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lonely guy weird tendencies/ fetish?
really weird question i know, i love women 100%, i've only been with women, i prefer deep relationships and i love foreplay, every inch of the female body is amazing.
but if im out of a relationship and its been a year or two between sexual encounters on a few occasions being insanely alone i enjoy to put on a womens bra, stuff socks inside and masterbate, thinking of a girl just getting love whether with a man or female, i have no female qualities and very secure in the fact that i am a man but is this a fetish of loneliness? why do i do this? i feel guilty and disgusted afterwards but when im in the moment feeling what would be breast is amazing at times. I don't know, scared to talk about this so if you have nothing nice to say please don't say anything at all. i am 23
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you need a girl that will show you love. you have to look for that girl and stop feeling guilty it going to keep waying u down and this will affect your life negatively.
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Oh, for heaven's sake that is not even in the realm of weird! There is no reason to feel disgusted either. Guys love breasts, it's just fantasy that's all! Do be careful that you don't turn it into an obsession where it becomes necessary to do this in order to get off. that could be a bit difficult to explain when you begin a new relationship!
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I'd say, get a girlfriend. People do weird things. There are people that have POOP fetishes. What you're doing isn't that bad. You wanna see bad. Watch two girls one cup. Maybe that will make you feel better.
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Please don't feel guilty or disgusted with yourself. The human being is very complex but also unique. Considering that the human brain is the biggest sexual organ we have, there will be a wide variation of what people will focus their thoughts and imaginations on that help add to their sexual excitement and sexual experience and help with orgasms too. What works for one will not work for another. So it isn't fair to label one tendency or fetish as normal and another as not. What may be normal to me may feel bizzare or extreme to another.
Don't let anyone tell you that you are bizarre or weird. Lots of the tendencies, sexual practices or fetishes aren't understood, can't be explained and there is no information or very little info on it, so therefore, since it seems unique, we could think we are bizarre or something.
I will use myself as an example. When I married my 2nd husband 5 yrs ago, shortly after we had an experience afterward I've never heard or read about anywhere. For a few moments during sex, I felt I had the penis and my husband the vagina. My mind felt it so real that I swore if we pulled apart I could look down and see I now had a penis. Not talking about a strap on. Just what my brain experienced. It was so real, and I trusted him so much I told him. Interestingly enough, he told me he had just felt the same thing, that he had the vagina just then. It is very powerful what the mind can do. And we enjoyed it much since then once we got past the strangeness of it. Now I can choose at any time to focus my thoughts and imagine I am the male while making love and not tell my husband and he can actually feel it the moment I do so in my thoughts. Our minds focus our energies and our realities that easily. Would a sex therapist or Doctor be able to show documentation that this is normal? Heck, I don't care, all I know is that we love it and enjoy it and it works for us.
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