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Parent's weird rules..


Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 2:48 am

I wasn't exactly sure what category to put this under.

Well my mom has these strict rules about guys. If I have just a friend over thats a guy or my boyfriend, its always been the same. We can't lay on the couch to watch a movie. The couch.. in the living room. No guys allowed in my room even if the lights are on and the door is open. Not even if my little sister is there. We don't do anything like sexual. Oh big deal kissing and cuddling. What's wrong with that? She seems to be totally overreacting with her rules. They make no sense and she never ever gives me a good reason. Any advice about how to convince her to get rid of these rules? Or even advice why she says these stupid rules. We arent even allowed to sit in my lil ...

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ERG help


Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 2:27 am

Alright this isnt exactly a question but whatever. Alot of times things finally start going right in my life and i'm happy...for a little while until something goes wrong or something and then i'm not happy i dont know it's jst not constant and it bugs me because i dont like going from everything being great to everything being bad from being happy to numb and all these things it's really confusing and of course you would probably say "your 14 your barely a teenager things are going to be confusing and inconsistant" but i like i said i dont like it cause anytime things go good i think to much about it and how great things are going and how happy i am then when things go bad i think way to much about how i just wish i was happy and...

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POOR OL' LAS


Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 1:42 am

Hello Everyone...

I am not sure what the percentage is of contributers from a given country is but I'd appreciate any and as much feedback as possible....

I am looking for international student bursaries or scholarships or some kind of financial/income source. I have one more year in college and my parents can't afford to pay for it... I don't want to stop now ... I'm studying in Canada and my parents are back home in England....

does anyone know of any international scholarship or even art competitions (that's my expertise :p) I could join to try and get some money... at my campus I cannot work because I'm here as a student....long story... anyway please help... I'm desperate and i don't know what to do by next fall....

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water pills


Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 12:28 am

does anyone know where i can buy water pills? they make you lose water weight super-fast, apparently. and i put salt on evveryythingg, so obviously, i retain water. and dont tell me to stop using salt, thats not the issue. but if anyone can tell me where to buy them, around how much they cost, and are they sold to minors without parental consent? im 16. im not going to abuse them or O.D. or anything, water weight just sucks. thanks! 16/f/USA

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how to deal with a friend..


Posted Tuesday April 8 2008, 12:02 am

15/f
i know this is long but to whoever anaswers thanks a billion!


i know im young and im gonna meet a lot of ppl as i grow up, but my bestfriend and i are completely split apart. A few months ago we were super close and tahts when HER bestfriend was hanging out with someone else and completely ditched her in a way, so we got even closer.(we've been friends since we were 10)so now shes friends with her bestfriend again and now shes tlaking behind my back majorlyyy like she hates me. i know i have a lot of other friends but in a way i miss her, shes still my friend. but shes doing to me what her bestfriend did to her. and i know this for a fact, she runs around her bestfriend like shes a queen and tells her abso...

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how do I deal with heartbreak


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:56 pm

My husband and I have been together for 9 yrs. Like every relationship we've had our ups and downs mostly downs but I love him[I must love him if it hurts this much to be without him] you see he just asked me for a break I felt my world crashing down the day of our seperation I still feel horrible and don't know how to deal with it.
I'm a female and 24 my husband is 34

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My band needs a band name


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:40 pm

We don't have nay idea what to name our band. We're all very different individuals who can't seem to agree on anything but we are all together in this rock band. We play indie rock music. Any ideas for a band name or suggestions on how to come up with one? (please dont suggest googling band name generators)

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why do i get like this around someone i DONT like?


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:38 pm

ok so theres this guy. i DO NOT like him as more than a friend. well he is really tickleish if you poke him in the side. so when i found out i did nothing but poke him constantly. hes not6 mad or anyhting he is my friend so he and i both thiught it was funny. well anyway he plans on "getting me back" because i am also very tickleish. when i walk with him to english he makes me so nervous. i start uncontrollably shaking and almost about to cry. i dont want to be like this and i dont know why i do get like this.


1)why do i get like this?

2)what can i do to stop doing this?

HELP PLEASE! ITS FUNNY BUT EMBARRASSING!

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eye problems


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:29 pm

okay so lately ive been having eye problems i originally thought it was due to the make up i was using but that seems to not be the case i have...

foggy vision (weirdly only till like 1pm)
rainbow halos around lights
redness of the iris
and sensitivity to light

i am kind of worried because these are symptoms of glaucoma but i was wondering if you know of any other possibilities im really worried so help me out and please dont just tell me to see the doctor okay thank you


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He wont calm down


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:25 pm

18/f and 20/f

My boyfriend usually knows when I am on my period and knows to stay away from anything sexual during those few days. I'm supposed to be on it right now but I'm running a bit late. When I tried to well...start things with him today he questioned my period. I simply explained that I was a little late but it's no big deal because it's not unusual for me. Well, that didnt help at all and now his is over his head in fear.

I know I'm not--but he won't be satisfied until I get my period. He wants to tell his mother about it and I cant seem to talk to him out of it. I asked him to give it a few days before saying anything but he won't listen.

I dont want his mother to think we're being ir...

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Pulled Muscle/Splits


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:21 pm

So, I could do a left foot front splits, sometimes all the way, some days an inch or two off the floor. Well, I pulled a muscle in the back of my left thigh and it pretty much hurts to reach down and touch my toes. I can touch my toes but that's it, and I could put my palms on the floor. But, anywhos, how long would it take for my muscle to heal and would I still be able to do a left foot front split? Because I heard something about pulled muscle = not able to do flexible stuff with that leg anymore..

15.f

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i need help


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:11 pm

basically i used to be a normal girl untill a lot of shit happened. if something even so little goes wrong ill want to break down and cry and hurt myself.. ive abused drugs just once the other night, i feel like im entering something that could lead to worse things.. like actually takin my life. ive gone to a psyciatrist, a counselor, ive tried everythingg.. i just dont know what to do, any advice, not involving proffesional help?

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Fingering


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:02 pm

so my boyfriend wants to finger me. and thats fine. but im confused on why everybody says it hurts the first time. i have tried to finger myself before and i have felt nothing. so can you explain what he is going to do?
thanks

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My bff's abusive situation---very serious please help


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 11:02 pm

my very, very best friend just told me she cuts herself and that her mom is abusive. her parents divorced this summer and thats when she started. she lied to me about a big mark on her arm and i knew she was upset so later i asked her if it was her mom again. she and her mom have had tons of fights but i never knew how badly her mom treated her. and i had never guessed about the cutting. i have cut myself but only a few times and i stopped and i still somewhat struggle with self-injuring (i pinch myself occasionally) but im fine now. but her mom through her out of the house for like 45 min she was out in the cold rain. and her mom has hit her with shoes and pulled her hair and yells at her and tells her shes a horrible person. her mom never...

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coming out of my shell


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 10:22 pm

when im with my close friends im all weird and crazy and really loud and i have a good time. but when im with other people im all quiet and stuff and just in the corner. im kinda okay with it but i want to be the way i am with my close friends with other people. if you get wht im trying to say. yupp =]

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Depression?


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 10:20 pm

Well, for the past year I've been feeling more and more depressed.

I criticise everything I do/say/think - no matter how small - which almost always makes me feel like a horrible person and a failure. Looking back on the things I have done/said/thought (again, no matter how insignificant they might be), I want to smash my head against a wall or somehow erase it all.

Most days, I wake up morning and I just sit there. I feel I have no reason whatsoever to get out of bed. Whats the point when it all means nothing anyway.

My grades are falling. I have no energy, even after sleep, or desire for the things I used to like.

I find it hard to concentrate and everything seems blurry.
...

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Boobs higher


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 10:19 pm

I'm 14/f. I'm 5'9 and weigh almost 155. I really really want to lose weight. After this week, because of some many tests and projects, I'm going to the gym again. My main problem is my boobs. I'm a C/36,and I want to be a small C/34 (I want a c/34 to be a little big on me) and I want smaller boobs!! They are sagging and I don't know what else to do about them. I'm planning to lose 30 pounds but I need to learn some pectoral exorcises to keep them from sagging. I hate having these saggish boobs that kind of go to the side because of my current weight. They're like fat boobs. I want smaller, higher boobs! HELP!

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Confusion beyond belief!


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 10:18 pm

Okay, well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months(as of today!), and well i guess you could say i love him.. But i've still kinda liked one of my best guy friends, i've like him for almost 2 years now, and i can't seem to get over him, and he told me that he liked me, which probably wasn't the best idea, but he said he wanted to tell me cause it was bugging him from me not knowing. And well sometimes i think i like him more then my boyfriend, but then other times i can't really see him more then my bestfriend. And last week i thought i REALLY liked him, and me and my boyfriend almost broke up(nothing to do with my friend), and i was kinda hoping we would have.(i know, bad thing to say) but now, i'm glad we didn't. And my friend i...

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akward ?


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 9:55 pm

okay. so me and my x boyfriend talked on the
phone every night for about 2 weeks. and i was
really starting to fall for him and care for him.
now today i went back to school from spring break
and his friend wants us to hook back up, so he wanted me to sit with my x at lunch today. i didnt
want to make it weird so i sat with my friend
across the table from my x next to my x's other
friend. okay now i was sitting right there right were i can hear everything they are saying. and my best friend walked by him and he whistled that whew whew. thing. and i acted like it didnt bother me and i just kept talking to my other friend. okay and he knows me and my best friend are best friends so i know he d...

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16 5 ft 110 lb


Posted Monday April 7 2008, 9:47 pm

how much calories should i a 16 female 110 lb intake?

i want to loose weight.

whats a good diet for me?

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