so im still a virgin but i want to have sex. i know that im ready. there is this guy that i want to have sex with and i would be most comfertable doing it with. we have talked soooo many times and almost dated but things got in the way. he is the only one that i wanna do it with if its going to be my first time. buuutttt we barely talk now. how do i give hints that i want to have sex with him? i want to tell him because i want to so bad. next weekend. Please don't tell me "I'm too young to be having sex" because its my business, not yours. I'm asking for help, not for you input on my decisions.
just give me some hints that i could text him. thanks. i rate 5for all!! (:
Also, you are too young to be having sex. Not in some mystical "you must be a certain number to fornicate" kind of way, but in the down home all practical "you have no idea what constitutes healthy relationships or intimacy because you're still mentally a child" kind of way.
Is it normal in your peer group to booty call a guy you don't know very well and haven't slept with before? Or is self respect just that much of a universally foreign concept to you guys? [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
Smartone answered Sunday February 7 2010, 8:57 pm: If all you want to do is screw the guy and not have that loving relationship thingy get in the way, then just tell him you want to screw him and ask if he's game. Why beat around the bush if you're so determined?
If he's just out for one thing, I'm betting he takes the bait and his friends will be lining up for their turn. If he's deeper than that, he'll reject you. [ Smartone's advice column | Ask Smartone A Question ]
Lilz answered Sunday February 7 2010, 7:39 pm: I'm glad you have come to the decision that YOU want to have sex and no one is pressuring you.Butyou said that you guys haven't talked in a while. So if you talking to him just for sex it kinda makes you a slut. though thats not what your trying to be. If your ok with that then the most obvious thing to do is to start off with a basic hey. And then ask if he would like to go out some time. Hoped I helped in some sort of way.
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