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I have a boyfriend but my other friend likes me 2 and my boyfriend found out;i told him! But he doesn't seem to care. I wonder if he does care and if i shouldn't talk about other boys around him?? Would he get jelous? Would he think i like them and not him? What should i not do??
i need to know!!!
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Sweetie, the best thing to do is to not talk about other boys liking you to your boyfriend. He might get very jealous, and keep you away from your friends, or that guy. He may get scared you like that someone back. And if he likes you enough, he might panic.
Most guys try to hide their feelings. Most guys want to obtain staying "manly" in any way possible. Spilling their guts, and crying and depressing about it isn't there thing. So maybe he's hiding his feelings.
The best think for you to do is to not talk about other guys around your boyfriend.
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Don't talk to your boyfriend about other guys. Its rude and disrespectful to him. It gives him the impression that he's not interesting enough for you so you talk about other guys. Your boyfriend probally doesn't care if your friend likes you because your his girl. He knows that he can't have you since your already in a relationship. Boys, don't show their feelings as much as girls do, so its confusing to try and read him. Jelousy depends on the person. Since, I do not know him I can't tell you. I think that other than not cheating on him, flirtin with other guys, or being mean to him then yuou can be yourseelf. thats why he likes you, for you. So don't be afraid to be who you are
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OK. honesty is good, respectful and an important factor throughout your life. Reverse your question and allow your boyfriend to be you and you be him - how would you feel? would you like it? what would you think? would you be jealous? or would you appreciate the honesty?
First to find out where he is with all of this, ask him. talk to him and go ahead and clear things up before even making him go through the bs mentally. Of course he cares so don't think he doesn't - regardless of what he shows you. Men/Boys hide their feelings and release it later on, which isn't good. Pressure burst pipes. Why would you talk about other boys around him anyway? Are you cool with him talking about other girls around you? Come on' now...
You aren't even asking what should you do, you are asking what should you not do, which tells me you already know what not to do and you want someone to validate that your thoughts are correct. Don't talk about other guys or even show interest in other guys unless you just want to be friends only with your boyfriend. Don't be a two timer either. It's cool to have friends of the opposite sex as long as you know how to carry yourself, but generally it doesn't work out that way to be honest with you - because one starts having a crush on the other. So, think about how much you want to still a boyfriend and you will then know what to do and what not to do, please realize it now before your boyfriend gets tired of feeling played or gamed and bounces on you, as a result of it.
good luck on getting you together and finding out more about self! it's always good to internalize self while exchanging shoes with the other person.
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