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13/f how do i know what he is feeling?


Question Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 12:25 pm

13/f

so i like this guy names sam.
we talk on myspace on the time
10 comments a day... or something like that

we talk about music, summer,,, ect.
i dont know if he likes me or not.
because if you message somone you cant really tell if they are flirting because you cant hear their voice,
what should i do?
we rode the same bus and everything.

i want to hang out with him. but i noticed that i am not on his top friends list. does that mean that he isn't interested?

it seemed like he liked me when we were in school because he would always look at me.. kinda like he wants to know if i am looking back sorta thing

how can i tell him that i am interested without completly coming out and saying it?
pleace help


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Cobain91 answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 3:41 pm:
ok. if he seems like he is flirting then he probably is because guys arnt natural flirts like girls are. just because you arnt on his top friend that doesnt mean he doesnt like you. maybe he just doesnt want to show that he likes you because he doesnt want to get rejecated. try to make it more obvious..flirt but dont be slutty. if it doesnt change anything then talk to him about it. its a new day and age! girls can ask guys out..worst comes to worst he just wants to be friends right?

so dont worry and do what come natural!
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askashleynow answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 2:01 pm:
Just give him hints, like for exemple, tell him you are singal. But don't be like: Yeah, I'm singal...... Cause that makes it sorda obvious.. Just try to get into that kind of a convo.. But, I really think you should tell him, because he could get mixed signals and stuff. But if you just be flat out and say it, he won't get all that mixed up. Besides, maybe he feels the same way about you, but he is just to shy. What's the worse thing that could happen? Him saying he doesn't like you? If he doesn't like you, than he's the one missing out right? Besides, you never know, maybe right now he is thinking of ways to tell you he likes you... But he just can't find a way to tell you. So I say just tell him.. But if you absolutly don't wanna tell him that way, just give him hints. Hope I've helped.. Goodluck. If you ever want further advice or anything, please don't be shy to check out my friends and my website at: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) . Again I wish you goodluck.

Well, a way to ask him who he likes withought making it obvious could be like, so... What kind of things are you into.. And then just go to like, so what kind of girls do you like and why.. And then you could be like, do you like anybody presently? and then just go from there.. Yuo can also be like if you tell me who you like.. I'll tell you who I like.. But you have to keep your word and tell him who you like. Sorry.. I'm not really good at this :S. Hope I've helped though... Goodluck with everything.

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