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Question Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 4:30 am

Hey
i'm 14/f

Well i recently got a new bf and we've been going out for about a week and well i want to start spending more time with him like after school and on weekends but i haven't told my parents about him yet because they always make fun of me when i get a boyfriend so i don't really like telling them but i don't want to lie. How could i tell them without just coming out and say "I have a boyfriend?" like just slip it into the convo or something..

thanks in advance
p.s sorry its so long!


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TheAnnie answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 12:41 pm:
hmm well...

you could first tell them that he is your friend and you like him a lot. you could bring him to visit. then when they get used to that you can tell them that you are going to go out an a date with him. this way they won't be as surprised and they might not make that big of a deal.

if you want you can also try telling them not to make fun of you about that. If you can try to tell them how you feel about that so in the future you won't have to worry about it as much.

best of luck.

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venom_97 answered Wednesday June 18 2008, 12:16 pm:
Your parents need to be involved with this because you are 14. So, with that being said, tell your parents that there is someone you would like them to meet and that you guys like one another and are considering dating and that you would like to get their opinion of him. This will let them know you are serious because you are handling it maturely and differently. This way they won't make fun of you and you will be telling them the truth at the same time!

good luck

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