I was with this guy who i really like but we would always have problems because he used to be a player so he says "used to" and he always talks to his ex girlfriend who he likes and she would tell me all this shit that he supposidly said i dont know it was just a lot of drama. So i caught him with her one night when he wasnt supposed to see her and i broke up with him well i love this boy i have forgiven him for everything but we alway have problems anyway. i got with this other dude we arent together anymore i realised it was so not right and i couldnt get the first one cuz i care about him so much and all i want it to be with him now hes being a dick. i asked him if he wants to get back together he keeps saying he dont know. im like do you want to be with me? and hes like yeah im like ok so are we dating? and hes like i dont know.. its really irritating cause he says there is no reason.
If he wanted to get with you, he would know. Now, why do you even want to deal with the drama? because of a challenge? I am suggesting a book, called why women love men who don't want them. check it out it's a good book and it's true. It made me mad it was so real but it opened my eyes and made me realize some important things about him, myself, relationships, and our relationship too.
LET HIM GO... they all say they USED to be a playa but until he has some internal change within himself to the point that he realizes it, he is going to be who he is. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Use your mind and follow it but most importantly follow your soul. why?
because a mind can be wasted, a heart can be broken but your soul is something that Satan and God want so it must be powerful, right?
askashleynow answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 1:55 pm: Well, to tell you the truth, I say just move on.. Obviously he is just confused or whatever. If you do want to go out with him though, tell him that when he makes up his mind to call you because you are done playing silly games. Tell him how you feel when he ignores you or doesnt answer you fully. You could also tell him ythat you like him, but you are tired of him always messing with his feelings, and that you don't appreciate when he does that. So basicaly, my advice to you is, just tell him how you feel about everything. If he is worth it, he will understand and stop hurting you. But if not, he's the one missing out right? So, I really hope this helped. If you would like any further advice, please don't heitate to go to my friends and my site for advice at: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location). Goodluck. I wish you all the best. [ askashleynow's advice column | Ask askashleynow A Question ]
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