that I don't have many friends. Well I do but then again I do but they're not "close" friends. I know this is really tough though...being the quiet/shy one just like me. One suggestion (I hope it works) is to start little by little. Maybe saying Good Morning or Hi to people when they walk by at school. That is a good start. I hope this will help and remember start littly by little, inch by inch. Good Luck!
~!MysteriousGirl!~
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14/f
I've liked this guy for awhile. I think he found out I liked him, I don't know for sure but I'm pretty sure he did. Ok well the thing is he still does talk to me. He use to talk to me a lot and he still does but its different now. He acts nicer than he did before but he still teases me. I don't think he likes me though. Its just...I don't know what to do. Whenever I see him, he is talking to other girls and it bugs me. I don't think I'm jealous or anything just mad that he doesn't ever talk to me only every once in awhile. I know he doesn't hate me, which is good but idk. I'm more of a quiet girl so don't expect me to go out of my way to talk to him. I am pretty loud when I'm with my friends and in class talking to them and he knows that. I just don't talk to him as much. So he usually says, "why don't you talk to me anymore?" or stuff like that. Yeah I'm sorry this is long but please help. I'm like really confused on how I should react and know what to do with this guy. I wanna stop liking him but then again...I guess I don't. Thanks so much! (link)
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Oh my God.. this is sort of like me. I will suggest that you try to talk to him more. (I know this is hard cuz this stuff sort of happens to me)
I also think you should ask on eof his close friends if he likes you and tell him how you really and truly feel about him. (Again, I know this is really hard for quiet people like me, but then you'd never find out)I hope this will help!!!
Well, good luck! maybe we could be friends, if you want. My e-mail is saramelon@ymail.com
~!MysteriousGirl!~
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Ok so here it is... So I was dating this guys named Kenny right and like he was amazing to me and everything and like I loved to be around him and just spend time with him. (ok to fill you in He has a kid a little baby girl with another girl) ok so anyway like the saturday before we were talking and things got serious and he asked me some weird questions like is it wrong to break up with someone for no reason and stuff like that then I started to freak out thinking he was going to break up with me because I come up with this whole scenario that is Ex wanted to get back together with him and it just so happened to be true and then he told me all this stuff that he loved here still because she was his first love but he will always hate her for breaking his heart so bad and then like ever since then I felt distant from him and I was scared then he called me that Monday night and said that he didn't think we were on the same page and yeah like so he broke up with me and I don't even see where he got that from because I though that we were happy together and don't know like after he broke up with me I knew that he was going to get back together with is Ex and he did and one of my friends was talking to him and his excuse for breaking my heart was that she is his babies mama and that he still loved her.... so here is the thing like I am mad that he would do that to me and I feel betrayed because I trusted him so much and that I already have trust issues and that I had done things with him that I have never don't with anyone else ever in my life and I feel ashamed that I ever even considered giving it up to him if you know what I mean... and yeah he just broke my heart... ok but here is the really big deal... I am mad at him but I don't hate him.. and I probably should but I don't and you know I don't even want my friends mad at him and I still wanna be friends with him because I would rather just be friends than not have him in my life at all....
is this a bad thing am I making a bad choice?? (link)
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I think this is a good choice. Being friends rather than hating someone for the res of your life is good. I think you've already figured this out by yourself. *Congratulations* It's also alright if you get mad because everyone gets mad once in awhile but the reactions of being mad isn't good. Well, I hope that you guys can still be friends. =)
~!MysteriousGirl!~
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18 years old, female :)
well i've liked this guy for the LONGEST time. like three and a half years. but we're also best friends. so me and him always denied liking each other. and i know he is attracted to me but didn't do anything about it and same for me. but recently i've let him know i like him. i havent told him exactly "i like you" but we've been messing around (nothing really sexual) and flirting non stop when i see him, i'll sit in his lap and he will hold me. and well now i feel like i made a mistake. because he will text me like two days straight after i hang out with him (i usually only see him sometimes on the weekends) and then he won't text me all week, even sometimes he will be like i'll text you tomorrow and he won't. i feel like he now knows he can have me, and that i'll always have feelings for him so he doesn't have to try as hard. i don't text people first, everyone knows that. but it's just heartbreaking. it's like he knows he can control me. i don't know if you want to say control exactly but he knows he can have me when he wants. i try to make myself seem "unavailable" like he'll want to hangout on friday and i'll be like im with my friends! and i will be like lets hang out tomorrow. why do i feel like this? i feel so sad, and confused. what should i do? i don't want to drift apart from him, so i don't really want to ignore him. i've tried playing hard to get. i'm just stuck. (link)
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Why don't you actually ask him straight out if he wants to be your boyfriend. Sometimes playing hard-to-get won't work. Hope this helps! =)
~!MysteriousGirl!~
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long story short.. i met this guy about two weeks ago. he was really sweet and all and we had sex the first time we met. well i thought he was using me so he said no, cause he wouldnt pick me up from school, give me rides to work, hang out with me and visit me at work.. so i believed him and he acutally did like me. he was always cute to me and just last friday we had sex again and he was a jerk afterwards so i was being a bitch. so hes like want me to bring you home and im like idont care your the one driving and hes like well if your acting like that.. so he drove me home and we usually give each other a kiss before i step out and he looked at me and i just left without giving him a kiss.. so after that he hasnt really talked to me. and now im starting to really like him and i dont know what to do because ive already tried talking him three times and he hasnt made an effort at all. so what do i do? forget about him? i already tried asking him if he was mad or anything and he said no. help/advice please (link)
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This is a really hard question to answer. I guess you could ask one of his friends to ask him if he really is mad. If he doesn't, you might just want to forget him. Hope this will help =)
~!MysteriousGirl!~
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i went to my brothers college this weekend and im 16 and he is a sophomore. and we all got so drunk and i ended up hooking up with my brothers roommate. he kept putting his hand on my leg and was trying to go in my pants. he wanted to do more but i freaked out just because i wasnt thinking clearly. then i quickly pulled away bc my brother walked in (but he didnt notice anything) and then the next day we didnt speak one word and i just left? i dont get it. like what should i do when i see him for thanksgiving? (link)
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I'm not really sure about what to say, but I would try not to think about it; even though it will be really hard.
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I am truly and madly in love with one of my best friends. He knows of my feelings and he is very comfortable with that. Problem is, he has a girlfriend of 5 years, and they are speaking of marriage now. I know I really really really need to get over him now. I've recently told him that I should cut ties with him, at least for now, to help with the healing process. I really need any advice for getting over the one you love. Thank you.
Also... I really want to hug him or give him a kiss before he leaves at the end of this year. He's graduating and leaving for... well I really don't know where. But I'll still be here. I know his girlfriend wouldn't mind if I gave him a quick kiss or a hug, because she knows how I love him and she's really nice and so I'm really hoping for that. Any advice for kissing him or anything will also be helpful. (link)
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I think that you should try to think about other things that make you happy, etc. It is also best to ask him if you can kiss him and of course ask his girlfriend... and of course you can hug him!...hes yor friend and friends can always use a hug
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