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Live cam with boyfriend
My boyfriend and I have been thinking about joining a live cam website to let others watch us do it. What are the pros and cons. What are some good websites. Or anything else you can think of. Thank you.
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I don't think there would be any obvious pros unless (if you are of legal age) the two of you registered with a pay for live cam site. I have a friend, older single woman who has been on one and does make a little money here and there. I can't say how much in demand couples are on live but she had many requests asking if she had a partner and would perform with him on cam. Its against rules to use just anyone for a partner. Both must be registered, no matter what company you use. There are guys who get on who are looking for something very specific and go only after that. You can develop a regular customer base.
If you both have a craving for being exhibitionists, then you get to fulfill that and get feedback from some of the people.
As for the cons, whether with a pay for or free live cam, there's always the chance that some weirdo starts stalking you on line or the chance of running into someone in public who has seen you online. Can't say how likely it is. But my ex and I did register on a swinger site for couples. And one day at the grocery store, a couple came up to us, using our on line names and said they recognized us. This was not live cam, just a profile like a dating site.
So there's always the chance that remaining anonymous and keeping your privacy can be compromised accidently or by a stalker. You'd have to be careful to not share any info that a person could track you by.
If you are of legal age again, you can always check out a swing club. Some have a room set up where members can watch others doing it. Not all who go do actual swapping partners but go for the atmosphere and exhibitionism.
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Blackmail, public shame, and other forms of harassment. Those are the cons.
I'm all for two consenting adults doing basically whatever the hell they want when it comes to sex, and since you are interested in this, I'm sure you've already thoughts of all the pros. The pros are simply that it turns you both on.
The cons though, could be catastrophic for you, so you need to consider them carefully. Once something exists digitally, it's simple to reproduce. Maybe some people who are watching you would simply record it for their own repeating viewing, but others will upload it to sites either to make money, or purely for kicks. There are entire websites devoted to those secret recording of cam sessions and amateur couples.
Other still may simply threaten to upload it to a site, and then to tell your family, or employers where to access it, in order to get money, or more sexual acts out of you. Some people also just straight up like to harass people because they are crazy and/or because they think because you are camming, you wont report them out of fear of being exposed.
Depending on what you two do professionally, any of those situations could be career-ending. Not to mention the stigma that this sort of behaviour carries that would almost definitely upset your friends and family if it came to light.
Don't tell yourself you can do this anonymously with 100% safety. That's nonsensical. All it takes is the right asshole, or a small slip up, or a bit of bad luck to expose your identities in some way. If you do this you must accept that there is always a very real risk that someone might find out who you are and what you are up to, or someone may put videos up where the public can find them or might harass or try to blackmail you. You and your boyfriend need to know that and accept that risk.
Frankly, I'd never take those risks in my life. As much fun as it may be, it's not worth it.
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