Hello, I'm 15, My friend and I have decided to make a site for people who want/need advice. We've made this site since we both had interest into helping people.. And what beter way to help people than to give them advice right? So please come and visit our site, you go to freewebs.com/ask-scarlet/ We would be honored to help you whenever you would like it. Thankyou for your time. Really appreciate you reading this. Have a nice day . (You don't have to post anything) Thankyou again.
E-mail: askashleynow@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Age: 15
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Member Since: June 14, 2008
Answers: 9
Last Update: June 18, 2008
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13/f
so i like this guy names sam.
we talk on myspace on the time
10 comments a day... or something like that
we talk about music, summer,,, ect.
i dont know if he likes me or not.
because if you message somone you cant really tell if they are flirting because you cant hear their voice,
what should i do?
we rode the same bus and everything.
i want to hang out with him. but i noticed that i am not on his top friends list. does that mean that he isn't interested?
it seemed like he liked me when we were in school because he would always look at me.. kinda like he wants to know if i am looking back sorta thing
how can i tell him that i am interested without completly coming out and saying it?
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Just give him hints, like for exemple, tell him you are singal. But don't be like: Yeah, I'm singal...... Cause that makes it sorda obvious.. Just try to get into that kind of a convo.. But, I really think you should tell him, because he could get mixed signals and stuff. But if you just be flat out and say it, he won't get all that mixed up. Besides, maybe he feels the same way about you, but he is just to shy. What's the worse thing that could happen? Him saying he doesn't like you? If he doesn't like you, than he's the one missing out right? Besides, you never know, maybe right now he is thinking of ways to tell you he likes you... But he just can't find a way to tell you. So I say just tell him.. But if you absolutly don't wanna tell him that way, just give him hints. Hope I've helped.. Goodluck. If you ever want further advice or anything, please don't be shy to check out my friends and my website at: http://www.freewebs.com/ask-scarlet/ . Again I wish you goodluck.
Well, a way to ask him who he likes withought making it obvious could be like, so... What kind of things are you into.. And then just go to like, so what kind of girls do you like and why.. And then you could be like, do you like anybody presently? and then just go from there.. Yuo can also be like if you tell me who you like.. I'll tell you who I like.. But you have to keep your word and tell him who you like. Sorry.. I'm not really good at this :S. Hope I've helped though... Goodluck with everything.
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I was with this guy who i really like but we would always have problems because he used to be a player so he says "used to" and he always talks to his ex girlfriend who he likes and she would tell me all this shit that he supposidly said i dont know it was just a lot of drama. So i caught him with her one night when he wasnt supposed to see her and i broke up with him well i love this boy i have forgiven him for everything but we alway have problems anyway. i got with this other dude we arent together anymore i realised it was so not right and i couldnt get the first one cuz i care about him so much and all i want it to be with him now hes being a dick. i asked him if he wants to get back together he keeps saying he dont know. im like do you want to be with me? and hes like yeah im like ok so are we dating? and hes like i dont know.. its really irritating cause he says there is no reason. (link)
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Well, to tell you the truth, I say just move on.. Obviously he is just confused or whatever. If you do want to go out with him though, tell him that when he makes up his mind to call you because you are done playing silly games. Tell him how you feel when he ignores you or doesnt answer you fully. You could also tell him ythat you like him, but you are tired of him always messing with his feelings, and that you don't appreciate when he does that. So basicaly, my advice to you is, just tell him how you feel about everything. If he is worth it, he will understand and stop hurting you. But if not, he's the one missing out right? So, I really hope this helped. If you would like any further advice, please don't heitate to go to my friends and my site for advice at: http://www.freewebs.com/ask-scarlet/. Goodluck. I wish you all the best.
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What are some good songs that will get me in that crazy, spunky, summer party mood? They can be from the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s and recently. I'd prefer not to get a list of what the top ten songs are on Z100 right now, I'd like to have music that isn't as well known or overplayed.
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Well, I personaly like the songs: five minutes to midnight by Boys like Girls. Epic by Atreyu. Shake it by metro station. Wish we were older by metro station.. I can't think of any other songs.. but I hope I've helped you :)
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okay so a couple days ago my parents mentioned possibly moving to a different state because my dad got an offer for a new job. i am kinda freaking out because moving is such a hard thing for me and i just started fitting in at my school. my dad says that he turned the offer but they are still talking about it. and now everywhere i look i am seeing signs like all the time. i mean as soon as they told me, my friend emailed me and she was like im moving and i was like great there is that word "moving" and then i turned on the TV and there was a special on Boston. then today we parked next to a car that had the license plate that said Boston and radio was turned to the celtics game, even though no one would have turned it to that station. i know that i could just be paranoid but i am really feeling like God is sending me signs so that I am ready.
anyone who wants to give there opinion on whether i am just being paranois or if i should really start to worry, i would really appreciate it.
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Well I say don't worry about it. Think about it, if you move you have another opportunaty to meet new people, and make more friends... You never know.. You might like it there more than thw town your in now. And if you don't move you still have your friends and school and everything right? And even if you move, it doesn't mean that you woun't be able to talk to your friends.... You could call them, mail them, e-mail them txt them.. So, my advice is, just go with the flow... If you move, you move and you you can make friends and meet new people. Hope I've helped you out a bit.. If you ever need any further advice, don't hesitate to go to my friends and my site at:freewebs.com/ask-scarlet/
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You know when people say stuff like "2nd base" and "3rd base"? What are the bases? Please someone explain. Thanks. (link)
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I guess they mean as in a relationship there are different stages.. 1rst base could mean like kissing and stuff.. So technically the further the base you are, the further you are in the relationship.. Ex: 1rst could be like huging but 2nd base is kissing. So its just like that.. Hope that helped atleast a bit.. If you need any further advice don't be afraid to go to my friends and my website at: freewebs.com/ask-scarlet/
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I'm 14 years old and I really want a boyfriend but no one in school ever notices me. What do I do? (link)
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Well, I say just keep being urself, if you change for a boy, than they will like you for who you become and not you truely. So, just keep it real, and just be yourself.. I
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15/f
ive recently realized that i have a hard time talking about myself and my problems to my friends. sometimes i feel like my problems are too boring or too weird compared to other peoples' problems.
for example, way one of my problems that i wish i could talk about is this problem itself. but i feel like i'll be judged badly and im scared that nobody will be interested long enough in what im saying to help me through it.
honestly, the only problem im comfortable with sharing is boy problems because there are so many diff ways you can go with it, and it is "socially acceptable" to have boy problems. everybody has them and boys are fun to talk about! but i dont really have that many boy problems, and its pretty boring to talk about one problem all the time.
ive never really let myself become vulnerable before, you see, so right now im trying to learn.so i just need advice on how to do this. thanks. (link)
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I know exacly how you feel, you don't want to get judged or anything, but you still need to let it all out. What I would recommend for you is to have a diary.. Write all of your problems or whatever on there.. Also try yoga it makes me feel so much better. Tell your friends how you feel, since well they can't really help you if they don't know whats wrong right? Also, when people judge you, they are only judging thereselves. Don't let people bring you down or have an effect on how you act. Be yourself, people love you for who you are and no one else. I'm sure your friends will understand, and I'm sure they will not get bored or lose interest in what you have to say or your problems.. True friends, stick with you till the end. So you shouldn't have to hide anything from them. Goodluck, I hope this helped atleast a bit...
*Please give me a message or reply to tell me if it helped you or not, I am just biggining at giving advice, and I want to know if I'm going in the right direction. Thankyou so much. Really appreciated.
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Well my ex - boyfriend like broke up with me a few months ago and his friend told me tht he hated me and i didnt do anything to him and i dont believe his friend . uhm well i think i may be starting to like him again but i dont know if i should like talk to him becuz it'll be pretty weird so i dont know wht to do but i really wanna be friends with him . (link)
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I say, JUST GO FOR IT!! What do you have to lose right? When you run into him, or just see him, ask him if you can talk, tell him how you feel and that you want to be his friend. You can also tell him he can think about if (if you want). You have nothing to lose anyways right? The worst he could do is say no.. And even there, he's missing out on loads of fun right? So just confront him and ask him to be your friend. Try not to force him, or that will look like you're really desperate and he might take advantage of that.. But either than that.. I say why not. Good luck. Hope this advice helped you atleast a tiny bit.
*Please send me a message or reply and tell me if this helped you at all.. I'm just starting and I would like to know if I'm in the right direction. Thankyou so much, really appreciated.
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I have a friend who constantly needs attention. It was my friends birthday, but she made everyone pay attention to her. She thinks she's above everyone, and is 'different' just to be 'different', rather than being herself completely. I know thats a complicated concept. Anyway, the other day she was being mad annoying and i told her to be quiet and she blew up on me. She just recently told me how boring I am, so I think its my turn to tell her how attention-seeking she can be. Any suggestion? (link)
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My advice to you is, ask her why she always wants attention.. She must want it for some reason right? Maybe it's because she feels as though no one listens to her, or cares. Just try to confront her about it. Try not to be rude about, just tell her that you would much more appreciate it if she could be herslef. You could also include that she could be so much more respected and loved, if she was just herself instead of trying to be something she wasn't meant to be. Tell her that she doesn't need to alwasy be center of attention to be loved or respected, and that her voice will get heard even if she isn't in the center of attention. Tell her you're always there for her, if she ever needs anything, but she just can't always be the center of attention. Try to be as polite and nice as posible. I hope this advice helped you atleast a tiny bit. Please e-mail or reply to me, to tell me if my advice helped you.. I'm just starting off, and I would really appreciate it if I would know if I'm atleast going in the right direction. Thankyou so much, and good luck.
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