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my cousin is always putting me down


Posted Monday December 15 2014, 6:17 pm

I am a 25 year old female and I visit my aunt every weekend but my cousin who is a 19 year old male just recently moved in with my aunt and he is constanty making rude remarks about me and putting me down verbally . I will explain how he does this .I got on tgr scale one day because I have been trying to lose weight for some time now . I am proud to say that I was 202 pounds in may of last year and yesterday I got on the scale and now I am 172 pounds so i lost 30 pounds since may of last year but my cousin was standing over me and said that there is know way that you could have lost all that weight that fast as much as you eat the scale has to be way off. He tagged me in a post on fb of a picture of a huge sandwich and it said who could ea...

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cutest puppy breeds


Posted Monday December 15 2014, 4:27 pm

What do you think is teh cutest puppy breed?

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Posted Monday December 15 2014, 2:07 pm

hey remember me? well if u don't am zat girl who asked you for help coz of trouble being in love with a boy but couldn't say any thing, who said zat we talk by e-mail but not in person and zat he was shy....... anyways we had our first dance on a party that we celebrated in class as he held my hand and took me to the dance floor when i tought he was gonna say hi to me, how great huh... we talk more now in person but the funniest thing is that now we don't talk by e-mail even if both online i don't know wat we have but i don't deny we have a strong chemistry its amazing, i can't even study thinking about him n seeing if he goes offline or not, i think am going to marry him as every body said, so what do u advice me to do coz am totally lost???

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Posted Monday December 15 2014, 7:14 am

hi there, so the prob is there r 2 guys ... guy A is hawtt n amazing n the sex life is amazing with him n exciting and fun buttt we have been in this friends with benefit for bout a year now .. i told him i like him but he said "time shall tell" ... n even after that response we have hooked up a few times. we only talk when either of us wants to have sex.
Guy B is rll nice n the conversations with him r amazing .. met him recently .. the sex was grt too .. alot of heat but .. he is not that gud looking at all ... n he thinks we r dating because we hooked up a few times ... there was an incident where he wanted me to kiss him publicly n i couldnt ... but we talk alot.

i cant decide if i should go ahead with ...

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Am I Wrong?


Posted Monday December 15 2014, 1:22 am

Would I be wrong if I chose to tell some people, but not others what baby names I have in mind? I don’t plan to tell anyone except a few people because I don’t want to hear any criticism or suggestions. I feel like we're living in a time period where the trends of using unique names and of bringing classic names back are overlapping each other. Not everyone's going to like my ANY name I could possibly pick out and it seems like few people can hold their tongues about it.

I don’t think I could keep a secret from my mom as she and I are very close. But I’m afraid my dad will think some names are silly and will make jokes about them, not in a mean way, but in an annoying way. For instance, the name I'm planning now is Ni...

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Posted Monday December 15 2014, 12:39 am

what would happen if I stuck a pen up my vagina?


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Is there a charity I can give


Posted Monday December 15 2014, 12:26 am

This is kind of weird and I know that. I went grocery shopping tonight and one thing on my list was strawberry pop tarts. I went to get them and the particular store I went to didn't have regular size boxes of the strawberry flavor. The only flavor they did have in those boxes were blueberry. They only had strawberry flavored pop tarts in 12 pack boxes. My family will never eat 12 packs with 2 tarts in each packs. We'll get tired of them and forget about them eventually. I hate to see them or the money I spent on them go to waste. Is there a charity that will take however many of the individual packs of pop tarts that I don't think we'll eat? My mom told me about something called a snack pack that schools do for less fortunate children. Could they use them?

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Can a person adopt their own grandsons?


Posted Monday December 15 2014, 12:07 am

Could a person legally adopt two orphaned grandsons? If they did, would it make it harder for their other grandparents to fight for custody? What would the grandparent be seen as by others, a grandparent or parent? How would you explain your relationship to the grandchildren if their principal, for example, wanted to know why you're listed as their mother, but they call you grandma?

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chrisleys new home


Posted Sunday December 14 2014, 9:55 pm

I'm looking up Todd chrisleys house on Google but it just keeps showing the old one ( the one they were in when the TV show started) but does anyone know where the new house is that they moved into during the TV show?

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why do I feel so upset?


Posted Sunday December 14 2014, 4:51 pm

I've been having a sexual relationship with a manager within my company... Not very often and Not for very long... I met with him last night and things were different than before. Before I even realized what was happening he had 1 hand around my throat And the other slapping my face... I felt paralysed. (I am an abuse survivor) then he proceeded with anal, no lube... Didn't ask me I just took it. We didn't talk about it afterward but now I'm a wreck emotionally and physically... I don't know what happened I trusted him. Why do I feel so emotionally unstable about this?

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Should I tell him?Or suffer the consequences?


Posted Sunday December 14 2014, 12:03 pm

Very difficult situation here.

I have a boyfriend of two years. I love him so much, he is the world to me.
About two months ago I cheated on him, while very drunk. I kissed a boy I'm in college with. Not for long but it was still unacceptable. Then later on that night, I ran into a male friend of mine (who is 100% gay) and kissed him for about two seconds, in jest. Naturally I felt awful.
I told him about the first kiss straight away, because I thought it was important to. He was mad and we had a rough time but he said it was ok because I told him about it.
At the time, I did not think the kiss with the gay friend was important. it has since started to eat me alive. And I don't know if I should say anyth...

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should i say yes to my ex


Posted Sunday December 14 2014, 9:39 am

14/f
i used to go out with this guy who kept switching between me and my used to be best friend and i broke up with him about 5months ago (ex # 1)then he went out with my ex friend and they broke up i was in a relationship with my exs bff (ex # 2and we broke up now ex # 1 told 1 of my friends he wants to date me again but hes going to wait a while to make a move what should i do when he does make a move sorry if this sounds confusing

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Way to be a victim-blaming bitch


Posted Sunday December 14 2014, 4:28 am

Saw your victim-blaming on some poor girl's post asking for advice on what to do about her father cheating on her mom. She definitely SHOULD say something, and you are a horrible person for chiding HER. She's not at fault here. She had reason to believe something was not right, but it would have been wrong for her to voice that suspicion without proof... so she found proof. And you're chiding her for "invading his privacy". I hope everyone you ever date cheats on you; maybe then you'll get it.

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bridesmaid drama


Posted Sunday December 14 2014, 2:23 am

I'm 23f,in a serious relationship. my boyfriend's cousin and I used to be great friends, until she had some psycho episodes. Before she and her fiance split up and got back together, she asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding (to which I said of course). Now that she's back together with him (because she's 27 and wants to be married before me) I'm afraid she's going to ask me to be in her wedding party again (because she has no girlfriends..go figure). How do I respectfully decline? Is it okay to decline?

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ANOREXIC FRIEND?!?!


Posted Saturday December 13 2014, 9:17 pm

Okay, so my friend is anorexic but she completely opened up yesterday. She told me that being skinny is perfection and that she wants to be a skeleton. I explained to her that this is just anorexia talking but she told me things like: "dont you dare help me","I will never forgive you", "i know what i am doing" and "if you help me you will trigger me more". I know that this is not my friend talking and i don't care if she never forgives me. I will do anything to save her life. Her body is really skinny right now. There are bones everywhere and it makes me so sad. She also told me that she would rather die than gain more weight. When she said that, i decided to get help but i don't know how. Should i go...

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career and love


Posted Saturday December 13 2014, 2:58 pm

Is it worth sacrificing your dream career for the sake of your boyfriend?
Hi, am a girl and i've done m.sc in molecular anthropology from a university far from my home.and during my graduation my bf came to the place from where I was pursuing my b.sc.he had a career placement option in a good city but he came to me for the sake of our relationship.though I didn't tell or force him to come or I haven't even influenced him.but when I got a better chance in that univ for m.sc, I just went their.my bf got hurt n he stopped trusting me n what I used to say about our future together.n he go back to his home cause he couldn't find a suitable job there.now I am back to him and he has gone to a remote place where there is no job option and un...

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He's being distant


Posted Saturday December 13 2014, 10:46 am

22/F my LD boyfriend has been acting different lately. We had a great thanksgiving together. But a week after he left he decided to go to his friends house (the friend that encouraged him to cheat on me the first time) and he knows I didn't want him to but he did it anyway. Ever since we argued things have just been getting worse. He doesn't seem like he cares to try anymore and says it's my fault. Last night got really bad he was calling me names and telling me to screw myself. He said that he just wanted to feel wanted (which is his way of saying I need to send him nude pics) I told him I'm not going to send him pics to try to fix us cause that's pathetic. Now he's just being rude. He doesn't call anymore and when he text he's short. He c...

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Fallen out with flatmates


Posted Saturday December 13 2014, 9:42 am

Recently, two girls who I live with at Uni have stopped talking to me. As in they never make the effort to say anything if I come into the kitchen.
If I do say Hi, they never bother to say hi back anymore.

This all started two weeks ago, and just yesterday we happened to be on the same bus as each other and completely ignored one another.

There are some guys and four girls in my house, one girl being myself.

The two 'ignoring' girls fell out with the other girl over two months ago. I always tried to keep close with both 'sides'.
But recently (no idea why) these two girls have started ignoring me completely as well.

I have stopped speaking to them because theres no poi...

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Should I dump him?


Posted Saturday December 13 2014, 12:20 am

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs. we live together and we love each other. But a lot has changed and we don't do anything anymore. He asks for money every time I get paid. And all I wanna do is hang out with him. But I'm just confused about everything. What should I do?

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I'm getting tired


Posted Friday December 12 2014, 6:02 pm

This question is about my mom. Everywhere I turn to ask for help with verbal abuse regarding a parent, I always get stuck because most places that deal with abuse deal with relationships and marriages. It is rare that at almost 24, I am still living with my family. But, please let me explain. I come from a very, very controlling family. I almost went away for college, but they begged me to stay. Since then, I have not had the money to move out. Everything is SO expensive. I know that people have advised me to get a roommate. But, it's a lot easier said than done. People don't just want to live with other random people. This is not a college dorm. I don't have any friends. And my family is pretty much the same as my mom. I think it would be ...

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