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It feels like a heart brake
So I was with a guy for 10 months then I seen an old friend. We knew each other for 5 years and have always liked each other then we exchanged numbers. Well I fell for him and he did me so we broke up with who we were dating and hung out.We had been kinda dating for the last month like saying how we felt having sex and kissing. Well yesterday we went to the movies with some friends and then we got into a fight because I bought the popcorn and he said he should of and I told him that it was fine. Well we got over that then on out ride home I got a text from my ex asking me back out I realized it would have been our anniversary and got a little sad because I still liked him. Well we got back to his place and he said he still loved his ex as well so we agreed that on valentines day we would pick who we wanted and we were both sure it would be the ex. Then he said he was never going back to her cause he loved me and I said that I would make up my mind the 13 and tell him who I pick.I wanted to surprise him when I picked him. Well today he told his ex he was going to be with her on valentines day and we stared fighting and crying now he wont talk to me and I feel like crying. I feel like I love him he has been my friend for 5 years and now he is just leaving without a good bye or anything... Is there something I can do? I don't even care if we date I just love him enough that being friends and seeing him happy would be good enough.
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I am going through the same thing as you. I can tell you that it is definatly one of the hardest things that you will ever have to go through- loosing a friend or someone you love to someone else. But, you have to know and ask your self if it is the right thing to let them go. Is it? Or should you continue to chase after him for a long time, not knowing if things are going to work out. You still have your ex, you still like him.. he still likes you. Don't wait around for some guy who is not going to talk to you. It's not worth it. It may seem like it, but it's not. Go for the one who is willing to love you for you, and not love someone else in your place and forget about you. Don't call this other guy, let him call you. And if he doesnt? Forget about it. Let him be happy with this other girl, and don't even worry about it. Always go with the ones that you know will stick around and love you for anything.
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