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we do talk he just so busy
I have spoken to me and has told me i am his world and reason for breathing. I told him that i just need him to text or call me every now and then, so i feel thought about not just a mom or girlfriend. Yes we gone thru very difficult time i had big operations and it has destroyed my life. i can't work as i firefighter anymore and i lost my confidence andsense of who i am and he feels awful that he can't help me and is upset that he can't help me. Things have changed for him too he got promoted and is under more stress but he manages to havehis time yet i dont and guess resent it a bit but i just wanthim to be romantic again! I do ask and listen and give and we loveeach other dearly but he no longer shows it?
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You could try planning a really romantic evening for the two of you and see if you can rekindle some romance. If that doesn't work, try talking to him about, more in depth. Letting him know exactly how it makes you feel, etc. I'm sure that he will understand (he probably doesn't realize how this is making you feel), and things will get better from here.
However, what disturbs me more than that is that you say you've lost your confidence. We as humans, go through so many different things, some even traumatic. That doesn't mean that our lives are over or that we are no longer beautiful people - you are still a beautiful person, the same person you were before you had these operations, and things can and will get better for you.
Try doing little things that make you happy and feel confident. =]
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thats what alot of stess does to a person it drains him from feeling the want to be romantic so just give him time to get settled into his new job and give him time to adjust to the fact he cant help you its alt for him to go through so just give him time and he will come around
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