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hi there, so the prob is there r 2 guys ... guy A is hawtt n amazing n the sex life is amazing with him n exciting and fun buttt we have been in this friends with benefit for bout a year now .. i told him i like him but he said "time shall tell" ... n even after that response we have hooked up a few times. we only talk when either of us wants to have sex.
Guy B is rll nice n the conversations with him r amazing .. met him recently .. the sex was grt too .. alot of heat but .. he is not that gud looking at all ... n he thinks we r dating because we hooked up a few times ... there was an incident where he wanted me to kiss him publicly n i couldnt ... but we talk alot.
i cant decide if i should go ahead with this guy B n finish it with guy A .. tho guy A does know i life him n things r changing too slowly .. tho i rll wanna be with guy A .. but since he is an asshole i cant wait n reject nice guys like guy B ... but at the same time if i go ahead with guy B shouldnt that be unfair for him .. help!
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You will come across many Hawth looking guys in your lifetime, whether you are single or in a committed relationship or married. You body will respond with wondering what sex might be like with the other guy. But it is practical to have sex with every hot looking guy we come across. In fact, other than the sex, the guy may not be right for you at all. When you say you "like", are you looking for a guy who will be attracted to you and at first like some things about you, want to date to discover more about you at which point he decides you aren't right and breaks up or falls in love and wants a committed relationship or getting married? If you are a young teen, there's no need to be in a hurry to get to committed relationship. Too many skip the steps in between, acting only on their sexual attraction, which is important but neglecting the friendship part. What is a best friend to you? Think about your girlfriends. Good close buddies. How do they treat you? A male in relationship with you should be both your best friend but with the added benefit of romance and love. If you are an adult, it is still a good time to start learning how to take dating more seriously other than just temporarily satisfying some of your desires. You have to know yourself well, the way you would need to know to talk to a potential employer on a job interview. What is special about you, your talents, passions, who you are at core,your beliefs and morals, personality. etc.
From that determine what you need in a guy right now for where you are at, a need is important enough that if this guy doesnt have it, its a deal breaker, you won't date him. Then make your list in detail of what you are looking for in a guy. This will change as you discover more about yourself, defining yourself and discovering through experience what you do and dont like in a guy and the list will be refined also as you grow older and more mature and your ideals change. So take some time to think things out and I am sure you will figure out what is most important to you right now and stick with that guy.
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