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How to handle tables being turned?


Posted Thursday May 29 2014, 9:47 pm

21/f

I'm dating a guy who tends to turn tables on me. For example, whenever he acts "off" or awkward and whenever I confront him about it, he tends to redirect the conversation, "turns the table" on me and says that I'm being weird. So, all the sudden I am the focus of the conversation.

I've told him if I do anything that upsets him or if something is bothering him, to let me know and to be direct and straight forward because I don't like playing the "guessing game." We're not in a complete relationship maybe that's why he doesn't feel like he has the right to tell me something is bothering him?

But I don't know what to do or how to handle the tables being turned on ...

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Love


Posted Thursday May 29 2014, 6:03 pm

How do i know he really loves me when he says it?

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My boyfriend has really rude friends, please help.


Posted Thursday May 29 2014, 5:10 pm

I'm a junior in high school right now. I've only been dating my current boyfriend for four months but I've liked him since August. He means everything to me and I swear I'm in love with this boy. But there's only one problem, his friends. I'm his first girlfriend so before me he was always with them. And he used to also act like them. They are all immature, rude, obnoxious, annoying, ect. I'm sure you get the idea. But after him and I began becoming more than friends, he started to mature. He stopped acting like them. Then after we began dating he started spending each and every day with me. We will hang out after school for about two hours, and then All day Saturday and on Sunday he eats dinner with my family. So needless to say, he has to...

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how to get slimmer


Posted Thursday May 29 2014, 2:15 pm

okay, so, its going to be summer vacation soon. And I just wanted some advice on how to get a little slimmer. Now, I'm only 13, so i don't want any super heavy exercises. I just want to slim down. because, actually, I'm really over weight. I'm about 5'' feet, and despite my age, i weigh 150 lbs. Although, I don't really look that fat. I just look chubby. i want get a slimmer body, but I still want to keep my round baby shaped face.

Any ideas on how to get slimmer and lighter in 2 months please?

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Question about using site content


Posted Thursday May 29 2014, 6:45 am

Hi, I just want to make sure I am 100% clear so I avoid any problems with using this site. I included a url link to my own personal webpage - a site that I recently launched to begin offering advice. Am I able to use the questions and my answers to post directly to my personal webpage?? Is it ok to use the questions if I keep the user anonymous? Would I need to mention advicenators.com? Please help me in understanding the policies I read upon registration.

Thanks,
Abbey

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Uploading profile picture


Posted Thursday May 29 2014, 6:42 am

Hi, I found the "upload picture" button in the profile settings, however, each time I attempt to upload a photo and click 'Submit' nothing seems to happen on my advice page. I don't see any error messages, it just looks like the photo didn't save to my settings. Please let me know how to add a photo.

Thanks,
Abbey

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He's perfect for me, but does he like me back?


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 9:25 pm

Hi everyone,I'm 16/f.
There's a boy in my history class who I really like. He is just perfect for me. He's taller than me(I'm 5'9), has a loving family, is athletic, has a life outside of his sport, he's gentle, a good son, a good brother, soft spoken, has a really deep voice, has a lot of patience, very mature, I can go on and on.

My point is, he's a gentleman. VERY rare at our age. And I like him. I've always looked for boys like him to get to know. I didn't even notice he was in my class until he stood up to present a project one day. And then on a class field trip a while later, we had a gorgeous conversation on the bus, followed by an in sync nap. Also he accepted this girls flirting all day, and she walked with h...

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the sex toy talk


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 6:51 pm

My husband is a bit old fashion and doesnt feel we need anything in the bedroom thats new, and we barely ever have sex yet he insists hes happy. Well im pretty UNHAPPY, and want either more sex, or be allowed to use toys if i feel. He does not agree with ANY kind of toys.

I recently discovered the newer toy called the sybian, its uses nothing but vibration. I know that they retail for about 1400 bucks but i found a way to make my own for a fraction of the price! the only problem is i cant tell my husband....

my question is, is it better to own a toy like this and never tell him (risking him discovering it because they arent that easy to hide if your place isnt that large) ORRRR tell him, make the thing anyway,...

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I need major help I'm such an over thinker


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 5:08 pm

I'm driving myself litterally inane someone please help 16/f I overreact idk is it normal for your boyfriend to talk to other girls as friends and hangout with them on weekends if he's with his friends and his friends invite the girls? Or if he tweets them and was like had a great day wih you guys. I'm just such an over thinker and it's because I love him so much and we are very serious with each other. Also is it true that the newness of a relationship wears off after a couple months ? My mom said it did numerous times like all of the lovey dovey things wear off some because of getting used to each other please help me please thank you I do give stars

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My heart genuinely loves and cares about him and his overall well being but am I in love with him? I don’t think so.


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 4:48 pm

I am a 22 yr. old female who lives on her own in the US. I rent and live with my boyfriend of three and a half years. The guy I’ve been with has put me through hell in the last three years we have been together but I stuck by his side fearing that I would be alone. He has abandoned me several times even on our anniversary and I know deep down I deserve better. I go to school PT and I work FT. To give you a vague idea of what life has been like for me, I do everything- tend to his needs, clean up after him because he won’t clean up at all, buy all the food, he treats me poorly- has no consideration for my feelings at all, doesn’t acknowledge anything that I do, is jealous that I’ve got a better job than him, refuses to work FT, ...

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Parents don't care


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 4:03 pm

I feel like my parents dont care about me any more ;(

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Should I ask him friend about his friend?


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 3:09 pm

There this guy I like and I feel like he likes me too but not sure. He would ask me what time and I'm leaving work and said he wishes he could leave with me. Then he was gone for a wile because he got really sick but when he came back he asked if I missed him. He always sings love songs when walking by me randomly and he always smiles and looks at me so I think he likes me but I'm scared about asking him out. I am friends with one of his friends and thought maybe I could ask him about my crush's situation. What do you think?


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How can I not faint in the auditorium?


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 2:47 pm

Hey! So, I go to a Catholic school and we have hour and fifteen minute long masses and I'm a freshman so my class sits way in the balcony and I almost passed out last time. I was shaking and had a cold sweat. Is there a way to prevent overheating in the balcony? I think that's what happened. I'm definitely going to wear a short sleeve shirt for mass and bring mints, but any other tips? Thanks!


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Live cam with boyfriend


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 12:10 pm

My boyfriend and I have been thinking about joining a live cam website to let others watch us do it. What are the pros and cons. What are some good websites. Or anything else you can think of. Thank you.

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Fingernails


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 11:19 am

I have shellac nails. What is the safest product to use to keep under my fingernails clean without ruining the shellac on my nails?

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I Used Windex On Popcorn Maker!


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 8:53 am

I have a small plasic popcorn maker. I was cleaning it but I forgot you can not use Windex or any other cleaners like that because it will ruin the oil finish on the plastic. Is there any way to tell if I ruined it, and if I did, can I fix it?

My mom said if it's ruined I have to buy a new one and I don't exactly have money, so any input is helpful...

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lonely guy weird tendencies/ fetish?


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 7:33 am

really weird question i know, i love women 100%, i've only been with women, i prefer deep relationships and i love foreplay, every inch of the female body is amazing.

but if im out of a relationship and its been a year or two between sexual encounters on a few occasions being insanely alone i enjoy to put on a womens bra, stuff socks inside and masterbate, thinking of a girl just getting love whether with a man or female, i have no female qualities and very secure in the fact that i am a man but is this a fetish of loneliness? why do i do this? i feel guilty and disgusted afterwards but when im in the moment feeling what would be breast is amazing at times. I don't know, scared to talk about this so if you have nothing nice to say please don't say anything at all. i am 23

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help


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 5:50 am

i am using windows 8 - in office i have a static IP at home i use WIFI with dynamic IP - is there any way where i can select my network office or home when i start the PC ... As on date every time i go to office i have to punch in my statis IP to connect the network - my e mail ID is sureshjkarnani@gmail.com

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Something weird is happening !


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 5:42 am

Okay , i'm 18 years old and i'm experiencing a strange thing when i go to sleep.When i'm almost asleep , suddenly i hear this loud vibration right in my ears and when i hear it , my heart beats so fast ! ,my heart rate increases.I also get paralyzed and my eyes are shut down by force , i get scared though , its as if something is dragging me and paralyzing me ,however; i can fight back and unparalyze myself by trying,so hard, to move a muscle.i don't know what it is actually , i never tried letting go of myself and see what happens , i always break this up by moving or opening my eyes ,which are closing by force.
Thank you:)

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How can I gain my self worth and confidence?


Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 4:00 am

20/f
I've hardly had any friends because I didn't want to be anybody's slave,so to speak. I've always been called ugly just because I'm not skinny and I don't wear make-up (I put eyeshadow and mascara on sometimes) and because I don't have money for branded clothes. I've always been called a nerd because I liked to study and have all A's and thanks to that now I'm studying medicine. I'm labeled as boring because I don't go partying every weekend,getting drunk and having sex with many guys. Nobody wants to get to know me,they all judge either on what they see or what they hear about me. No matter what I try no guy will notice me. It's like I'm invisible. And the most hated person in the world. How to be confident and have self worth ...

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