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why do I feel so upset?
I've been having a sexual relationship with a manager within my company... Not very often and Not for very long... I met with him last night and things were different than before. Before I even realized what was happening he had 1 hand around my throat And the other slapping my face... I felt paralysed. (I am an abuse survivor) then he proceeded with anal, no lube... Didn't ask me I just took it. We didn't talk about it afterward but now I'm a wreck emotionally and physically... I don't know what happened I trusted him. Why do I feel so emotionally unstable about this?
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The short answer go to the police about being assaulted. You really have no choice. He has probably done this to others. He may be your boss and you may lose a gig but believe me its necessary to come forward. You also need counseling to help deal with this emotionally. Those feelings are normal.
Incidentally, look up Jian Ghomeshi on Google and how he was a powerful broadcaster/actor and for years did the same thing as the manger did with you. He's in huge trouble. Perhaps reading his story and that of victims will lead you to come forward and say something to people who can deal with him.
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