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what do you think ..about how my bf is treating me
Me and my boyfriend just started going out.we were talking for probably about 6 weeks and started going out 2 weeks ago.He says he likes me a lot and i like him a lot too.but these things make me feel like he doesn't like me: he doesnt text me that often,and when he does ...its not for very long.We don't hangout everyday and on the weekends we will make plans and he will sometimes not even call me to cancel them,which thats usually on friday night.Saturday night we usually hangout all night and then he doesnt text me sunday (and if he does,its not much) then on monday i see him a lot during school and i have a class with him.I drop him off at home after school some days and some days we hangout after school,which is really good.but on the days i drop him off,i sometimes don't hear from him until late at night.He never really does cute things either .like i never get cute texts and such.He kisses me in school and stuff ,so i know he likes me.I just really want to hangout more and talk more and ive talked to him about it and he says "im sorry,im just doing stuff or sleeping or my phone dies" and i told him that when he can't hangout to just call me and tell me ,instead of not saying anything...and he says hes gonna change that but he still hasn't. Maybe its to early in our relationship,and i guess its good to move slow.But i just get the feeling that he forgets about me : /
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Good news, your not married! :) Bad news, you never will be. To this boy, anyway. haha :)
He's not going to change when it comes to the cute texts and such. And the continuous lame excuses...yeah their still going to continue. He's either A) Just not that kind of guy or B) He's just not that into you
WHICH IS PERFECTLY FINE EITHER WAY!
If it's A, all that means is you two aren't meant to be and your both looking for something else in a relationship. That's what relationships are all about, right? Looking for what ya want and what ya don't want which eventually leads you to your true prince charming ;) Basically all it means if he's not your type.
If it's B, well, all that means is your just not his main squeeze. That's ok.
If you want my opinion, I'd break up with him for the soul purpose of "It's just not gonna work."
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A guy who doesn't call to cancel plans isn't 'taking it slow', he's be a disrespectful turd. That isn't okay.
However, it also sounds like you are hanging out together a whole bunch to me! Maybe you need to change your approach a little bit, and be more accepting of him needing some time where he isn't obligated to be texting you...
Make sure your plans are actual, firm plans (not just vague ideas you mentioned and didn't disagree with) and then insist he let you know if he can't follow through.
But otherwise, give the guy some slack. Text messages are dull and impersonal, and he sees you everyday at school! It's not so weird for him to have nothing new to report at 10pm Thursday night, if you only dropped him off 5 hours earlier.
Don't get yourself worked up over 'Does he like me enough? Am I always on his mind?' Instead, maybe you should ask yourself if you are really into him or not...
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