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weird dream
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 7:51 pm
i had a weird dream last night, and this girl I've like since 8th grade was in it. it wasn't sexual or anything like that, i cant remember it exactly, but I've had dreams similar to this before with her in it too, i definitely still like her, but i haven't hung out with her in awhile. i go to a different school and stuff now. I don't know why, if it was coincidence but her bf just broke up with her a few days ago too. How can we get reconnected again, without it being awkward? I really really wanna get back with her again
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i wwant to get pregnant
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 7:03 pm
well me and my boyfriend are both virgins. and well hes 18 and im 17 going to be 18 in september. well he says i have to wait til i turn 18 to have sex or a baby. cuz he dusnt wnt to hear crap from my mom. and if im an dult then i can do it. well also that way we can both make sure we are ready. we both love eachother very much. and we have been together for over a year already. well i really dont have a question but im scared that once we do have a baby that something will happen and i wont be able to have one. is there any way that i can make sure everything inside my body will work right once i get to 18 cause i want a baby..his baby more then anything. and i dotn want something to happen and like we cant have a baby. you know?! like for...
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uhm... my boyfriend! eek!
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 6:55 pm
I am fourteen/F and my boyfriend is sixteen/M...
Annnd he has mono. Hahaha. Yeah, so for about two weeks he had this sore throat that he neglected to tell me about... so on saturday I made out with him. Today, Monday, he goes to the doctor. Heyyy... he has mono. Soo. I think I'm screwed... Hahah i mean we made out... a lot... and yeah. So this is gonna be a little tricky. I have some questions:
1. Mono lasts a long time right? He's saying like a month. How can I help HIM through this? For a month??
2. How am III going to deal with this? He said we're not allowed to kiss... for a month!! :(
3. How are WE going to deal with this? Once people find out he (and maybe even me) have mono, I feel like we're gonna get te...
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new boyfriend on valentines day
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 6:40 pm
so me and my boyfriend have only been going out for 2 weeks and it will be three on valentine's day. Obviously im not expecting much and neither should he.I feel as though he isn't even going make me a card or get me flowers or anything ,because he hasn't said ONE thing about valentines day.I've mentioned it several times and he barely acknowledges.I wanted to get him this shirt that he picked out that he really likes and some home made cookies and a little card...but i have no clue if he's even going to the trouble to do anything for me .He doesn't drive but I do ,and if he came up with a cute idea for something for us to do on valentines day,i'd be happy to drive..i just don't know ! Do most guys recognize valentine's day ? I don't know what to do!
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I dont know about us.
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 1:57 pm
Hey im 18 male, just started seeing a girl (19 y'o')
So iv been seeing this girl, our freinds sort of set us up kind of as a joke. (like they said "wouldnt it be funny if you both hit it off") its an inside joke. but anyways we kinda did at first i thought hey she seems pretty cool. we saw eachother quite a bit afterwards, im shy as hell around pretty girls and even more so if i like them so im kinda having trouble with this.
She's really pretty and sweet in a "im not sweet im ferocious raaawr >:3 " kind of way lol but since we started seeing eachother a week and a few days ago i havent really felt anything more for her than just being a really awesome freind. i dont know how she feels ...
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committment to a married man
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 1:56 pm
20/f
Please do not criticize the fact that he is married. I fell in love with a married man. I had a very screwed up life with cheating and drugs and promiscuity and he being older really helped me through it. I put him through a ton of crap and he still stayed with me because he truly loves me. He and his wife do not have a a relationship and merely coexist in the same household but still have a marriage. Well It took awhile but I finally realized I needed to start changing and loving myself and so I did as I was ready. Now I am fully committed to him and everything has changed. My issue is that now I have changed I am 100% committed to him and having trouble dealing with the fact that he is still in some way committed to her. He wa...
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Takeing a break is it worth it
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 9:04 am
Me and my girlfriend of 6 months decided we need some time apart to find ourselves. Its kinda like a break but we dont know if we are actully going to get back toegether. We are takeing time apart because we have started to take each other for granted and we have become people we are not. However we love each other as much as we know. The day was going fine the after we hooked up we sat around and both got crabby, then it all came out. The twist is we are both seniors in high school and we are going to dfferent collges far apart. Is it worth getting back toegether? How do i get her back if even its just as a friend?
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Posted Monday February 8 2010, 2:02 am
ok so there are these 2 guyz i like... one is my best friend that i feel totally comfertable around n i feel i almost love him...AS A FRIEND;; i dont get to see him often but when i do we're totally all over each other... but lately we havent hung out much... i mean like once every 2 weeks:(;; and then theres the other guy who i like a lot and get to see all the time but we're more like friends but thats not what i want us to be... i want somethin more;; and i heard from his friends that he likes me a lot but when i'm around him hes too shy so i cant tell if he truely does or if they're just saying that.. so i need some advice! please! ~THANKS~
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I need advice.
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 1:55 am
Hello im lee, im 27 years old i just need some advice. My bf got married lastweek a family arrange marriage. Due to we are not same nationality his family refuse to marry my bf. Now i still love him. Shall i forget him? We have more promises. How can i move on? I want to forget him.
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always my fault?
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 1:20 am
so my girlfriend and i both drink well we have our ups and downs just like every couple but when we fight its always my fault she will say i always am in a bad mood or get upset about somethin everytime we drink and if we hanging with ppl she will be like it was cool hangin guys but ig otta go cuz shes(me) actin dumb. and it always my fault i do this or that or i want everything my way and i dont. and i always hurt her but she can never hurt me. what can i do? i dont wanna leave her because i do love her.
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how do i get him to open up to me !
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 12:08 am
So i've been talking to this for a month now, and we talk everyday on the phone at night, we hang out every single day, and he takes me to school & then drops me off at home every day as well. BUT he wont talk to me at school. every now and then he'll talk to me but its nothing big. he tells me its because he's really shy but i seriously hate guys that are timid like that around his friends. i want him to show that we actually are talking. & i know he likes me alot because he's brought me to his house and i've met his parents, and he's always taking me out to eat and stuff, we've also had sex 3 times. but he still wont show his emotional side to me.. what can i do so that he'll open up and maybe show everyone that we really are talking?
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how to develop a relationship with a girl
Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 10:46 pm
15/m
I go to boarding school and am decently good friends with a girl I like. I frequently ask her to spend time with me by watching a movie among other things, very little of which she agrees to. I don't feel that this reaction is a result of her not liking me, but rather a result of her being too busy and doing things with her friends. I imagine to her, I am just another friend and it doesn't really matter whom she spends time with. I am not hiding the fact that I like her, and it seems to me that it appears fairly obvious, although I can't tell if she realizes it or not, she probably does. I have known her for four months and have been stuck in the friend zone for quite some time. I am wondering how I can get out of ...
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what do you think ..about how my bf is treating me
Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 10:23 pm
Me and my boyfriend just started going out.we were talking for probably about 6 weeks and started going out 2 weeks ago.He says he likes me a lot and i like him a lot too.but these things make me feel like he doesn't like me: he doesnt text me that often,and when he does ...its not for very long.We don't hangout everyday and on the weekends we will make plans and he will sometimes not even call me to cancel them,which thats usually on friday night.Saturday night we usually hangout all night and then he doesnt text me sunday (and if he does,its not much) then on monday i see him a lot during school and i have a class with him.I drop him off at home after school some days and some days we hangout after school,which is really good.but on the d...
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This breakup has got me heartbroken..
Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 6:57 pm
This may be long, and I do apoligize but it means alot and I thank anyone who gives me advice.
I am a 20/f who has dated her bf for over a year and 4 months. We were very much in love, and it was evident in the relationship that he was even more in love with me than I was with him. Soon though I began to love him just as much. We were trully happy. We planned a vacation together for January but due to conditions not under our control, he said he couldn't, and if we could go next year. I was upset because I was looking 4ward to relaxing and asked to go with friends, which he did not like saying "You're ditching me! You're just dropping me!" After feeling he controlled me, I gave him his promise ring back, & he ga...
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i want to have sex with him, hints.
Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 12:22 pm
so im still a virgin but i want to have sex. i know that im ready. there is this guy that i want to have sex with and i would be most comfertable doing it with. we have talked soooo many times and almost dated but things got in the way. he is the only one that i wanna do it with if its going to be my first time. buuutttt we barely talk now. how do i give hints that i want to have sex with him? i want to tell him because i want to so bad. next weekend. Please don't tell me "I'm too young to be having sex" because its my business, not yours. I'm asking for help, not for you input on my decisions.
just give me some hints that i could text him. thanks. i rate 5for all!! (:
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Should I spell it out for him?
Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 11:06 am
Hi all, 22/f, he's 24. I posted this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=577027
I did finally end the relationship, but I'm concerned now that he didn't understand that it's over for good, even after I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. I blocked him on facebook and on AIM, and am slowly trying to kind of disappear from his life. He just sent me an e-mail saying:
"Blocking me on Aim and Facebook. How nice of you. Valentines Day is coming up. Maybe I'll be pleasantly surprised?"
I had intended to cut communication completely and just be done, but I'm wondering if I shouldn't send him some kind of response saying "No, you won't be pleasantly surprised...
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Marriage on the verge of divorce she said she is not in love with me
Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 10:33 am
I have messed up seriously because of my temper and mouth and my wife said she is not in love with me anymore and doesnt even want me to touch her. How can I save my marriage and get her to be in love with me again like she was before?
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boys and being stupid
Posted Sunday February 7 2010, 1:26 am
Okay. I'm a fourteen year old girl and my boyfriend is sixteen (we'll call himm T). We've been dating for a little over three months. I've been hurt in past relationships... a guy only wanted me because he thought he could bang me. But he's the past. I love my boyfriend now. About two months ago I found out something a little shocking. So he used to date this girl (we'll call her B) and I haaaaate her. She goes to a different school, and even before i knew my bf,i severly disliked this girl. I'm not gonna lie though, since ive been dating T ive disliked her even more. I always have thiss problem of comparing myself with her... it sucks. So when i found out that he had fingered her while they were dating it really upset me. Because T promise...
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i need advise
Posted Saturday February 6 2010, 9:00 pm
im 14 and my girlfriend is 15. we have been going out for about 2 years now and we think it is time we have sex. i plan on using a condom but, she is still kinds nervos about her getting prego. what should we do?
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It feels like a heart brake
Posted Saturday February 6 2010, 7:32 pm
So I was with a guy for 10 months then I seen an old friend. We knew each other for 5 years and have always liked each other then we exchanged numbers. Well I fell for him and he did me so we broke up with who we were dating and hung out.We had been kinda dating for the last month like saying how we felt having sex and kissing. Well yesterday we went to the movies with some friends and then we got into a fight because I bought the popcorn and he said he should of and I told him that it was fine. Well we got over that then on out ride home I got a text from my ex asking me back out I realized it would have been our anniversary and got a little sad because I still liked him. Well we got back to his place and he said he still loved his ex as w...
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